Swarf remains

Wee! So excited.

Just because you did something wrong in the past doesn’t mean you can’t advocate against it now. It doesn’t make you a hypocrite. You just grew. Don’t let people use your past to invalidate your current mindset.

Could look at this forever

And that’s the scary part. Because it’s true.

choose a partner who is good for you. not good for your parents. not good for your image. not good for your bank account. choose someone who’s going to make your life emotionally fulfilling.

I wish people would stop saying “It’s July. Well done for wasting half a year.” Did you make someone smile in the past six months? Did you stroke a cat or throw a stick for a dog? Did you learn a new fact or teach someone a new joke? Did you laugh, cry, scream or sing in the past six months? Because if so, congratulations for not wasting your time at all.

I really needed this

Yep same here. It's nice to be appreciated. Even if it's by myself for the little things. "Oh you actually got out of bed and went to work when the rest of us wanted all of us to just say fuck it and stay in? Amazing. You did well, we are so glad that you are a part of us."

does anyone else get insanely romantically frustrated, like i know sexual frustration is a thing but sometimes i get super intense cravings for soft kisses or make out sessions or cuddling naps or things like that and it’s way more frustrating to me than sexual cravings

Pretty much.

I love hearing “I saw this and thought of you”

Always.