it is illegal to be mean to me

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thinking about pregnancy it's kinda crazy how as a girl and woman you're actually not taught how to be pregnant or what to do or anything. it's like there is all this pressure to get pregnant, but everyone waits for you to actually get pregnant to pass over the tome of knowledge to you. and I know like cynical women, whom I love, will tell you it's to not deter women by keeping the unsavory details from them. And sure, maybe some of that. but even basic shit is obfuscated by euphemism. when you find out you're pregnant it alluded to that you should "go to your doctor." okay but that's actually an obstetrician, who don't typically see women until they're actually pregnant. I didn't fully understand this until a few years ago when I looked up myself, because of considering pregnancy. It's like culturally we're still stuck in this modesty mindset of pregnancy. This is something to discuss quietly with your mother once you've actually fallen, dearie. You will learn as you go by trusting your big brain doctor and listening to the grown women in your life kind of guess with you based on all the cockamamie ideas they've pick up along the way. It's all natural so why should you wonder now about calories and food scheduling and sleep goals when you're not even pregnant even if, uhhh, the way you're living now that might be huge adjustment. idk I've just been thinking about it a lot, that even though it works out fine for most it seems like this old school mindset is pervasive in this passively insidious way. am I making sense? women should be the experts in this topic but most women are mildly underinformed at best.

don’t feel bad. it’s what he would do to a pregnant woman

well i just think that we should recenter talamasca the secret order from now on

we should definitely recenter talamasca the secret order

So many little ways that hatred of some underclass — immigrants, the homeless, the young — requires making things worse for everyone so those in the under class don't get anything nice either. Whole smorgasbord of shooting yourself in the foot out of spite

have to keep ourselves poorer just to keep brown people out. can't have public bathrooms because the homeless might use them. have to play high-pitched noise to keep teens away. we are letting the cruelest people among us make our lives worse so they can be hateful

the point of fanfiction is to write something so self indulgent that nobody else has thought of it before or cares