Black Tourmaline

Early 20th century diamond bracelet by Tiffany’s, circa 1910 

So I tried SA this weekend after feeling pretty indifferent towards it for the past few years. I’ve heard the whispers of discrimination towards black women on this app but I figured, what’s the harm?

Just when I thought the sugar bowl on SA was getting sweet and man.. it was getting sweet..

BOOM. SUSPENSION.

Completely unprecedented.

Completely unwarranted.

SUSPENSION.

I know for sure I didn’t violate any terms but it inspired me to document the trials and tribulations of the “Brown Sugar Bowl”..

Remember I said when you peep game- join in. This is a potential problem we have to deal with in men of all groups because we are seen as being at the bottom. Therefore, we need to be equal opportunity women and vet them all the same. Men of certain backgrounds will tend to meet your standards more often, but keeping your options open across the board will help your odds. The mistake black women have made through and through is that while may require a white man to have it together we tend give other men passes and for some women it’s vice versa. Don’t be either, wether a man is black, white latino or Asian, you need to vet him like a high maintenance women. Having a diverse network will help you get a bigger palette.

Do not factor in his possible systemic problems; your mood should be “fuck you pay me”.

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