Hello, I am a 31 year old enby, I use He/Them pronouns. I go by Aramis as my nome de scène. If you know me IRL, you don't.
I am a Dominant, but I am a Soft Dom/Service Top. So if you're looking for someone hardcore, off ye feck. I prefer Sir or Daddy to Master or Owner but please refrain from calling me an honorific until something develops.
I am polyamourous and live with my spouse. I am also AuDHD, so please communicate directly with me, I struggle with social cues. I recently have started identifying as placiosexual, I much prefer bringing pleasure to others and don't really care for it being reciprocated outside of text.
This blog is for horny blogging/finding poly/kinky mutuals as well as getting out some hard feelings every once in a while.
Into
Good girls/boys/third option (love, pet, darling, sweet one, little one, etc.) I'm already married to a brat, I'm really not looking for another one.
I am down to chat and role-play, but please specify if that is what you are looking for or if you are seeking something more.
Praise - giving
Knotting - giving
Spankings - giving
Choking - giving
Body Worship - giving
Biting - giving and receiving
Scratching - giving and receiving
Begging - giving (situational) and receiving
Oral - giving, I only like receiving in text form
Breeding - strictly a kink, I cannot have nor want children of my own.
Overstimulation/Edging/Denial - as a punishment
Voyeurism/Exhibitionism - I like watching my sub play with someone else or watching others play. I can be talked into playing publicly.
Shibari/Kinbaku - would love more experience with
Lactation - curious about
Puppy play/Kitten play - curious about
Somno - curious about
CNC/Free Use - Curious about
Intox - Curious about
Feel free to ask for my BDSM test results or my kink sheet
NOT INTO
Rape and Incest
Degradation - I already struggle with unsavory thoughts, I don't like to give or receive degradation
Misgendering/Detransitioning
Bodily Fluids - Scat, watersports, vomit, diapers
Beastiality
Feederism
Heavy Impact
Race Play
Backmail
DNI
Minors (Obvi)
TERFs. MAGA, Trumpers, AI simps, Fascists and Nazis, you can fuck all the way off and then some.
Anyone under 25, I am too old for you.
Asks and DMs are open to anyone 25+
I will block you if you do not have your age in your bio or you're an asshole.
You have been warned. I will NOT be policing myself on MY blog, I have listed everything I am and am not into, so if something squicks you, it is YOUR responsibility to block the tags and block me. No one is responsible for monitoring your triggers but you.
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