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I am a Dominant, but I am a Soft Dom/Service Top. So if you're looking for someone hardcore, off ye feck. I prefer Sir or Daddy to Master or Owner but I do not ask to be called an honorific until something develops.

I am polyamourous and live with my spouse. I am also AuDHD, so please communicate directly with me, I struggle with social cues. I recently have started identifying as placiosexual, I much prefer bringing pleasure to others and don't really care for it being reciprocated outside of text.

This blog is for horny blogging/finding poly/k!nky mutuals as well as getting out some hard feelings every once in a while.

Into

Good girls/boys/third option (love, pet, darling, sweet one, etc.) I am already married to a brat, I'm not looking for another one.

I'm down to chat or role-play, I'm not actively looking for a new relationship but if one evolves I could be interested in negotiating.

Praise - giving

Breeding - strictly a kink, I cannot have nor want children of my own. If something develops with someone who has them already I could be open to discussing my role for the future.

Knotting - giving

Spankings - giving

Using overstimulation as a punishment

Oral - giving, only like receiving in text form

Biting - giving and receiving

Scratching - giving and receiving

Begging - recieving

Vampire the Masquerade - just checking you're reading

Choking - giving

I play a Ventrue - and you wonder where my control issues come from

Voyeurism - I like watching my sub play with someone else or watching others play.

Shibari/Kinbaku - would love to experiment more with

Lactation - extremely curious about

Puppyplay - curious about

Somno - curious about

CNC/Free Use - must talk extensively before the scene but can be convinced

Intox - must talk extensively before the scene and have strict adherence to traffic light/safewords

Feel free to ask for my BDSM test results or my kink sheet.

DNI

Minors (obviously)

R*pe and incest - my history is my own to reveal

Degradation - I already struggle with unsavory thoughts I don't like to give or receive degradation

Misgendering/detransition

TERFs, MAGA, Trumpers, Elon Bros, Fascists and Naz!s, you can fuck all the way off.

Anyone under 25, I am too old for you.

Bodily fluids - sk@t, watersport, diapers, vomit, etc.

Asks and DMs are open to anyone 25+

I will block you if you do not have your age in your bio or you're an asshole.

You have been warned. I will NOT be policing myself on MY blog, I have listed everything I am and am not into, so if something squicks you, it is YOUR responsibility to block the tags and block me. No one is responsible for monitoring your triggers but you.