NPD culture it's thinking that you're immune to having an FP until your FP has turned on you and you have one of the worst break downs you've ever felt. I'm so angry that I let anyone ever get that close to me. Besides, they were meant to be so pathetic they would never turn on me in the first place. You think you can live without me? Then I hate you! I hate you more than anything!!

does anyone else feel bad for having standards??

npd culture is genuinely being terrified of not being good. it sends suck a shock of pure terror. absolute fear. it’s so bad help me

avpd (traits) culture is just . genuinely accepting the fact that you’d rather leave people while they have a good image of you in their mind , than continuing to interact with them and risk them hating you

npd culture is trying so hard to care when someone is venting/upset/having mental health issues. and sometimes you kind of can to some extent. but sometimes when someone is having a mental health issue you used to have but have worked through to some extent, it feels like “come on ‘we’(read: i)’ve been through this stuff already there’s no need for this” and not being able to care about it.

bpd culture is your fp talking about wanting to make new friends and immediately going "HE'S GOING TO LEAVE ME HE'S GOING TO FUCKING LEAVE ME AND FORGET ABOUT ME"

avpd culture is leaving your loved ones on delivered for hours because you want time for yourself & feeling such overwhelming guilt and dread when you're finally ready to be around people, since you've been away for so long. but you know you'll only do it over and over again so all you can do is give them empty pathetic apologies that you'll repeat in just a couple of hours

it really sucks to be someone who’s actually not good enough