Currently I'm doing mostly stonathan and anti jncy/anti stncy analysis posts
Disclaimer: While I do not like either stncy or jncy (saying it as a former shipper of the latter) I do like and respect all the characters individually.
The subtle queercoding of the stncy "study" scene in 1x01 + follow up (It's all about Steve/Jonathan and Nancy/Barb) and what became of the dog plushie afterwards (anti jncy) + the entire journey of the dog plush
Steve and Jonathan might have a shared past no one except the two knows about and some more evidence
Jonathan expecting Nancy to visit him in California (and Steve being the one who would have actually done it if he were in Nancys position)
What Jonathan truly wants and needs (Nancy could never give him any of it) and how he projects it onto Nancy + addition 1
What Steve truly wants (it isn't Robin obviously but it isn't Nancy either)
The "starring lady" of Jonathan's photos in S1 is Steve Harrington (based on a theory by @anime97-99)
The alleyway scene and Nancy as the one Steve is actually jealous of. It gets revealed in how Steve never makes his provocations about Jonathan stealing his girlfriend
"Only love makes you crazy" doesn't work for jncy
When words don't meet actions - how the Demogorgon fight reveals Steve as the one Jonathan is actually interested in
Steve's not-present of the camera in S1 and how it works as symbol of selfless love + Addition 1
Jonathan's attempt to reconnect with Steve (S2) and how Tina's party reveals Jonathan's desire to do it with Steve through symbolism
About the infamous Murray scene + part 2 (and how he tricked Nancy and Jonathan to conform to his wishes) and how Murray still managed to uncover Jonathans true feelings + Addition 1 and more summarized proof
The true build up of jncy in Season 2 and a more thorough explanation for the role Owens, the receptionist lady and Murray played in it <- Nancy and Jonathan are conforming to the expectations of total strangers
The biggest lesson of Steve's life is loving selflessly and showing respect for the feelings of others
Steve sending Nancy to be with Jonathan in S2 and how it works as another symbol of selfless love for Jonathan
Being benched - how Steves spy mission with Dustin shows us ho he really feels in S3 and how it's still relevant in early S4 (It's all about Steve feeling guilty for what he's done)
Steve's attempt to reconnect with Jonathan in S3 and in S4. + Addition 1 and how he parallels Mike Wheeler
Weeds, safety and Steve (possible S5 stonathan foreshadowing) and my prediction on how it might play out in S5
The subtleties of stonathan (an attempt at portraying a time line from S1 up until S4)
The disappearance of Nancy Wheeler (When she's with Jonathan and Steve, she seems to disappear quite often)
Jncy is as incompatible as Barbie and He-Man (anti jncy)
Nancy and Jonathan can only find their fulfillment in different spheres of life (domestic vs. worldly spheres of life)
Fighting for and against safety (why S3 jncy doesn't understand each other)
Shared trauma as another reason as to why jncy doesn't work
Why Season 4 suddenly decided to bring stncy back (Spoiler: It didn't)
Why it's very easy to prefer stncy over jncy (although by S4 they are basically the same) and some more evidence
Jncy paralleling Lonnie Byers
Jncy ends on a broken promise
Robin's type and why Tammy Thompson represents a failed Nancy Wheeler (ronance!)
How Robin could help Nancy process her grief in S5 (more ronance!)
Why I stopped shipping jncy
Some more small-ish mostly Steve-centric posts
Steve "The Hair" Harrington
Roses for Mr. Wheeler?
Jonathan beating up Steve doesn't count?
What happens when Steve is busy with spycraft? (and how it parallels Mike Wheeler in Season 4)
Steve Harrington and Mike Wheeler begging for forgiveness
Nancy and Jonathan cannot stay true to themselves while being in a relationship
Steve is so a virgin - Did stncy not do it after all in S1?
Nancy needs a challenge, not a yes-man (ronance)
How it looks like Nancy is kissing a girl at Tina's party
The club of mismatch makers
If you want to read more stonathan analysis posts I recommend checking out my wonderful mutual @bylerlipglances and their posts HERE
You can also check out #my meta #my posts and #asks for more of my posts
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When it comes to Nancy, Jonathan and their relationship it's like this:
If you want
Nancy to stay true to herself
Jonathan to stay true to himself
and jncy to stay together
you're asking for the impossible.
Pick two. Seriously, pick two because you cannot have all three.
You're either asking Nancy to give up who she is in order to stay with Jonathan or you're asking Jonathan to give up who he is in order to stay with Nancy.
Imho it's just not worth it. We're watching Nancy and Jonathan being miserable season after season all while we're asking them to stay together when they don't really want to.
As for me I'd rather have Jonathan and Nancy to stay true to themselves and find their happiness elsewhere. Sometimes loving someone also means giving them the opportunity to be who they actually are.
Sometimes loving someone means we have to let them go.
Like Jonathan and Nancy need to let go of each other.
Ever noticed how the odd seasons show all the characters of our (second) favorite love triangle at their worst?
S1: Steve is an ass
S3: Nancy is an ass
S5: Jonathan is an ass
Maybe it is a bit like the saying goes: If you don't love them at their worst, you don't deserve them at their best.
From a general standpoint it's so interesting to see though as you can learn a lot about about all three of them and their character flaws if you try to look for why they act a certain way even if their behavior does indeed deserve criticism.
i feel burdened with the knowledge of jancy being entirely incompatible, and literally sabotaging each other from growing as people
i used to like jancy. i saw it happening. i didnt look deep at all. they appeared cute and i liked them individually as characters, so hey, why wouldnt they be together?
and then i discovered stonathan and i LOVED it. perfect couple, insane chemistry. great. im a multishipper so jancy was fine to me, i could ignore it and agree that they were also good if someone brought it up.
but then... you.
i read your posts. i started to see that stonathan went so much deeper than i thought. this was a delight. it was beautiful. i felt like i couldnt stop winning, life was good, i felt on top of the world..
what i didnt know is the there was resentment brewing, because i was also understanding jancys flaws, an eye opener for me (despite how blatant it seems in hindsight). but everything was still fine.
its not like jancy is as bad as mileven, right???
bruh. i literally.. after reading your entire post breaking down jancy, reblogs and all (you know the one)
i can no longer stand jancy. i am a decent person so i keep opinions to myself. but... but i have all this knowledge now. this knowledge of why jancy doesnt work and stonathan does and i.. i cant do anything with it. im helpless. jancy haunts me.
and its crazy because they would literally be so good as friends. like platonic stobin. but no.. forced to pretend to love each other. damn
so anyway the ask is am i just taking this way too seriously? and how do you cope with the burden of this knowledge?
especially when someone brings up their love for jancy... THEY DONT KNOW WHAT WE KNOW!!!! or they do?? and dont care??? help
steve, this is also how i feel when i see jancy now. depression and yearning for jonathan byers (truth nuke)
also crazy that the fandom glorifies jancy in their mind, just like steve does LOL
Your story seems very similar to mine except I was even worse.
I also loved jncy once. I thought I could never say anything bad about them whatsoever because of perfect there were for each other, how well they could help each other out. I thought much like Robin in S4 that they were the power couple everyone should aspire to be. I thought there is no nonsense between Jonathan and Nancy as they are both mature and trusted each other enough that their storylines throughout the seasons don't need the constant reinforcement of feelings or reliance on each other like all the other couples seem to do.
Look if you feel like you've been delusional before know that I was also like that. I even tried to look for fics for them once but then ended up realizing that most of what I could find just listed them as a side couple to byler which ultimately made me stop looking.
Then I also started to like stonathan and felt so bad about it because how could I do this to jncy? Finally a straight couple that has chemistry and is so incredibly well written and all I could think about is pairing them up with other people (Or just Jonathan with Steve at first. Ronance came later.)
I even felt bad when there was a jncy break-up in a stonathan fic I was reading. It literally hurt my soul at first despite me usually being a multishipper and being able to deal with this.
So yeah. I've also been there. I know where you are coming from.
Then like you I also started to take stonathan seriously as a potential canon ship back in April last year after @bylerlipglances showed me their findings. What changed me was the fact that I knew bylers would eat all this evidence up if it would have been about their ship and I just thought that if it would have been true for byler, why would it not be true for any another ship? Get what I am trying to say? Just because all of it isn't directly about byler (but stonathan instead) doesn't mean that it's meaningless.
Then I also started to look at jncy more. In particular Nancy's behavior towards Jonathan in S3 and it felt like I was hit by a ton of bricks. The way I purposefully avoided to take all of their toxicity seriously just because I wanted to believe in them as couple shocked me.
Because the only kind of criticism I saw up until this point were some people saying how the narrative in S3 should have sided sided more with Jonathan during jncy's big fight as he also has some valid points in needing the job to pay for collage. From todays standpoint I wouldn't even say that the narrative sides with Nancy at all. It sides with their relationship. Everything the narrative does helps Jonathan and Nancy stay together regardless of it means for their characters individually.
I have however never seen anyone talk about the way Nancy actually treats Jonathan.
The way she knowingly destroyed his photos three times(!) or how she is ready to wreck his car just to be at work on time or how she doesn't listen to Jonathan at all. No one ever mentioned this and it also kinda deserves to be discussed as a topic separate from their conflict because no matter if Nancy was right or wrong she never had the right to treat him that way.
But looking at it now I feel it's also important to keep in mind that Nancy usually isn't like this. I think her behavior should still be addressed but also not blown out of proportion. She was in a really bad state in S3. Just like Steve was in a bad state in S1 and Jonathan in S5.
But anyway, how do I cope with it? I honestly don't know. After I felt so overwhelmed by all the stonathan content that is in the show but also gets heavily overlooked by pretty much everyone I just tried to get the word out as much as possible while still being respectful to everyone as I also didn't and still don't want to hurt anyone who likes the ship.
Let me tell you though it was also a pretty isolating experience at first (only at first though because I also met some really great people who discussed things with me, told me their thoughts or just left awesome tags under my posts; much love goes out to all of you!) because people who followed me for byler rarely engaged with my content anymore (which is completely fair tbh; I don't blame anyone) but also because last year pre S5 also wasn't a huge time for stonathan.
And yeah, I am with you. I also can't stand jncy anymore. To me it's up there with mlvn and rvickie. None of these really work. They all have similar problems and they are all the safe option to a more risky choice all involved characters aren't willing to take.
Jncy in the end broke up and yes you can consider it an act bravery on Nancy's and Jonathan's part and I am not going to dismiss that but here is the kicker: It was necessary to save their relationship. If it would not have happened Nancy and Jonathan would have started to hate each other sooner rather than later. During the break-up scene we already see them admitting to having done petty things to in order to hurt the other. As of this moment Jonathan still felt bad about doing it. If their relationship would have continued there would have come a time where he would have no longer felt guilty about things like giving Nancy's stuff away. Instead hurting Nancy like this might have become one of the few sources of (cruel) joy he would have had in his life and the same would be true for Nancy. It wouldn't just have poisoned their relationship, it would have also turned them both into very ugly and spiteful people.
I am so so so glad their break-up prevented this from happeing.
That being said, their break-up didn't necessarily make them happy either. It just got them into a position from where they could have gone for happiness but in the end did not. Much like everyone else in the show they also choose satisfaction over true happiness.
Their break-up only prevented them from living a life of unhappiness. In fact it was more than necessary for them both to even get a chance to live somewhat normal lives that at least satisfy them. That tbh is such a huge thing to me like you would not believe.
Jonathan's and Nancy's relationship was so toxic that it had to be broken up in order for them both to not turn into complete assholes. Both can't even reach a basic feeling of satisfaction in their own life if they are together and yeah ... it's not a very popular opinion to have.
Most people don't see it like this. They think jncy breaking up comes out of nowhere but it's actually one of the very few things the show correctly foreshadowed since S2. Ever since jncy's first kiss.
Jonathan and Nanccy would have been better off as friends indeed. Friends who can support each other and uplift one another when they need it because then they could also engage with one other in a way where they don't need to scale back on their own personality or compromise on things they hold so dear.
They did went through a lot together and there is meaning to that. They could be platonic soulmates like stobin but wouldn't hang out as much as stobin does because jncy also bores tf out of each other.
They dislike what the other likes. They could never listen to music together and just enjoy the moment because Nancy hates Jonathan's music. (She only mentioned "The Clash" but I am pretty sure it goes further than that.) They both seem to love reading but again their taste in books is so different that they aren't willing to engage with the other's favorite book either. So starting a book club together is also out of the question. They can't even get high/ drunk together and have fun because they also disapprove of the other's favorite method of escaping from reality.
It is really no wonder they haven't spend much time together after S1 because there isn't really much they could do that is fun to them both.
I honestly don't know if you're taking this too seriously though. Bylers however are also sometimes pretty obsessed with mlvn and with taking their relationship apart. If you don't think that they're overdoing it, you're not overdoing it either and tbh not a lot of people are even saying anything against jncy. Most of the people who do are stncys and then there is me. It was admittedly kinda amusing looking through the anti jncy tag sometimes and seeing myself there surrounded by stncys who I also do not agree with.
Thing is while stncy is also pretty bad, people in general are at least aware of it and talk about it sometimes. I also agree with most of their criticism which then in turn also means that I don't have to talk about them as much. Jncy on the other hand is the one ship you feel like you shouldn't touch or criticize. The right choice next to a wrong one while they are in fact more like a choice between pest and cholera.
But yeah, how to cope with it? I tried to get the word out as much as possible but my blog is also pretty heavily focused on analysis anyway so that is an easy thing for me to do. Other than that you can talk about it to people who you think are willing to listen or keep it all to yourself. Or find yourself some likeminded people. You will however not be able to convince the masses.
I think most of the jncys don't know how bad they are as a ship. They just think of jncy like I (and you as well) did. Pretty cool and loving couple. Also better than stncy.
It's an experience like we're watching two different shows. (Although I am pretty sure that they feel exactly the same should they stumble upon my posts.)
Let me give you an example.
A while ago netflix released some new S3 posters and someone here on tumblr made a post about the one from the second episode as it featured Jonathan and Nancy. You can see the poster on netflix official instagram here. I am not going to name the op who made the post over here and I am also not going to link it. I want them to be left alone.
What I am going to say also isn't directly about op either, it's more about all the positive comments it got. Like people were happy they got jncy content which is fair if you feel like you're starved and you like the ship. No one however seemed to take an issue with the content shown to us which I find very curious since in terms of jncy ship representation netflix couldn't have chosen worse. (This though probably wasn't there goal anyway and overall it's still a good picture representing the episode)
People really do not realize what they're doing because if they would or had half a mind about taking their issues seriously then they wouldn't have been so happy about said poster.
The scene it is referencing shows us Jonathan noticing that there is something wrong with the rat. Then he tries to tell Nancy about it. She however does not listen to him at all and instead storms out of the cellar as she wants to follow her own lead. Jonathan then quickly follows. Just after that the rat turns into meaty goo.
If Nancy would have listened to Jonathan aka the person she is supposed to love and trust then her whole investigation could have been cut short because Jonathan was right. There was something wrong with the rat and they would have seen it if only they would have stayed a little longer. Likewise if Jonathan would have been more insistent on making Nancy stay and look at the rat instead of blindly following her, Nancy would have also gotten her proof much sooner.
See, what I am trying to say here? If jncy would have worked better as a couple or even as a team then their whole investigation could have been cut short. They did not work well together though so they had to go the long route instead.
It matters so much because it shows us what Jonathan and Nancy's relationship is like when it is just about them as people. No loved ones to be saved or to get justice for. No UD. Just real life which in the end should not be overlooked since Jonathan and Nancy have no aspiration to be monster hunters for life or want to see their loved ones in constant danger (Note that by S5 even the latter doesn't help them anymore)
This scene is so emblematic for what is wrong with Jonathan and Nancy in S3. Nancy doesn't listen and only does what she wants. Meanwhile Jonathan follows her every step without much protest even though he doesn't really want to. (Remember though that Nancy overall wasn't at her best in S3)
This isn't couple goals. It's couple failure all across the board and people do not realize this at all. Otherwise they wouldn't have been so happy about said poster or would have at the very least mentioned that there might be something undesirable here.
The jncy glorification goes hard and so many people are just unwilling to see how deep their issues go. This then inevitably lead to a lot of disappointment after S5 and their break-up which they had coming since at least S3 if not S2.
Nancy chooses Robin when she can which should also tell us something. The way Jonathan who is one of the most empathetic characters in the whole series can not even begin to give a f about Nancy and what's going on inside her in S5 should also tell us something. And no their avoidance of each other isn't because Vecna is pulling them apart. It's because they were both pressured into being a couple and cursed with loving each other in a way that holds no truth to them as characters and they are both so done with it.
All this glorification in the show also comes with so much pressure. imagine being Nancy and then being told that you and your boyfriend are a power couple but you hardly feel it and are instead kinda happy that said boyfriend isn't with you right now and you're also a bit angry at him since you suspect he's been lying but you cannot tell for sure.
Or imagine being Jonathan when everyone expects you to go to a collage you do not want to go to with your perfect girlfriend who you don't really miss at all even though you haven't seen her in a long time.
The conforming goes so hard with jncy it's not even funny but everyone is just unable to so it.
Their entire relationship could be a very interesting study of a couple who was doomed from the start and then had to stay together due to circumstances and expectations of others. Too bad that so few people see them that way.
But also thank you so much for sharing your story and your thoughts with me. Trust me, I know how it feels. Jncy haunts me as well because no matter what their story still dominates the overall storyline and as such it cannot be ignored.
⏯️ SYNC: The first I love You, part 1 (the truth about Tammy meaning true love)
confirmation for byler, ronance, stonathan and a bit of henclair in 2 parts! If you don’t believe in syncs, try before you deny!
Only after s5 (and Will calling Mike Tammy) this sync makes sense as it never could have before. I want to remind also of my discovery that Mike is Will’s Suzie, and also about @greenfiend’s find that Tammy means twin.
Under my sync to another OST @armencias suggested this one, it was super informative and exciting, ty for the idea! 🫶🏻
[ part 2 ]
My focus was the common OST in these scenes, but I took full Robin’s coming out and, syncing the other ones, included their longer parts too. The sync lasts 05:58 and it might be not easy to watch all at once: all the scenes are packed to the brim with additional meanings, and it is easier to follow them shot by shot, so maybe it would work better if you read screenshots first — then the video will make more sense for you! And don’t forget part 2!
The scene shots are arranged from top to bottom in order of the episodes: 2x06, 3x07, 3x08. Enjoy!
1️⃣ Joyce wants Will transferred to another hospital — shot 3 says “Will’s room” on his boxes for moving to another place, the line “The mirror of your dreams” — Will will not be transferred, Joyce can just dream about it. Here my theory that Will was taken by the lab pre-s1 takes place: here’s the post about the “No trespassing” sign on his door hinting that “Will’s room” from 1x01 is not indeed in the Byers house and it’s an illusion.
2️⃣ Robin to Steve: “have you ever been in love?” “Well, you know, that’s not possible” — “The mirror of your dreams” — Steve’s assumption about him being in love with Nancy is false. — Steve: “Yep. Nancy Wheeler” — “The very best” — “Rhymes that keep their secrets” — Steve true love is his secret.
4️⃣ Dustin is irritated by lumax laughing at his song, Steve imitates the gunshot meaning Nancy but it aligns with Dustin — and Joyce unhappy with the doctors.
The line overlapping with Dustin is “Will unfold behind the clouds”. “I miss clouds, I miss you” is from Will’s letter released post s3, clouds = Mike. The verb “will” is often used in this sync as Will — subconsciously (further, but starting here).
1️⃣ Joyce asks what are they treating Will for. Then she will keep repeating “what is wrong with my boy?” Tbh, her whole sequence looks to me like “wrong” means “queer”, and this must be about his “treatment”. (It aligns with my theory that the Hawkins Lab numbers are queer people, and that’s why Lonnie took Will there.) However, Joyce is angry with them, their attitude. I must notice that every time she further asks “what is wrong with” aligns perfectly with the shots from other episodes with other characters, implying that these characters are all queer.
2️⃣ Robin says that Nancy “is such a priss”, her mood matches Dustin’s feeling that lumax butcher his song.
3️⃣ “Can anyone tell me what’s wrong with him?” — “Turns out not really.”
“Can anyone tell me what’s wrong with…” overlaps with a shot of Lucas blowing air kiss to Dustin, inviting him to “join them”. It overlaps also with Max, who also invites Dustin to join them.
1️⃣ “Can a single person in the room say what’s wrong with my boy?” overlaps with shots of Dustin and Max here.
2️⃣ The answers to Joyce and to Max (asking Dustin to sing) are “No.” and “You’re so funny, you should be on Carson”. In this sequence “no” from other shots stress each other very often.
3️⃣ “Are you still in love with Nancy?” — “You’re so funny, you should be on Carson”.
4️⃣ “What is wrong with my boy?” Steve: “I found someone better for me”. Dustin: “Suzie”. Suzie, like Tammy, means true love. We’ll see it soon.
I mixed up this first shot with the fourth from the previous set (sorry and believe me, it was not easy to sort them 🥸) but it’s not a big deal: I added the first shot to show you that:
1️⃣ This shot is “no” in all three scenes: doctors can’t answer Joyce, Dustin refuses to sing not for Suzie, Steve says he’s not in love with Nancy.
2️⃣ So, Dustin said that him singing is only for Suzie, his true love — the next shot is Lucas. It overlaps with Steve’s “someone better for me”.
3️⃣ Joyce’s wrong overlaps with shots of Lucas and Max.
4️⃣ Lumax start singing — it overlaps with the music player, the tape of Dr Owens saying that he has to: “stop the truth from spreading”.
I think it might hint at what is really going in the lab: my working theory (that connects to what I said about Will in the beginning of the post) is that the Lab might be working with queerness.
It also might mean that literally: that the truth about their queerness is not spread.
Steve says “it’s crazy”. We know from byler that crazy means love.
1️⃣ Dr Owens: “stop the truth from spreading by whatever means necessary”.
2️⃣ They sing: “turn around, look at what you see” that aligns with Steve pointing at Lucas in several shots (remember that the shots are arranged according to the episodes order?) speaking about Dustin who advised him to find his Suzie. Meanwhile, Lucas is also dancing under Steve’s gestures pointing at him. Lucas is Dustin’s Suzie, is his true love.
3️⃣ Robin asks who’s Suzie and we get a close up of Dustin, implying that he made up Suzie and she’s not real. Dustin is Suzie (as a character), he is his imaginary girlfriend. (They also look alike, I pointed that out in my theory why that could be done this way in this post.) Dustin shows the middle finger, lying “in their face”.
The way I see all of this is that ST that we know is most likely fully the Nina project, and even though we had them with Suzie singing to each other, real Dustin out of the program is in love with Lucas, and he lied about his girlfriend.
1️⃣ Visuals and the song lines keep telling us that Suzie is just Dustin’s imagination, the mirror of his dreams”, Steve says he’s not sure Suzie is real.
2️⃣ Now this intersects with Nancy’s hands. Steve is not sure his love for her is real. This also intersects with Will.
In my previous sync we discovered that Will IS real, while El is not, and I think it is the truth of the whole story. But I also theorise that Will was taken by the lab pre-s1, which can make his presence not completely real ST-plot-wise. He might be Mike’s corrupted memories about him — I am still figuring this out, and the post about Will is still in the works.
3️⃣ Nancy packing the tape matched Will packing the game.
1️⃣ Steve: “The point is the [person] I like…” matches Jonathan’s hands and Will’s close up from Mike’s POV.
DAMN, the 4th shot is the next one:
2️⃣ “It’s somebody that I didn’t even talk to in school”. Here we still have Jonathan’s hands from Steve’s perspective and Will from Mike’s.
For Mike, it also happens after their rain fight with Will because Mike ignores him.
3️⃣ Steve’s “And I don’t even know why” overlaps now Robin and two shots:
1) Jonathan and Nancy at Murray’s — hinting that Steve and Robin have loved them since school but didn’t talk to them there.
2) Vodka. Alcohol is our new synonym for love since here. Love-drunk, or, from the later screenshots: romantically obsessed.
So far here we have vodka, Steve speaking about his feelings to Jonathan, Robin thinking about her feelings to Nancy, and we see Mike worrying that Will can join another party. They all are obsessed.
1️⃣ Steve says: “Maybe bc [someone] would’ve make fun of me”. Murray gives a toast: “To taking down the man” who could make fun of queerness. I don’t know about Murray’s queerness (hey, Mr Clarke), but I drag your attention to Jonathan and Nancy drinking alcohol. They’re obsessed. Mike happily chuckles to this toast.
2️⃣ Fear that someone makes fun of your queerness belongs to Steve, but also we see the shots of Robin to this phrase, and Mike’s POV of Will.
3️⃣ Although Will says: “Not possible.” Love and queerness will overcome the fear.
4️⃣ Will and Jonathan — THEY ARE THE SAME PICTURE, Carl!! Just look at them!!
Steve says why he was afraid to talk to his love. We see identical shots of Will and Jonathan, showing Mike’s and Steve’s thoughts. For Steve we have the 2nd shot of Jonathan drinking vodka.
1️⃣ Steve says: “I should’ve been hanging out with them this whole time.” Jonathan: “I guess so”.“They’re so funny.” We see Robin at this moment, we also see her and Steve’s thoughts about Nancy and Jonathan. At Steve’s words Jonathan ‘sighs’.
2️⃣ “Our parents” — “Would be so proud if they knew what you were up to.”
1️⃣ Murray suggests to tell the parents they’re at Tammy’s. Robin will take this advice to tell Steve about her love.
2️⃣ All Steve’s compliments towards his love are complemented by the long frame with Jonathan. Robin and Steve both think that Nancy and Jonathan are smart and funny. Nancy appears to Robin’s sadness.
3️⃣ Jonathan in 3x08 says that his life is packed, there’s no room for him — Murray suggest in 2x06 them with Nancy to take his guest room 👇
⏺️ Being Steve’s love is uncomfortable for Robin. Jonathan and Nancy do not want to stay. They all are uncomfortable. Robin with Steve like Nancy and Jonathan — are friends.
1️⃣ The beginning of Nancy’s phrase is “What if… I don’t let you go” — Murray laughs at it. Robin is uncomfortable that much that Steve thinks that she had an OD there. This is also Jonathan’s reaction to Nancy’s suggestion to not let him go, and his reaction to Murray’s suggestion to stay.
2️⃣ Jonathan comes up with an excuse. Robin says she’s alive (okay). Murray says they lie.
1️⃣ Nancy suggests to hide Jonathan in their basement. Robin sighs, she’s uncomfortable — it’s Jonathan reaction.
2️⃣ Jonathan says Nancy’s dad would love [her to conform, to have a boyfriend]. Steve crawls on the dirty toilet floor.
3️⃣ Murray says they are young and attractive and that they have history, shared trauma, the real shit. Nancy suggests to hide Jonathan in the tent. We still see the dirty toilet floor.
4️⃣ Nancy suggest to hide Jonathan like El.
Mike and El are young, attractive, have history, shared trauma, the real shit. Mike’s dad would love Mike having El in their basement or in a tent, not letting her go. The floor is disgusting.
1️⃣ The chemistry-history-shared trauma-the real shit is blood and puke.
2️⃣ Murray asks: “Trust issues?” Steve asks: “What do you think?” Murray says: “Something to do with your dad?” — We see Jonathan and Nancy
3️⃣ Jonathan says “no, my dad is…” — Nancy says: “An asshole” to Jonathan. But Nancy also sighs to this line in 3x08. Most likely all of them: Jonathan, Nancy, Steve and Robin has not the best dads. (Steve is in the shot when Murray asks about the dad, Robin is in the shot matching “an asshole”.)
4️⃣ Steve says: “She’s awesome”, and we see Nancy. But then he asks: “What about the guy?” and Jonathan sighs.
1️⃣ “As a wise man once said” — “I think he’s on drugs, he’s not thinking straight” — “Probably like everyone”.
Be on drugs = be queer? Like being love-drunk? That’s important, as ST is full of drug references (check out trippygate), — I believe that is because drugs are used on the numbers by the Lab, presumably working on queer people there.
And we get a connection: being drugged/drunk is an altered state of consciousness. Being queer is being alternative. Queerness is about love. Love is an altered state of consciousness. Love-drunk.
2️⃣ Steve says that he’s thinking clearly. But thinking clearly is not to have an altered state of consciousness = to be queer. But Robin says he’s not. Murray says that thinking clearly = being afraid of accepting yourself for who you really are. (This damn phrase has always stood out to me as sounding too queer coded for Nancy from the perspective of 2x06, and now I see why!)
Jonathan and Nancy have shared trauma, shared experience of Robin’s “he’s not” addressed to Steve. Robin is also in the frame. Four of them have shared experience of being queer.
3️⃣ Murray says they retreat back to safety of…Steve — of Robin. Jonathan and Nancy — of each other. Robin says they don’t even know each other, Jonathan approves dabbling in the shared trauma of retreating back to safety a little more.
1️⃣ Murray demands the name from Nancy. Jonathan replies: Steve. Steve from 3x07 is his thoughts, while he’s in 3x08 is with Nancy.
2️⃣ Robin says Steve doesn’t really knows her [Nancy from the above]. But Nancy doesn’t really know Jonathan too: she’s puzzled when he says Steve. They look at each other in 3x08, but they don’t really know each other.
3️⃣ “We like Steve” to both, Jonathan and Nancy. Robin doubts that Steve would want to be her friend. He wouldn’t want to be Jonathan’s friend either. They all are also scared to be rejected by each other and to lose their friendships.
4️⃣ Nancy says that yes, she likes Steve. Steve says “no way that’s true”. Jonathan repeats his approval of shared trauma of retreating back to the safety of conformity: “what’s a little more?”
1️⃣ But Nancy doesn’t love Steve. And Robin doesn’t love Steve. And Jonathan chuckles softly.
2️⃣ “No, we… I mean, I do.” to Jonathan’s close up. Jonathan loves Steve, and it shocked him to his core. He’s laughing and ready to kiss in 3x08.
3️⃣ Robin likes Steve. Nancy says “No, we.. I mean, I do” aligning with it. Nancy likes Steve. Like Robin — as a friend.
4️⃣ Robin says “I really like you” which Steve hears like a possible confession. Jonathan and Nancy kiss. Murray says that this all is a lie.
1️⃣ “But I’m not like your other friends” (Jonathan and Nancy are in the shot) is a lie.
2️⃣ “And I’m not like Nancy Wheeler” is a lie. Because Nancy Wheeler is like Robin Buckley. Nancy Wheeler is queer.
3️⃣ Then we get a shot of Eleven to the line “not like Nancy Wheeler” which can be read in 3 ways: 1) “Eleven is not like queer Nancy Wheeler” 2) “Eleven is not like Robin’s illusion about Nancy Wheeler: they are queer, and Eleven is not” 3) “Eleven is not like lesbian Nancy Wheeler because Eleven is bisexual”.
I think the 3rd option might be the most accurate one. This sync doesn’t give enough details about elmax, aside from a nod to Max being “like Lucas flirting with Dustin”, which is pretty vague; this line also, as you see, can genuinely be read in different ways (the straight one included). Why I think that bisexuality is the case is because in this sync’s part 2 where we will explore their inner worlds with Mike, there are her emotions towards Mike, which may be not the true love (you’ll see), but she still has feelings for him. However it would be weird if the character representing the “strangeness” of it all (in different theories — queerness, byler or — Will in corruptiongate) would end up being just straight, right?
This assumption of her being bi is backed up by Robin’s idea of being “not like Nancy Wheeler”. If Eleven is queer at any point, and Nancy is queer, but Eleven is not like Nancy and she likes Mike, Eleven can be bi/pansexual, and that would reveal that Nancy is truly a lesbian woman.
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So, as I have told you before there were several thoughts going through my head when I read this first and I really hope you appreciate hearing about them. They are for the most part not directly related to this synch but rather to some of the individual scenes but I think they might still give some more context to what is going on.
I have written a lot about Jonathan, Steve, Nancy and Robin in the past what I say here is reflective of that. You don't have to believe everything I say at all and I don't mean it as an attempt to "know better" or anything. As said it's meant to give a bit of background on these characters because this theory of yours also reflects very well what is actually going on between them. You are not standing in a vacuum with all of this is all I am saying. Broader reading of the scenes also leads me to to the same or a similar conclusion.
Anyway, hope you enjoy.
Starting off with Tammy meaning twin and I do believe that if she's anyone twin she's Nancy's as both girls share basic personality traits. They are both confident in themselves, both face adversaries and both feel like Hawkins doesn't appreciate their talent enough which is why they seek recognition elsewhere. Both want to follow their dreams and make them come true. To both there is always something worth reaching for beyond the horizon.
It may sound weird at first and you might also think that we don't know enough about Tammy to even make such a judgement in the first place but you can easily deduce this from the very few things we do know about Tammy. Plus as you can see above Tammy also shares Nancy's S3 hairstyle and make-up which proves it even further.
Seen from Robin's perspective it makes perfect sense. If she fell for one girl why would she not fall for the other who shares her personality?
Now, I do not know if it means that Tammy never existed and is just a stand-in for Nancy (I don't think so but it is possible) or if Tammy in this case is more like a prototype for Nancy. Robin fell for someone who was much like Nancy but now it's finally time for the real deal.
I also don't hink "Tammy" means a love that's over and done. It's more like a memory from the past that still holds relevance today. Someone you once loved and who you're not over as you're still in love with them. This works for Will as well as Robin. (only in Robins case it's not directly Tammy but someone who is much like her; Robin still likes the same characteristics in women)
Moving on to the "What's wrong with my boy?" scene because while Joyce is obviously talking about Will here we should not forget that she has two boys. One of which is about to face a very life changing event at Murray's. He's also in the scene that directly follows this one.
Look, all I am saying here is that Will is not the only one who is "somehow wrong" and who might need a bit of parental concern.
It's so interesting to me that the "love makes you crazy" line works so incredibly well for so many characters except for the one it is directly applied to. We see it being true for Joyce and Jonathan with Will, for Nancy with Barb and also for Mike with Will. What makes it true for them all is that they are all motivated by their love for their person to do crazy and sometimes stupid things. Love makes you crazy is about motivation.
Then when you try to apply it to the two persons it is directly meant for it just falls flat. Nancy during S1 and beyond is never motivated by Jonathan. Likewise, Jonathan also isn't motivated by Nancy in S1 or beyond (the closest he came to was helping Nancy get justice for Barb in S2 but he also regretted it later when he thinks that Will might have been in need of him.)
In S1 though during the alleyway fight Jonathan also doesn't beat up Steve for Nancy although Flo certainly seems to think so. In fact Jonathan beats up Steve because of his brother. Also keep in mind that as soon as Steve turned his attention towards Jonathan Nancy was practically dead to both of them (disappearing again from their consciousness.) Steve also never made made any of his provocations about her. In fact what he says reads more like a hierarchy of things to say to get a reaction out of Jonathan. It's almost like he knows exactly what to say and you have to wonder why that is.
This next point is directly connected your synch though. You did not go over this part which is understandable although I do believe it also holds meaning for stonathan.
The tape mentions that the truth must be kept from spreading "just like those weeds there" Meanwhile we see Steve and Lucas pointing while they sing "Look at what you see." Yeah. Let's look at that. The weeds represent Steve and believe it or not there is a ton of weed symbolism going on between Jonathan and Steve.
Weeds here carry a double meaning. One of course is the thing you smoke but there are also the weeds you might find in your garden.
Murray here is symbolically pulling the weeds like he also later admits to. The weeds are meant to be Steve or Jonathan's feelings for Steve. The mention of them is relevant as Murray is heavily manipulating Jonathan and Nancy to become a couple which neither does really want. The consequence of it is then for Jonathan to forget about his true feelings and the person he actually loves: Steve.
If you do know anything about weeds though then you'll also know that that just pulling them is not enough to fully get rid of them. Weeds will always grow back. Rather fast i might add.
Meaning that try as he might Murray will not be able to rid Jonathan of his feelings for Steve. He may be able to temporarily override them but just like weeds they will come back even if they are momentarily (seemingly) gone.
Murray though will try again later in S5 and this time he'll use more drastic measures to get rid of the weeds/greens/Steve. He's ready to blow them up/ make Jonathan's love for Steve disappear by pressuring him to marry Nancy.
Moving on though because everything Steve says about Robin during the bathroom scene also fits Jonathan. In here Robin almost works like Jonathan's twin because there are certain characteristics Seve must have found in Robin that reminded him Jonathan. Both are outcasts considered to be freaks and while Robin and Steve are certainly friends I also have a theory that Jonathan was also Steve's friend once upon a time.
He also alludes to a more happy past with someone else. There was once a time where Steve laughed with someone like he's now laughing with Robin and you might really wonder who this someone was. Most likely not Tommy and Carol though since he also regrets having listened to their opinion too much in high school. Another suspect is Nancy but that also rings hollow not only because Steve in this scene mentions that he is no longer in love with her but also because he always tried to be someone else when he was with her in the past. Remember that pretending is his thing and he's good at it. For Nancy he tried to be the guy she seemed to like so much: Tom Cruise. Her loverboy as he calls him and then he goes so far as dressing up as Tom Cruise during the Halloween party in S2 while Nancy is dressed as Rebecca De Mornay. Both actors star in Risky Business which was also Tom Cruise's break through role.
(Imho though Steve got it all wrong about Tom Cruise being an actor Nancy is attracted to. When you look at the plot in "Risky Business" as well as "All the Right Moves" (Both are referenced in S1 and S2) you'll also notice that Tom Cruise in both movies plays High school students who have to overcome obstacles to get into collage. It seems more comedic in Risky Business while All the Right Moves seems more drama but the theme stays the same - at least as much as I can tell by reading their plots. Thing is I do believe that Nancy sees Tom Cruise more like a role model or someone she personally relates to. As we will later find out much like Tom Cruise in these movies she also desperately wants to go to collage and might find that there are certain societal prejudices or obstacles she would have to overcome)
Anyway does this seem like a relationship able to make Steve laugh to his hearts content? I don't think so.
Imho Robin in this scene also works like a mirror to the past. Steve is now laughing with Robin. So who else is there in Steve's past who's also an outcast, a freak, someone who comes from a poor background who Steve might have been too chicken for to be seen with in public with as it'd ruin his reputation? Yeah. You're guessing correctly here.
(However, please also note that there are also big meaningful differences between Jonathan and Robin)
The line from Nancy about hiding Jonathan in the basement is also so funny to me because that is exactly what they introduce us to in the beginning of S5 and it's only the prelude to the catastrophe that is their relationship in S5. Hiding in the basement is only a sign of how estranged Jonathan and Nancy become after all this time.
Let us also remember that chemistry or rather having chemistry together did play a role before. Remember that Nancy had a chemistry test back in the beginning of S1. Also remember who did not go with her that time? Right. That was Jonathan. She needed to leave him behind to pass the chemistry test. Then there is also Steve who she studies with for said test but if she were with him she wouldn't be able to pass said test either.
Despite Murray saying chemistry, trauma and shit is the stuff that keeps them together Nancy can't pass the test with either of the guys. No, for this she needed the person who was waiting for her: Barb. (Meaning the real chemistry is between Nancy and Barb, not Nancy and any of the guys)
There is also a scene later in S4 which I believe mirrors this one as Jonathan and Nancy are again put to the test but this time by Argyle. He says they can't pass the smell test and it is true. They can't. Nancy also really hates it when Jonathan is high. So who might be the one with whom Jonathan could pass the smell test? Possibly someone who like him also (sometimes) likes to smoke smelly plants from the earth? Yeah. That's Steve and also hello again weed symbolism.
So basically when put to the test, the straight relationships don't hold. They are the dirty floor. (Sidenote: Steve already has all this dirt/all these straight relationships over him; he's covered in it)
(Also note that Nancy actually rolls her eyes to Murray's line about shared chemistry while it is Jonathan who seems to listen very intensely)
Murray: Probably, like everyone, afraid of what would happen if you accepted yourself for who you really are and retreated back to the safety of - Name? Name? -
Jonathan: Steve.
I promise I'm almost done but first I wanna take a a closer look at this bit of conversation because I do believe it changes meaning depending on how you look at it.
Of course there is the queer meaning as Nancy cannot accept herself for who she is right now. She is probably a lesbian like you said but she's also very hesitant to follow her own feelings which most likely is still related to Barb and Nancy misses her dearly
There is also the implication (from a surface level reading) that Nancy could be who she truly is if she only ditched Steve and got together with Jonathan. Steve here also works as a bit of symbolism for (financial) safely, stability, marriage and family. This means that Nancy would be able to follow her dreams and not have to deal with any of the things Steve stands for if she were with Jonathan. HOWEVER this reading is in the end absurd if you look at how Jonathan truly thinks about Nancy. By S4 he truthfully believes that Nancy would drop everything for love to come be with him, marry him and have his children if he doesn't go to collage with her. This is an opinion Jonathan has held since S1, meaning he hasn't changed it in all this time he's been her boyfriend. Also let us not forget that he was the one to tell her to ditch the story she so desperately wanted to pursue in S3 and was therefore siding with society over Nancy being able to pursue her dreams. If Nancy wanted to escape Steve and everything he stands for by being with Jonathan, she would have just found Steve 2.0. (Also note that this is one of the big differences between Jonathan and Robin)
Now the one person to whom the meaning fully applies word for word and that is Jonathan himself. I find it very fitting that he is also the one to say Steve's name here because to him Steve also represents safety and he's afraid to return to him and accept who he really is. This of course means queerness but it also goes further than that. In S3 Jonathan's entire conflict with Nancy is build around their different understandings of safety and while Nancy fights against it Jonathan fights for it which we see in his desire to lessen the financial struggles of his family. So in a way he does indeed value financial stability. Then as mentioned above he also never lets go of his belief that Nancy would marry him even by S4 when he definitely should know better. Why would he do this? I think he's projecting and as Murray says also afraid to accept himself for who he really is.
Therefore I do believe that safety holds a double meaning here. One is the false safety Jonathan finds in Nancy (a straight relationship) but there is also a real safety he truly longs for and he can only find it with Steve but he is also too afraid to reach for it. (Hi again to smelly plants from the earth Jonathan considers safe; yeah this also goes into weed symbolism again)
Then I want to put your attention a bit more to Jonathan's body language throughout the Murray scene because it is quite interesting to watch. He hugs himself, raises his shoulders and from time to time you also see his knee moving which is a thing Jonathan always does when he's nervous. He is nervous throughout this whole scene and I do believe that is because we are also awfully close to finding out his secret. His own queerness. His love for Steve which Nancy then in the end reveals to us because while she likes Steve, she does not love him.
Jonathan at the same though looks caught. Unbeknownst to Nancy she is speaking his truth, not her own. He doesn't just like Steve. He loves Steve while Nancy only likes Steve.
This in the end of S5 gets emphasized again. Jonathan tells Steve twice that he doesn't like him and Steve also tells us that he wouldn't want it any other way.
If you put this in contrast with the two persons who actually do like Steve but don't love him (Nancy and Robin) then you might also come to the conclusion that Jonathan is indeed not like them and Steve also doesn't want Jonathan to be like Nancy and Robin.
He doesn't just want Jonathan as a friend, he wants Jonathan to love him and luckily for him Jonathan does.
(If Jonathan and Steve would really not like each other they would have not acted like they did on the tower. The entire time they were close to each other, sometime even touching and always looking out for the other. They were keeping each other safe. Here is a post from me proving it as well as another one from @nuffit)
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In WSQK sync side C, they used "Who's crying now?" by Journey during the Steve and Jonathan's fight in S1 E6.
You can listen here...
Let's talk about the song's lyrics...
"One love feeds the fire" as Steve aggravates Jonathan.
"Two hearts, born to run" as Steve crashes into Jonathan.
While they were fighting, you can hear these lyrics.
"And in a lover's rage"
"They turn another page"
"The fighting is worth the love they save"
After the fight, in E8, he went to his house first to apologise after the incident. The fight might have made him realise his mistakes. This could mean that he didn't just go to his house to apologise but also to reconcile whatever caused their falling out but we didn't see that because of the upside down drama.
Mind you, this song is talking about which partner is suffering more and this is used for the alleyway scene after Steve had been hurt by seeing Jonathan and Nancy together. It can't be Nancy because she is concerned about Barb. I believe that they may have had a falling out where perhaps he didn't want to commit because of internalised homophobia and societal influence so he went for Nancy. I think this is the case because during the scene where Steve breaks Jonathan's camera in E3, the song "You Keep Me Hanging On" by Kim Wilde was playing. It has multiple meanings each of which could be the most appropriate or applicable depending on the scene. It is about unrequited love and manipulation. When a partner ends a relationship but refuses to let go, keeping the other person emotionally tethered. It is also a plea for freedom, leaving a dysfunctional relationship that no longer brings happiness.
This song played through the camera scene and El's flashback.
This could mean that with respect to the first scene, Steve hasn't truly let go of their relationship and that Jonathan is still emotionally tethered. If you watch that scene, observe Steve when Nancy arrives. The way he looked at Jonathan, one would say that he was sad. Also, he looked visibly remorseful after breaking it.
Who directed this? Come on out 🫴🏾
Then the following scene could be depicted as Brenner abusing El and her abilities. It is El's plea for freedom from the toxic relationship she has with Papa and how Papa doesn't truly care for her but acts like he does when he just wanted to find Henry (what we know for now)
Back to the alleyway scene, in the side A sync, the speaker (it's Vance right?) says....
"I remember my school ball. Knee slides, slow dances and my first kiss of course"
When he said "my first kiss of course" it shows Steve and Jonathan around here....
Hmmmmmm.....do you pick up what I'm putting down?
Then "Everywhere" by Fleetwood Mac plays. A song about falling in love and longing to constantly be with your partner. What????? 🤔
Extra: if you watch the start of the fight, they don't physically inflict harm on the other. They were just rolling around basically like how children fight. It was after Tommy says "kick his ass, man" that they start exchanging blows. Why wouldn't Steve want to harm the person who stole his girlfriend... well there's only one answer....GAYYYY!
It's weird that he is described as a ladies' man but we haven't seen him date them when we've seen that a lot of women like him. It's almost as if he doesn't want to.
In the side C sync, a line in the song says "I wonder who is crying now?". Hmmm. Who's crying now, Steve? Who's crying now? Steve.
S1E8
In this episode, "The Sun Always Shines on TV" by a-ha plays when Nancy and Jonathan were bandaging each other before Steve knocks.
The song highlights the illusion of a perfect, sunny life on television, symbolises false reality, loneliness and the pressure to maintain a happy facade. The song conveys a deep sense of despair which I think is applicable to both of them. I believe Nancy is conforming as well.
They were having a moment we thought would solidify their interest in each other so why did they use such a melancholic song conveying loneliness. Well....?
Also, interesting that they were interrupted by Steve during their moment. Theorists have pointed out how secretive and mysterious Jonathan is and I agree. He is good at hiding just like his brother Will. His expression after Steve knocked and Nancy's reaction to it was unusual.
"To keep my troubles distant"
This line right above can be heard when Nancy says to Steve..."you need to leave". He needs to leave Jonathan's house....leave Jonathan? Could Jonathan's troubles have something to do with Steve? I think so. By being with Nancy instead, Jonathan is keeping his troubles distant.
Troubles equals love/true love/queerness
Lastly, the song "The Way We Were" by Barbra Streisand plays later on in the house. The line "the way we were" synced with this.....
The song talks about reminiscing good memories instead of painful ones. It may have other meanings.
This is a lot but I will say this. If I were to assume, I will say the way they really were was shown in Jonathan's house.
Always together.... protecting each other.
"Sometimes people don't say what they're really thinking.....but you capture the right moment, it says more" Jonathan Byers
Conclusion
There is homosexual activity present. I really wonder if the Duffers are just huge liars. There is no way this could have been a one-season show. They put all these details for a reason. This realisation has made these characters way more interesting to me at least. Their character writing was pretty bland in later seasons. If you intend to read more posts about stonathan, I tagged some recommended bloggers here. Anyways, I hope this makes sense:)
Another thing I find really fascinating is the song that precedes Kim Wilde's "Keep me Hangin’ On." Right before the scene where Steve breaks Jonathan's camera we see Nancy calling Barb's mother asking about her whereabouts and it plays (Your Love Keeps Lifting Me) Higher and Higher by Jackie Wilson.
"Mmm, I'm so glad I finally found you
Yes, that one-in-a-million girl
And now with my lovin' arms around you
Honey, I can stand up and face the world"
It's the third verse that plays over the phone call and I find that very fitting for Nancy at this point. She is about to face the world and she does it for "that one-in-a-million girl." It's Nancy's love for Barb which motivates her actions throughout the entire season and this song really makes you wonder if her feelings are platonic or romantic in nature.
What I find even more fascinating though is that this song isn't over after Nancy talks to Barb's mother. It also plays over Jonathan walking towards his car and finding Steve there.
"Your love keeps liftin' me"
"Higher and higher"
It really makes you wonder who's love keeps lifting Steve higher and higher. (Note how it also says "Hawkins HIGH school" right behind Steve; credit to @somethings-wrong-with-nana who noticed this first)
Yeah, Steve is on a high here but I have had doubts before as to who he's really jealous of and why he breaks Jonathan's camera in the first place.
Thing is that if you assume Jonathan and Steve to have a history no one except he two of them knows about then you also have to wonder why Steve is still so hung up about it and I think this song might give us an answer. Their past friendship/ bond probably means a lot to both of them.
"Higher and Higher" also stands in stark contrast to "You Keep Me Hangin’ On" which comes right after it. The first song talks about the uplifting nature of love while the other talks about the suffocating feeling after a break up if your partner is not ready to let go.
Both songs together also raise the question as to what (true) love actually means for Steve's and Jonathan's relaionship.
"'Cause you don't really love me"
"You just keep me hangin' on"
As said I do believe that their feelings for each other are rooted in a genuine connection that once existed between the two them. So in that sense I do believe Steve's love to be real.
However no matter how uplifting their relationship must have been to Steve it wasn't enough to truly enable him to face and overcome any obstacle he would have needed to deal with. His parents, social status, popularity and whatnot were still more important to Steve than his relationship with Jonathan. So in that sense his love wasn't strong enough or rather not real enough.
It was however also not weak enough to make Steve completely let go of Jonathan either.
Meanwhile the actual scene has Steve taking about perverts and what's hardwired into them all while he holds the photos rolled up pointing upwards and towards Jonathan (phallic symbolism.) He also can't keep his hands off of Jonathan. This also says a lot about Steve if you ask me.
While I am on the topic though I also want to mention something else entirely because there is one thing I have wondered about for a while now and I think it might fit right in with the meaning of Kim Wilde's song. (Note however that this song doesn't play during this scene although it does play later when Jonathan, Steve and Nancy fight the Demogorgon and Joyce and Hopper are looking for Will)
[Verse 1]
"Darling, you got to let me know
Should I stay, or should I go?
If you say that you are mine
I'll be here till the end of time
So you got to let me know
Should I stay, or should I go?
It's always tease, tease, tease
You're happy when I'm on my knees
One day it's fine, and next it's black
So if you want me off your back
Well, come on and let me know
Should I stay, or should I go?"
I know "Should I Stay or Should I Go" is intrinsically linked to Will. He even sings it when in the UD and the chorus reflects his situation very well. It also reminds him of his brother as Jonathan has been the one to introduce the song to Will in the first place.
What puzzles me is the meaning of the verses of the song because they speak about a hot-and-cold relationship and someone who might love the singer but is also not fully committed to them.
This doesn't fit Jonathan's and Will's relationship at all because Jonathan has always been warm to Will. There is no doubt whatsoever about his loyalty to his little brother. Likewise Joyce and Mike (in S1 and in S2) are also 100% committed to Will so it is not reflective of their relationship with Will either.
If we however keep in mind that Jonathan knew of the song first and liked it before Will did then we might find our answer there. Also keep in mind that Jonathan by S5 still loves to listen to The Clash. It's one of his favorite bands so it does stand to reason that "Should I Stay Or Should I Go" also holds a special meaning for him.
The verses talk about the singer being ready to 100% commit to someone if this other person were to give them a clear signal that they are also wanted in return. They don't give that signal though so it's tease, tease, tease while the singer is in mental agony on their knees. Sometimes there are good days but it never lasts long before it all turns bad again. It's also never enough for this other person to fully make a decision if they want to be with the singer or not.
"Set me free, why don't you, babe?"
Yeah. I never doubted that Jonathan's and Steve's relationship if it existed in the past was indeed incredibly toxic and went sour because of Steve's inability to fully commit to the person he actually likes.
One last thing though.
It's really interesting, isn't it? The way the speaker mentions their first kiss while we get to see Steve and Jonathan in the alleyway. It's even more interesting that Steve shortly before this happens also mentions how he always thought Jonathan was queer.
It does make sense though. If Steve and Jonathan shared their first kiss with each other then Steve had every reason to believe that Jonathan is indeed a bit queer.
Also: Wow, wow, wow! These are increasable findings. If true they basically confirm so many of my previous theories it's insane. Thank you so much digging into this and making a post out of all of this!
So since @nuffit also mentioned Steve being associated with the WSQK chicken in this reblog I want to go back to this post because it also makes an interesting appearance in the scene where Steve breaks Jonathan's camera. Note though that I have not watched all the synch but my impression is that it might appear quite often so it may not mean something in every particular case.
That being said the appearance of the chicken during the scene where Steve breaks Jonathan's camera certainly feels intentional.
The chicken is Steve who's front and center here and the speaker is not exactly wrong for calling Steve so. He will after all choose violence and destroy Jonathan's camera in a second all while pretending he only does it for Nancy when it's in fact just as much about his jealousy of her as I don't believe he likes to see Jonathan put his eyes or his lens on her.
(I have never noticed how Steve is also on the first photo he looks at. He's front and center like he was the focus and quite possibly he was. It also gives more credit to @/anime97-99's theory here about Steve being the very reason Jonathan made the photos in the first place. You can also read my contributions to said theory here)
Not much to say about this comment other than it being 100% true although no one seems to understand what the broadcast is actually showing.
I am not so sure about the other comments during this scene though. The speaker calls it a curiosity journey just as Nancy appears which could make sense since Jonathan is about to get to know her better. He's straying from what he's familiar with but in the end this journey also isn't for him and he might want to return home.
The speaker also mentions how you need your paddles to travel which hits hard which certainly also seems suggestive. If anyone wants to make more this tough please be my guest.
if jancy hadn't broken up, jonathan would NOT have had the courage to dash over and save steve from falling off the tower. genuinely.
(nancy may have honestly known what would happen if she shot the exotic matter to get that to happen, but thats a whole other theory lol)
if you guys remember, dustin was closer to steve when he fell, not jonathan
I think theres a timeline where dustin tries to save steve and fails, and they both fall off the tower because dustin isn't strong enough to lift steve
also thats some power of love bs that jonathan could lift steve in that heavy ass gear. steve shouldve kissed jonathan on the mouth RIGHT THERE
probably why he looks like a rooster (chicken) with that damn hat the whole finale. cus hes chickennnnn and didnt do anything with jonathan </3 just like mike didn't with will </3
Steve's survival on the tower very much depends on Jonathan being there to pull him up and given how close hey were the entire time it's hard to believe there is a reality out there where it doesn't happen. Jonathan is drawn to Steve. We've seen this a lot throughout S5.
There is however one major exception to it and I believe it has to do with the way some scenes are very ambiguously framed in the show. Starting with the long blackout after Steve falls which make it seem like what we are seeing might not be the true reality. Then there are some hints where Robin tells Steve that he stinks and it's the worst. What is the worst smell though? Death.
Then there is the jncy break-up which also at first left me wondering if they were still a couple or have broken up. Jonathan and Nancy could have just as well stayed together despite their differences and tried again.
They were both on the brink of death there and it was Nancy who started the whole break-up by being honest about how she feels about Jonathan.
The question is: What if she hadn't done that? What if she would have thought to do Jonathan a last kindness just before they both die and tell him that she loves him even if it's not true.
It is so easy to imagine isn't it? From their perspective it wouldn't have had any consequences either. They might have just wanted to spare the other some pain close before death.
This then could have easily lead to a scenario where Jonathan and Nancy do indeed get engaged. Both wouldn't have wanted it but both would have done in an act of very misguided kindness.
Then the melting would have stopped and Jonathan and Nancy would have survived either way. Expect they would have also reestablished their non-existent romantic love for one another, would have believed the other truly loves them and would now have a promise to fulfill neither really wants to keep but would feel obligated to.
This then would have lead Jonathan to try again with Nancy despite him not really wanting to. He would have stayed distant from Steve because he'd try to be loyal to Nancy out of sheer obligation.
He also might have felt ashamed as he would have known he's betraying his own feelings and then be unable to look Steve in the eye and in the end might have stayed as far away from Steve as possible.
This then would have lead him to not be there on time when Steve fell off the tower. Steve would have died.
Rest assured though that there would not be happy reality out there where Steve is dead and Jonathan and Nancy are a happy couple. They already have problems they cannot overcome and Steve's death would have wrecked them even more.
That being said I also believe that there is a happier reality out there. One where they all find what they are looking for and maybe this also has to do with Jonathan and Nancy putting their relationship to rest way earlier then we see in the show.
All you gotta do is look at all of this through the lens of Max's three doors of fate. There is death but Steve at the very least avoided it (Kali and El did not,) then there is fate where you just accept the situation you are currently in because there is nothing else you can do which tbh is what we see in the ending imho. They're all conforming. They are all accepting their fate. They're neither unhappy nor happy. They're satisfied.
There however must also be the 3rd door: Escape aka happiness.
Our characters though have not found that door just yet. Or had the courage to reach for it.
What's your opinion on Joyce and Hopper as a couple?
Quite frankly I don't trust them but that's only because I don't trust anything that is presented to us as a surface level truth and jpper is one of those couples the narrative wants us to believe in.
You see I do a very deep reading of the characters I usually write about on this blog (Jonathan, Steve, Nancy and Robin) and a lot of what I say won't make any sense to anyone who isn't familiar with the characters. Hell, even if people are familiar with them and love them my theories are oftentimes still not to their taste.
Thing is that I feel like I can only write about these characters because I tend to read them that deeply but I also cannot apply the same deep reading to every other character which is also why you rarely see me mentioning anyone who isn't Jonathan, Steve, Nancy or Robin let alone see me making posts about them.
While I cannot read everyone else as deeply every character certainly does deserve to be closely looked at. So I will leave that to people who are better equipped for it (i.e. not me.)
So in the end I do not trust in jpper but can't give you any deeper analysis here. I will say though that they do seem like a nice couple at times but hey so does jncy and one look at my blog should tell you how I feel about them.
(Plus I personally prefer joyren as a ship for Joyce)
[NOTE: I started writing this before the release of Volume 2 of S5 but only finished it after it's release. This post however was entirely planned out with the exception of the last part which I added after I've seen Vol 2. So if something doesn't entirely fit you know why it is. This post is therefore also meant to show that jncy's breakup was inevitable.]
So in this post I want to list all the events that either helped Jonathan and Nancy get together in the first place or helped them to stay together after that. It's meant to make it clear that their relationship was never based on true love for each other but on either other people wanting them to be together or certain events tying them together.
Yes, I believe Murray is correct when he says that jncy is the stuff of destiny but only in a way that someone or something else seems to want it more than they want this relationship themselves. This is evidenced by the fact that jncy never manages to be together (emotionally or physically) for too long until they start to drift apart again. It's a common theme for them as you will soon notice.
So let's start.
Attempt No. 1: "Only love makes you crazy"
While I know that Jonathan and Nancy had some real moments of connection before this scene with Flo even takes place I am not going to include them in here because it was still unclear at this point if their relationship would be developing into more than just friendship. I am pointing this out so clearly because I have genuine doubt that it would have developed into more which is why this scene with Flo exists in the first place.
What we are seeing here is Flo interpreting the situation in the alleyway according to what she believes. She knows Jonathan and Steve have been fighting in the alleyway and she also knows that Nancy was there with them. So she most likely thinks that Steve and Jonathan have been fighting over who gets to be with Nancy.
This is not what happened though.
When Steve was still talking to Nancy during the alleyway fight Jonathan didn't try to intervene at all. He never went "crazy" for Nancy as he tried to get her to leave Steve and the bullies behind. This is usually considered to be the reasonable thing to do.
Only later when Steve was insulting Jonathan's mother and brother did he stop to fight back. This is when he went crazy and yes he did it out of love as he was wholly motivated by his love for his family.
I should also mention that Jonathan and Nancy had another genuine moment of true connection shortly before they fought the Demogorgon. This however got eclipsed by Steve's arrival and visual storytelling telling us that Jonathan was more focused on Steve by this point than he was on Nancy. Don't believe me? Read my reblog here then.
Over the course of S1 Nancy and Jonathan never went crazy for each other. Everything Jonathan did, he did for his family and everything Nancy did, she did for her best friend. This also proves Flo's statement correct as yes, love does make you do crazy things but it also proves her incorrect as this is not applicable to jncy.
Nevertheless, even if you still consider Jonathan's and Nancy's development throughout S1 as based on genuine romantic feelings towards each other, you'd also need to keep in mind that it wasn't enough in getting them together.
Jonathan and Nancy gave us the reason much later during S2. They don't hang out when there is no direct danger ("When the world's about to end") and while Nancy did wait for Jonathan, she never waited for long. A month to be precise. Given all the events taking place during S1 and then ending roughly at the 15th or 16th of November, Nancy was already done waiting for Jonathan by the time they saw each other again at Christmas.
Attempt No. 2: Tina's party
Starting with S2 we get another setup for jncy to get together. Nancy invites Jonathan to a party they both don't really want to go to. Nancy however goes because of Steve and because she genuinely wants to try to escape her grief of losing Barb for one night.
Nancy tells Jonathan he might be able to meet someone if he goes there and from a surface level Interpretation it reads as if the person he's going to meet at the party will be Nancy. Maybe they'll meet, maybe they'll connect again over the fact that they both don't want to be there and then leave together. It could have happened like this but it does not.
What happened instead is really interesting to look at because there are only two people Jonathan meets at the party. One of them is a girl called Samantha who is clearly dressed like Siouxsie Sioux from Siouxsie and the Banshees. (Credit to @somethings-wrong-with-nana for pointing this out) Siouxsie and the Banshees were a post-punk, new wave band and Jonathan must have known about them but instead of making it about this cool alternative singer he makes it about an all men hard rock band who's extremely sexual in their lyrics as as well as in their appearance.
Then he sees Nancy and it should be noted that he sees her before he sees Steve just moments later. She is clearly visible in her white dress in the otherwise rather dark room. She's also drinking as her red cup is also very visible. Yet Jonathan does not approach her at all. Why? Because he sees Steve next and he's smiling. The audience is supposed to believe he is Jonathan's rival in love. So maybe Jonathan could have - and maybe should have - taken Steve's smile the wrong way.
We know Jonathan is not too fond of Nancy partying as this is not like her as he's told us in S1 and now he sees her getting more drunk by the second in the company of a guy who could clearly take advantage of her later. Jonathan could have tried to intervene here. He could have approached them, tried to get Nancy away from Steve and then to get her home on her own but he doesn't do that at all. He just stares at them. Why? Because Steve is here and he looks happy.
This situation could have been the perfect bait for Jonathan to play the hero and help Nancy, to get her away from the guy who could have tried to exploit her drunken state later but he completely resists it all.
In the end Jonathan does get Nancy home after all but that is only after he's met the second person of the evening: Steve who was also clearly unhappy and looked like he was about to cry. It's unclear if Steve truly told Jonathan to get Nancy home but this is still what Jonathan tells Nancy later. He makes it sound like Steve was truly worried about her and then helps Nancy to get back together with Steve.
Attempt No. 3: "You'd be such a great couple"
Now fate is pulling out the big guns and is at least partially successful with it. It starts with Owens casually asking Jonathan and Nancy if they've been together long which Jonathan immediately denies without making much fuss about it. He answers the question and then they all move on in their conversation which on it's own should raise some eyebrows if we are to believe that Jonathan and Nancy just came out of a situation that hurt (at least) Jonathan deeply because of his feelings towards Nancy.
Instead nothing else happens at the lab. It's all about their mission until they stay at a motel for the night and the receptionist suggestively moves her eyes up and down while looking at Jonathan and Nancy. It startles them but by now they're finally getting the idea into their head that they'd make a great couple if they only tried. At least according to the receptionist lady or the narrative.
It also prompts Jonathan and Nancy to have a discussion about why they aren't a couple. As said above they're not hanging out when there isn't immediate danger and while Nancy did wait for Jonathan she also only waited for a month which is an incredibly short amount of time. Jonathan however didn't go out of his way to approach Nancy either. He never found the time as Will needed him.
They do however also compare their scars and smile at each other which makes everything they said before meaningless, correct?
Then Murray happens and he finally accomplishes what no one could before him. He makes Jonathan and Nancy kiss and have a one-night-stand afterwards. The way he does this though is more than questionable because he's using manipulation techniques to get what he wants. He brings up Jonathan and Nancy's own personal issues which they can't ignore but also can't deal with. Murray however offers them an easy way out of their dilemma. Just kiss and share the damn bed! Then Nancy wouldn't have to retreat to the guy she doesn't love and Jonathan wouldn't need to confront the fact that he has trust issues.
It lasts for the night but not much longer as after everything is over Jonathan and Nancy go back to dealing with each other like they've done before. Like friends. They don't hold hands, they don't kiss, they don't share stolen glances with each other. There is nothing to connect them on a deeper level despite all the trauma they've already shared and there is also no greater pull between the characters tying them together.
They would have drifted apart here if not for what happened next.
Attempt No. 4: The true love jncy is based on
I have said before that Jonathan and Nancy don't hold hands, don't steal glances and don't kiss when they are together and this still holds when they are at the Byers house later and finally reunite with everyone else. Jonathan gets to be with Will again and he's immediately sorry he hasn't ben there for him when he needed him. (Here you could also think about what he did instead and what it means if he truly regrets it.)
Nancy sees it and then finally makes a gesture which could be interpreted as romantic but could just as well be done out of friendship or even obligation. She puts her hand on Jonathan's shoulder what then gets noticed by Steve. It almost makes him cry and then motivates him to an act of selfless love mirroring what Jonathan did earlier in the season.
He tells Nancy she should be with Jonathan and go with him to the cabin in order to support Jonathan and his mom to get the MF out of Will. The important part here is that Nancy originally didn't plan on doing this as she didn't want to leave Mike alone with everyone else.
If she would have done as she wanted to, Jonathan wouldn't have had the support he needed at at the cabin. He wouldn't have had someone to hold him and hold his hands in this time of need.
Yes, these are some romantic moments they finally get to share but they never would have happend without Steve telling Nancy she should go with Jonathan. It leaves a bitter aftertaste because again, these didn't happen because of what Nancy (or Jonathan) wanted to do at the time.
We get to see the result of this very soon though because while jncy is now finally couple, they also get the least amount of attention at the snow ball. They smile at each other once and that is it. Every other couple has a moment there and that is including Mike and Eleven Jane.
Nevertheless Jonathan and Nancy are still together by the beginning of S3 but it's only a small win as the state of their relationship is anything but great. Yes, there may be physical attraction between them as evidenced by the fact that Jonathan in 03x01 wakes up with lipstick smudged all over his face but their problems start to show very soon after this.
Nancy is ready to wreck Jonathans car to get to work on time, she knowingly destroys his photos three times and generally doesn't care for anything he has to say.
There are a lot of reasons for her behavior but what it boils down to is that this is the first time we see their values clashing. Nancy sees this job at a local paper as a career opportunity. She wants her boss to acknowledge her for her skills. As this doesn't work out, she's ready to leave this job behind or at the very least she's ready to risk losing it so she can continue to write the story she's after.
Jonathan on the other hand sees this job as a means to an end. He wants to support his family, help paying the bills and save money for collage. To him losing this job means losing his opportunity to do all of this so he doesn't want to continue the story Nancy is working on.
Both of their viewpoints are completely valid. They do however not mix well.
If Nancy's and Jonathan's values clash, they don't have anything to connect them and all they do is fight, then obviously another attempt to fix them is in order. Luckily for them it's just around the corner.
Nancy calls Jonathan because she wants to talk to Will as his safety might be in jeopardy. This works out great for Jonathan and Nancy because finally Jonathan has a reason to work with Nancy again. Will is in danger and Jonathan can't let anything happen to him so all the differences are put aside (for the most part) and jncy are a thing again as they start to work towards a common goal.
Looking at it through a historical lens it shouldn't even surprise us that this works so well as jncy as always fared best when it wasn't about them but someone else either of them cares a lot for. In S1 it was Will and Barb being missing that turned Nancy and Jonathan into companions as they wanted to get their loved ones - Will and Barb - back. In S2 we see Jonathan accompanying Nancy to Murray because she wanted to get justice for Barb - a person Nancy loves dearly - and Jonathan can understand this on a deeper level as he is also mostly motivated by the people he loves. Later after Steve enabled Nancy to be with Jonathan, it's a situation of danger for Will which stressed Jonathan so much that he finally started to seek closeness and reassurance in her.
Jonathan's and Nancy's relationship is build upon other people's safety and in Steve's case his sacrifice. It isn't about Jonathan or Nancy or what they want in life. They share a relationship that only works when it isn't about them. This is not sustainable in the long run unless Jonathan and Nancy want become monster hunters for life and even then they wouldn't find their happiness with each other.
Nevertheless this attempt at fixing them works for the time being. Jonathan and Nancy pursue the rat story and all is well for now. They even get to address some of their issues on a superficial level which only acknowledges Jonathan's mistakes but doesn't do so with Nancy's.
It does however glue them together for the rest of the season and in the end they even get some cute moments to share. It is however very easy to say that you want to let the boyfriend stay in the basement if both parties know that they don't have to put any weight behind their words. Both Jonathan and Nancy always knew that he would leave with his family either way so what they are saying doesn't really amount to much.
I do however think they might want to believe they mean what they are saying more than they actually do mean it because even though their relationship is a complete disaster, they still care about each other a great deal. They can still be friends though and care for each other in a platonic way and maybe this would have been a wiser decision from the start. To stay just friends but then again, it's also not Jonathan's and Nancy's fault entirely.
But anyway, enter S4 and Jonathan and Nancy are at a low again. Nancy wants to go to Emerson with Jonathan but he doesn't want that so he just withdraws quietly and stops talking to her. This puts Nancy in a bad mood as she doesn't know what's up with him.
Again, they are drifting apart as there is nothing to hold them together.
Attempt No. 6: Blocking the escape route
As Jonathan and Nancy drift apart and he tells Argyle about his future plans which don't involve Nancy, fate intervenes again in it's sixth attempt to fix their relationship. This is a bit of a special case as it is a critical moment for Jonathan.
He's outright lying to Nancy and he admits it Argyle who only tells him to stop lying before it is revealed that Jonathan is ready to just let his relationship with Nancy fizzle out on it's own. He's ready to leave Nancy behind and go to Lenora community collage with his friend. Argyle however doesn't want to hear any of it and this is what makes this moment so special.
Argyle's best and only friend tells him he's ready to discontinue his relationship but instead of asking Jonathan for his reasons as to why he is ready to leave such a long relationship behind, he just assumes that Jonathan must not really want to end his relationship, advises him to get a Purple Palm Tree delight and forget about his problems.
It could have been an out. It could have been the end of their relationship if Argyle would have told Jonathan to be honest with Nancy as to why he doesn't want to be with her anymore. This doesn't happen though as Argyle blocks that route for Jonathan by telling him to just smoke his problems away instead of facing them.
Meanwhile Nancy is irritated by Jonathan's behavior and the way she words her frustrations with Jonathan make it sound like this has been going on for while. She tells Robin he canceled his visit because of a "mumbly Jonathan reason" like she is tired of his excuses and vagueness as he's never truly honest with her.
She also makes a new friend in Robin and finally gets to experience what it's like to be on the same wavelength with someone else again which then results in her not really missing Jonathan all that much. She will also admit this to him way later during their little talk at the cabin.
For the time being though they are both not ready to admit how much they are actually tired of this relationship to each other. So Jonathan continues to lie after their reunion at the end of the season. He also manages to make and break a promise in just two scenes.
Enter S5 and Jonathan and Nancy are at the lowest point they could possibly be. They avoid each other whenever they can, don't share a room which means that they most likely don't even share physical closeness with each other like they did in S3, and Jonathan can't even be bothered to look at Nancy when he's alone with her.
There is nothing left for them anymore. They are drifting apart again.
Attempt No. 7: "Start focusing on Nancy"
As Nancy and Jonathan are still not happy in their relationship, another attempt at fixing them is in order and this time it's a combined effort of the two people who've been so successful in getting them together in S2: Steve and Murray. (Unknowingly of course as Steve's motive are way less selfish than Murray's)
As Jonathan focuses his attention to much on Steve or so Steve thinks, he's giving Jonathan the advise to finally stop paying attention to what he does and to start focusing on how Nancy is feeling.
Murray at the same time is much less well meaning and just outright pressures Jonathan into marrying Nancy.
Both fit the purpose of getting them closer together and Steve could have been correct in his assumption that Nancy and Jonathan can find happiness in their relationship when Jonathan stops to actively make it about him. The mistake Steve makes here is thinking that jncy's problems are rooted in his presence. They are not. Jonathan and Nancy's relationship problems have nothing to do with him.
Jonathan can't focus on Nancy not because Steve is there but because he can't even focus on Nancy when he's all alone with her as we've seen before. They don't talk, they don't spend time together and they don't even look each other unless they absolutely have to.
Then Murray tries his hardest to get Jonathan to propose to Nancy despite their obvious problems and very good reasons as to why this would be a bad idea. I don't even put it past Jonathan that he sees marriage as part of his future plans but I doubt he'd want to do it in a situation like he's currently in.
Yet the pressure is certainly there and Jonathan for a moment at least tries to follow Steve's advise on focusing on Nancy as he does get to hug her when they reunite after she leaves the hospital. This however is also where it ends.
Nancy right now is in distress because her sister is missing and Jonathan is in a prime position to show empathy with her despite all the things that went wrong in their relationship. The problem is that he only does so on a physical level but not emotionally.
When Nancy is distraught because she doesn't know if they should follow Hoppers advise or not, Jonathan doesn't do anything to give her hope or be there for her at all. He doesn't hug her either. Instead he makes an inappropriate comment about a comparison Steve made earlier.
Holly is missing and all Jonathan cares about is Steve's boppers.
Attempt No. 8: The End
As neither Murray nor Steve had any success in getting Nancy and Jonathan to stay focused on each other for more than a day, they need another moment to fix things.
It's a life or death situation and it could have played out in two ways: Jonathan and Nancy admit their feelings towards each other, remember that they still love other and start their relationship anew.
Or they can end things once and for all.
Thankfully both of them are finally taking matters into their own hands and are honest with each other. Jonathan and Nancy learn about all the small truths that irritate them about each other. They hate all the things the other loves dearly and while it's not that these things cannot be dealt with (No, you don't need to break up if you dislike your partners favorite band) they also have larger issues at hand they are now finally able to confront.
Jonathan says it so clearly. He felt like he was going against the natural order of things (fate) when he considered not being with Nancy. What he means with that is all the trauma they shared and all the things they went through together. Truthfully, they have been together for a long time and the more they were together, the bigger the pile of trauma got.
It is however also true that sharing all this trauma never really helped them heal from it either. Not even when things were better between them and they weren't together yet. Jonathan could never help Nancy in dealing with her grief for Barb on an emotional level. Nancy also could never help Jonathan after Will went missing.
Yet they were also comparing their scars and smiling at each other while doing so which is symbolic for what this entire relationship is build upon. Trauma and pain. Never the things that actually make them happy as these are also the things they greatly dislike in the other.
So what would be left after realizing there is no pull between them, that they hate all the things the other loves? Nothing but pain and that is not a great basis for a relationship. If Jonathan and Nancy would have tried again in spite of everything that separates them, they wouldn't have stopped at hating all the things the other loves. They would have started to hate the other for real.
Like this though with finally being able to tell the truth, face it and draw the right conclusion by ending their relationship Jonathan and Nancy managed to preserve their love for each other because right now they still deeply care about the other and want them to be happy.
They let the other go. They ended it before if was too late.
Jonathan and Nancy have defied fate. They are finally free.
(and quite frankly, I couldn't be any happier for the both of them)
frickkk this post (and reblogs) MADE ME CRY. so beautifully written and excellently illustrated their story with each other and pointing out how forced it is...
especially the part where "you should go with him" "with jonathan" from steve? as the camera is focused on steve like yes steve YOU should go with him. UAUAUAGHHHHHH
a few (accidentally murray centric) unorganized thoughts for you:
- murrays psychology in getting them together is pretty interesting to me, since every character in stranger things is complex. i realize you focus on stonathan and getting into murray here wouldn't really make sense (so I will)
- looking at murray, hes alone, has some sort of history with hopper (he calls him "jim" in the beginning of s2), but generally he has no one. he is isolated and doesn't seem to have any family or friends. theres queercode inherent to that especially being estranged from his family (likely for being "eccentric", another marker of queercoding)
- I think theres a lot of him trying to live vicariously through jonathan here/trying to protect jonathan from being outcasted from society. its ironically cruel to nancy, but murray probably believes hes "saving" jonathan here
- look, murray is goofy af but I don't think he's stupid. it would be more surprising if he hadn't picked up on jonathan's queerness (though I don't think he noticed that for nancy, I don't think he notices girls much at all) which maybe I'm wrong, and murray just pretends to be a lot smarter than he is. idk
- murrays queercoding is ignored by most of the fandom (probably because very few people are fans of him,,, which... fair. ive done a couple posts on him including this one where he seems to be attracted to yuri, and this one which shows that: bopper is bob and hoppers ship name and bauper is murray and hoppers ship name (which we know ship names are important, ronance sounding like ronance)
- anyway, murray is holding a sack with a big rooster/chicken on it in one of the first pictures in this post. he is a coward and is trying to keep jonathan safe and conformed even if that makes him miserable
- chickens/roosters are very important here, theyre tied to not admitting feelings and conforming (its why steve is associated with the wsqk chicken and his hair looks like a rooster in the finale. (and not to forget the game gay chicken!!)
- also, the pattern of each relationship and generations of characters parallel each other: murray represents a version of jonathan who did not conform nor pursue his feelings. isolated, alone, and estranged from any family he has. murray doesn't want that for jonathan and doesn't see the other path as viable or possible at all.
- a minor costume/symbolism note here: in the scene where he first matchmakes jancy and in the field, he is wearing purple tinted glasses, which represents violet/purple prismatic spray: a spell in DnD which makes you blind. It's important to note that a. he chooses to wear these lenses. and b. they "colour" his perspective, which is one of conformity
- I don't think murray is intentionally being evil here. I think he actually cares about jonathan and it hurts more since jonathan doesn't have any father-like figures in his life, except hopper who hasn't been there long and frankly doesn't pay any attention to jonathan lol
- murray is just trying to pass on what he knows which is that: you can't get what you want, so settle even if you're unhappy. ironically this parallels robin and will!!
anyway thank you for the lovely post. i really agree that jancy is only a good couple if you don't think about it too hard. theyre just fundementally different people with different values (as you have said many times but it cant be overstated lol)
Excellent observation with the camera focusing on Steve when he says "You should go with him." It fits right in with Jonathan's earlier apology to Will where the camera focuses on Nancy and then shows us an almost crying Steve.
It's more proof that Jonathan might have really wanted Steve to be there with him rather than Nancy and maybe Steve should have gone but he might have also needed this lesson. Putting Jonathan's happiness before his own is something he's never truly done and it also shows how much he really does care about him. He needed to learn to treat Jonathan with more respect and he needed to stop to take him for granted.
What you say about Murray does make a lot of sense though. Maybe he really is vicariously living through Jonathan and maybe he really tries to prevent him from making similar mistakes. He also kinda admits to here.
He is telling Jonathan to marry Nancy for his own sake and he's overstepping boundaries big time with how insistent he is about it. Then he tells Jonathan to grow some balls and finally do it or in other words he tells him to be manly about it. To do the thing a real man would do. You might also read this as an advice to me more heteronormative and masculine and less queer.
There is also in implication here that if Jonathan doesn't ask Nancy, he'd be a coward which is established by the way Murray talks and as you said by the chicken food they are both carrying. Except it is the other way around. Marrying Nancy and doing what Murray wants Jonathan do to would be the cowardly thing.
I could never explain to myself why Murray would go so far as his behavior here is so extreme. I also could never explain to myself why this never had a pay-off. It's like they're completely dropping the story line after it cause with the way Murray talks to Jonathan here you would think that he would also have an opinion on it later when Jonathan breaks up with Nancy instead of marrying her.
He doesn't though. In fact we never hear about this again but it would make a lot of sense if this is because of Mr Clarke in the epilogue. He's seen sitting next to him and there is also an implication here. If he by then starts living his own life again he might no longer be interested in Jonathan making life choices he would approve of.
It's also really noticeable that he puts all that pressure on Jonathan and not Nancy. Yeah, he's also been manipulating her before when she was visiting him with Jonathan but after that he doesn't do much to push her to marry Jonathan. (Which in general could also be a twist in itself as Jonathan is the one expected to hold the relationship together and not Nancy. Often times in stories and in real life it's the woman who's considerd responcible for it)
Maybe there are two possible reasons here. One is that he doesn't care much about her as you've also said. The other could be that Nancy is way more likely to see through him.
When Murray goes on his rant about history and shared trauma and all that and cites it as the reason as for why jncy would make a good couple Nancy actually rolls her eyes. She knows or at the very least suspects that it's bullshit. Jonathan on the other hand is listening very intensely. He puts trust in Murray's words and believes in them which then in turn makes it much easier for Murray to get his ideas through to Jonathan. Jonathan's reason for listening to Murray here might be his want or need for a father-figure in his life and I do believe it matters a lot that it's Murray who he listens to as Bob in the same season also tries to be a father-figure to Jonathan but Jonathan completely rejects him.
Jonathan in the same season also prides himself to be a freak and disregards everything normal which is what Bob stands for. So Murray who's eccentric, lives on his own and is also a bit of an outcast in society would the grown up "freak" and therefore also a bit of a role model. Or so Jonathan sees things at the time.
It's also very much possible that they both might have picked up on their queerness or sensed it at the very least.
Even Nancy thinks it's weird that Jonathan is the one to say Steve's name when Murray asks for it. That almost makes it seem like Steve means something to him but it does get even better the closer the conversation comes to Steve and how Nancy (lol) feels about him. The closer it gets to loving Steve, the more nervous Jonathan gets. He's wiggling his foot like he always does when he's nervous. You can actually see his knee moving if you pay attention to it. Then he hugs himself and raises his shoulders like he's turning his whole body into fortress to hide a secret and tries his best to avoid eye contact with anyone. The secret he's trying to hide are his true feelings (love) for Steve.
The question is if Murray picked up on that and I honestly do not know. He's preoccupied with Nancy at the time but this might not mean that that he didn't notice at all.
Anyway like I said before it's possible they both sense the queerness in the other. Jonathan might see Murray as a freakish eccentric outcast and therefore might also see him as a potential role model or someone who lives a life that is similar to what awaits him some day. Murray might see some of his younger self in Jonathan and is then desperately trying to prevent him from becoming like him in the future just like you said.
Great observation on the purple tinted glasses Murray is wearing though! It actually fits in real nicely with what we see later happening to Jonathan and Nancy in S4 and in S5. If you take notice of how and when Argyle advises Jonathan to smoke Purple Palm Tree Delight you'll also find out that Jonathan's relief not to see Nancy at the airport is real as well as his want to break up with her although he gets blinded to the latter by Purple Palm Tree Delight.
Then during the break up scene Nancy also mentions how she threw Jonathan's last purple palm tree delight down the toilet and is therefore also hinting at this being real aka a thing they both want (breaking up that is.)
They are no longer blinded by magic (but in the end it also wasn't enough to completely save them as they also go on to conform in the epilogue even if they are no longer a couple.)
Anyway, thank you so much for the reblog and your thoughts! I loved reading all of your points as they do make a lot of sense. They also helped me to understand Murray's motivations a lot better.
Hi, I've read your posts about how you think Steve and Jonathan were friends at some point before S1. Do you think Nancy and Robin could have known each other before S3 and maybe have some sort of history pre-S1?
In S3, Robin seems to know who Nancy is, as she calls her a priss after Steve says she used to be in love with her. Nancy seemingly doesn't know who Robin is, as she asks her who she is in S3. However, I've heard that Robin apparently mentions in Rebel Robin that she was friends with Barb as a kid. So, if you consider this canon, it's weird that Nancy wouldn't know who Robin is. And even if the book isn't canon, it's still odd that Nancy, who wants to be an investigative journalist and generally seems observant, doesn't know a girl her own age when they live in a small town. So, maybe Nancy was only pretending not to know her.
If you consider Rebel Robin canon, maybe Nancy had something to do with why Robin and Barb stopped being friends. Maybe Nancy's initial hostility/ coldness to Robin in S4 is actually related to Barb and not Steve.
Thank you so much for the question but I must admit I am not sure if I am the right person to answer it as I haven't read the book either. There are a few things I heard about is as well but I have no idea about the actual context which of course could change everything.
I have also heard that Robin was friends with Barb pre-show and apparently (or so I remember) Barb also left Robin behind to be friends with Nancy instead. I have however no idea how it happened or for what reason. It seems like a mean thing to do though and might also explain why Robin at first holds some animosity towards Nancy and calls her a priss.
It might also be that Nancy's reputation as the school's princess and most popular girl precedes her. This could also be a reason as to why Robin calls her priss as she might have been prejudiced against Nancy because of it and thought of her as a the good girl/ middle to upper class popular girl in high school who looks down on people like Robin. (Robin possibly blaming Nancy for Barb leaving her would only make it worse I assume)
It's also possible that because Nancy's reputation precedes her more people at school know her then the other way around which would explain why Robin knows her but Nancy doesn't.
That being said if Barb really was friends with Robin before and then left her for Nancy it would be odd if Nancy wouldn't know her at all. She doesn't even seem to know who she is though as Robin also had to give her context for it and for this she used Steve which is quite interesting given that the first and quite possibly more emotionally charged relationship that connects her with Nancy is Barb. (Although it is also possible that Robin doesn't want to bring it up right now as it's a hectic situation and mentioning Barb would also bring some emotional trauma to the forefront which no one would want to deal with right now)
They could have changed Nancy's line and made it more obvious that she does know Robin if they wanted to though. Maybe they could have changed it to "And you are ...?" which would have implied that Nancy knows Robin but either forgot or doesn't know her name which would be a lot more realistic. They didn't do that though and I don't know why.
That also makes it possible that Nancy was only pretending to not know Robin but I don't see what her motive would be. Why would she do that? Why would she want everyone to think that she doesn't know Robin? Like I said it is a very hectic situation and no one would have noticed if Nancy simply wouldn't have said anything at all. Nancy outright asking who Robin is also brings attention to the fact that she doesn't know who Robin is.
In the end I absolutely cannot be sure though because as said I have no idea about the actual context or if Barb really ditched Robin to be friends with Nancy.
If anyone else wants to chime in here and clarify the situation for anon and for me I would be very happy to reblog you.
There is however an explanation as to why Nancy is a bit hostile towards Robin at the beginning of S4 and it does have to do with Barb. Someone who since deactivated their account made some great points and you can still read them here (in my reblog.) Basically Nancy was just reminded of Barb's death not so long ago. Plus she also lost Fred who was much like Robin at the library on a mission with Nancy to investigate some stuff. They however both died while they were in Nancy's proximity.
It's very much possible that she doesn't want Robin to end up like Barb or Fred just because she was unlucky enough to be with Nancy at the wrong time.
Nancy, despite being popular, is not a very social person. Barb appeared to be her only friend. Super close friend, really. Once she starts dating Steve, people became more aware of her that way but that didn’t necessarily lead to more friends. After losing Barb, it seems Nancy didn’t make much of an effort to connect with anyone else. How could she, really. She couldn’t even tell anyone that Barb was dead for almost a year. Imagine what that does to a person. She would do everything in her power to not think about Barb…and what happened…but fail. Once she started on that investigation to try to break her story, that became her focus. And then Jonathan came along, that became her strongest connection. There didn’t seem to be much of an opportunity for her to have learned that Robin and Barb knew each other. Perhaps there was a falling out that led Barb to Nancy. At any rate, by the time Nancy officially meets Robin, we are in 1985 and Nancy is well into this healing journey regarding Barb.
But of course. One doesn’t just move on from that. Losing Barb informs her decision making for the rest of the series, even the epilogue.
I would guess though that whatever happened between Robin, Barb and Nancy would have happened a long time ago. Possibly when they were still in middle school or even before that. This makes me wonder if Nancy should have known about Robin being Barb's first friend.
Nancy not being social and very attached to the one friend she does have makes me wonder even more because then you can also assume that she'd be way more invested into the friend she does have. If this person she feels attached to (Barb in this case) would leave someone else behind to be with her, shouldn't she notice? Or at least be aware of it some way?
Although that would also heavily depend on Barb. If Barb handled the situation in a way to deliberately hide Robin from Nancy (maybe because she's ashamed of Robin? Would be very harsh and I am not saying that this is what happened at all. I am just speculating) than this could also explain it.
It's still a bit puzzling that Nancy doesn't seem to know Robin at all though. They go to the same school. They're in the same year. I completely understand if she doesn't know Robin's name but not being aware of her face? Wouldn't she have seen her in the hallway from time to time at the very least?
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Hi, I've read your posts about how you think Steve and Jonathan were friends at some point before S1. Do you think Nancy and Robin could have known each other before S3 and maybe have some sort of history pre-S1?
In S3, Robin seems to know who Nancy is, as she calls her a priss after Steve says she used to be in love with her. Nancy seemingly doesn't know who Robin is, as she asks her who she is in S3. However, I've heard that Robin apparently mentions in Rebel Robin that she was friends with Barb as a kid. So, if you consider this canon, it's weird that Nancy wouldn't know who Robin is. And even if the book isn't canon, it's still odd that Nancy, who wants to be an investigative journalist and generally seems observant, doesn't know a girl her own age when they live in a small town. So, maybe Nancy was only pretending not to know her.
If you consider Rebel Robin canon, maybe Nancy had something to do with why Robin and Barb stopped being friends. Maybe Nancy's initial hostility/ coldness to Robin in S4 is actually related to Barb and not Steve.
Thank you so much for the question but I must admit I am not sure if I am the right person to answer it as I haven't read the book either. There are a few things I heard about is as well but I have no idea about the actual context which of course could change everything.
I have also heard that Robin was friends with Barb pre-show and apparently (or so I remember) Barb also left Robin behind to be friends with Nancy instead. I have however no idea how it happened or for what reason. It seems like a mean thing to do though and might also explain why Robin at first holds some animosity towards Nancy and calls her a priss.
It might also be that Nancy's reputation as the school's princess and most popular girl precedes her. This could also be a reason as to why Robin calls her priss as she might have been prejudiced against Nancy because of it and thought of her as a the good girl/ middle to upper class popular girl in high school who looks down on people like Robin. (Robin possibly blaming Nancy for Barb leaving her would only make it worse I assume)
It's also possible that because Nancy's reputation precedes her more people at school know her then the other way around which would explain why Robin knows her but Nancy doesn't.
That being said if Barb really was friends with Robin before and then left her for Nancy it would be odd if Nancy wouldn't know her at all. She doesn't even seem to know who she is though as Robin also had to give her context for it and for this she used Steve which is quite interesting given that the first and quite possibly more emotionally charged relationship that connects her with Nancy is Barb. (Although it is also possible that Robin doesn't want to bring it up right now as it's a hectic situation and mentioning Barb would also bring some emotional trauma to the forefront which no one would want to deal with right now)
They could have changed Nancy's line and made it more obvious that she does know Robin if they wanted to though. Maybe they could have changed it to "And you are ...?" which would have implied that Nancy knows Robin but either forgot or doesn't know her name which would be a lot more realistic. They didn't do that though and I don't know why.
That also makes it possible that Nancy was only pretending to not know Robin but I don't see what her motive would be. Why would she do that? Why would she want everyone to think that she doesn't know Robin? Like I said it is a very hectic situation and no one would have noticed if Nancy simply wouldn't have said anything at all. Nancy outright asking who Robin is also brings attention to the fact that she doesn't know who Robin is.
In the end I absolutely cannot be sure though because as said I have no idea about the actual context or if Barb really ditched Robin to be friends with Nancy.
If anyone else wants to chime in here and clarify the situation for anon and for me I would be very happy to reblog you.
There is however an explanation as to why Nancy is a bit hostile towards Robin at the beginning of S4 and it does have to do with Barb. Someone who since deactivated their account made some great points and you can still read them here (in my reblog.) Basically Nancy was just reminded of Barb's death not so long ago. Plus she also lost Fred who was much like Robin at the library on a mission with Nancy to investigate some stuff. They however both died while they were in Nancy's proximity.
It's very much possible that she doesn't want Robin to end up like Barb or Fred just because she was unlucky enough to be with Nancy at the wrong time.
It's still insane to me that they went this far with having Jonathan and Steve be close to one another. They were touching at every possible opportunity. If the goal was to just have Jonathan save Steve because it's a nice twist then they would not have needed to go so overboard with this.
In fact it looks like Jonathan and Steve were paying special attention to one another which is especially interesting considering that Nancy is right next to them but she doesn't get this treatment. She is just next to them like the best friend that she is. Meanwhile Jonathan and Steve make sure the other is okay and safe throughout this whole scene.
And yeah. The hand holding. And who do they have it in common with?
Ronance and Byler
You might also want to check out this post if you are looking for more underrated sexually charged moments between Jonathan and Steve.
It also directly precedes the byler "crazy together" scene.
Hey, I wanted your thoughts about the scene in the epilogue where Jonathan and Steve finally put their apparent rivalry to the past, especially because they decided to use "Tammy" for the scene.
For me, it's even more revealing that Nancy was both their Tammy and that it was finally time to move on (and find each other)
I think Jonathan is 100% ready in 1989, he asked not once, but twice Steve to come to NY... Steve might not be ready though (given his own delusions about Kristen).
Thank you so much for the question!
Before I really start answering though I must say that my interpretation of what Tammy actually means differs from what is more commonly believed. They say that Tammy is someone you met earlier in your life and who you (unrequitedly) fell in love with but then also leave behind for someone better, right?
Well, I don't think it is that easy. As @ms-anne-xia has pointed out to me in these two asks it really looks like Robin is still more in love with Tammy than she's with Vickie and I believe there is a reason for it. She may be over Tammy at the point where she talks to Will about her but she also isn't solely talking about Tammy either. She is talking about Nancy who is very similar to Tammy in terms of looks and basic character traits. (You can also read my theory here if you want a more in depth version of of this whole scene between Robin and Will)
This to me also changes the meaning of Tammy or what it's like to be one's Tammy. It seems more like a past love that still holds relevance to the present. Like Robin being over Tammy but still being in love with someone who is a lot like her (Nancy.) Or you can also take byler into account. Will is not over Mike. He's not just some distant figure from the past. Will is still very much in love with Mike.
Soo, you may be wondering why I am telling you all of this, right?
Because it also carries relevance for the stonathan scene and no, it is not about Nancy. I do wonder if the Tammy song during this scene is actually about Steve and Jonathan themselves instead of Nancy. I have made several posts in the past talking about how it is possible that Steve and Jonathan have a shared past/ were friends once who may have also developed feelings for one another. You can check out my pinned post for them as well because going over this entire theory here would be too much to do.
That being said Steve's and Jonathan's conversation is actually really interesting and before I go into it I want to remind you of what happened before on the tower and the moment when Steve's and Jonathan's relationship actually started to get better.
If you compare the way Steve helps Nancy out of the hole in the lab with how he helps Jonathan you'll notice a stark difference. With Nancy it is straight to the point. Precise action and movement. No lingering whatsoever. With Jonathan it looks quite different. He touches Steve when he doesn't have to and the whole ordeal also takes much longer because apparently Steve and Jonathan also need time to hold hands for a bit.
Then on the tower there is a constant theme of them looking out for each other. They are constantly aware of where the other is and even touch the other sometimes. Both are ready to be there and help the other should they need it. We see this very clearly with Jonathan being there on time to save Steve but Steve throughout this scene also helps to keep Jonathan save when the platform is shaking and he is standing in the middle while Steve as a better grip on the railing. All of this happens while Nancy is very close to them both.
Keeping all of this mind it is quite interesting that one of the first things Jonathan says to Steve during this conversation is that he may not like him but doesn't want him dead because this is not how it looked like to me before. In fact if he treated Steve like he doesn't like him then I do have to wonder what this means for his treatment of Nancy on the tower.
No, I do believe there is something underlying happening here and it may not reveal itself if you take the whole conversation at face value but it is also important to keep in mind that both Jonathan and Steve do assume that the other has been or still is in love with Nancy.
Jonathan may think that Steve was there for Nancy during S4 but he's also wrong with his assumption. Robin was there for Nancy. Not Steve. If he feels like Nancy distanced herself after his return (and he isn't wrong in assuming that) then it was not because of Steve. It was because of Robin. He would never even think that though and maybe Nancy also never would have corrected him by saying it's about Robin instead of Steve.
Jonathan also knows that Nancy's distancing isn't the only reason why things have been off between them for a very long time now. For starters he never mentions Steve to Argyle in the desert. In fact he's so convinced that Nancy loves him above all else that he believes she's ready to let go of her dreams just to become his wife and mother of his children.
Likewise during S3 Jonathan knows their conflict was about money and the way Nancy's ambition stood in contrast to his desire to support his family. Steve wasn't even within viewing distance of their storyline and had nothing to do with it either and Jonathan should know that very well.
You might also want to keep in mind that while Nancy was distancing herself from Jonathan, Jonathan also did his utmost to stay out of Nancy's proximity. He also avoided her as much as possible which is odd if he really believed that she might leave him for Steve. Instead it was he himself who paid the most and closest attention to Steve and everything he did.
This also isn't what happened. Jonathan was also ready to let Nancy go during S4. He told Argyle how he's ready to let their relationship fizzle out because he doesn't want to confront her. In fact there are multiple times throughout all the story where Nancy's and Jonathan's relationship seemed like it might not last much longer but then something always happened to bring them back together. Their entire relationship history consists of fix-it after fix-it after fix-it.
In fact Steve played a huge role as to why jncy became a couple in the first place.
Then you have Steve saying that he knows he and Nancy were never really in the cards. He's also known for a while. This I do believe to be true as I cannot see much of romantic tension between Steve and Nancy at all throughout S5. It does raise at least one question though: Why was he so eager to climb the tower in 05x01? I am honestly not sure here. It could be because out of everyone present he's undeniably the most athletic and climbing the tower would be an easy way for him to get recognition which is what he longs for and is also part of his overall storyline this season anyway. Or he could also do it to impress Jonathan (a theory some people have) or it could be because he knows if he does something like this he'd get Jonathan's attention and he likes to have Jonathan's attention on him.
A thing which he probably feels bad about later during the van scene as he then tells Jonathan to stop focusing on him – funny thing when he's the one to provoke it in the first place – and start focusing on Nancy. After this conversation though there isn't really any attempt (not even one you could read as such) to provoke Jonathan. Unless of course you count normal conversation which Jonathan does but you should not.
(Note that this might also fit into what I call the biggest lesson of Steve's life and is about how he changed after S1. He had to stop loving other people selfishly and instead had to learn to put their needs before his own. So in our present case it means that he needed to stop provoking Jonathan even if he likes having his attention as it damages his relationship with Nancy and Jonathan's need to be happy with Nancy (or so Steve thinks) outweighs his own need to have Jonathan's attention on him)
Next we finally get a real and truthful assessment of the situation between Steve and Nancy. He wants kids which stands in contrast to Nancy's plans. His own wishes for his future would hold Nancy back which is part of the reason why they are incompatible. There is not a lot to say about this but maybe all the more about how Jonathan reacts to it.
In stark contrast to Nancy's nightmare vision of being a mother of 6 (or 4) Jonathan doesn't really reject Steve's idea. In fact, all we get is some mild criticism as he doesn't seem to agree with Steve calling children nuggets. This is also telling and might reveal to us that Jonathan himself isn't as turned off by the idea of having children as part of future as many people do believe.
The very fact that he thought Nancy would leave everything behind to become his wife and mother of his children supports it as well and tells us way more about Jonathan than about Nancy. It is very much possible that he is projecting his own wishes onto Nancy.
That being said he probably likes the idea of becoming a parent sometime in the future and he might like it all the more that Steve seems to share his dream.
Ah yes. The one declaration of true love a guy can make about the girl he loves above all else. "She's special." Jonathan, Steve (and Mike) do all agree on this. The girl they love is special while they never say what actually makes her special. Steve actually gets to be the one to be a bit more specific here because he already said about Nancy that she's independent and has to go her own way.
The thing about this is though that her being special or why Nancy is special to him is also a very important reason as to why Steve and Nancy would never fit. Same goes for Jonathan btw. I know he has a whole rant in S4 with Argyle about why he loves Nancy but just like with Steve these are the very reasons why he can't be with Nancy either. Steve/ Jonathan and Nancy are just too different to ever work as a couple. If she's independent and has to get out there she cannot be held back by responsibilities such as having to take care of children.
At the end of this conversation we get another reminder that Jonathan doesn't like Steve just as we are also getting confirmation that Steve would not want it any other way. This is very interesting because as said before Jonathan after his break-up with Nancy never really acted like he doesn't like Steve. There is also more to it because “not liking the other” and “not wanting to be liked by the other” might take on a whole new meaning if you compare it to the two people who undeniably like Steve.
I am talking about Robin and Nancy. Both have made a point that they actually do like Steve a lot and both have also made a point that they don't have any romantic interest in Steve.
Jonathan however is unlike those two. Maybe he really doesn't like Steve like Robin and Nancy do. Maybe “like” doesn't capture the entirety of everything he feels for Steve and maybe Steve also doesn't want to be liked by Jonathan in the same way that he is liked by Robin and Nancy.
Robin then hits the nail on the head when she teasingly calls them lovebirds because this is what I believe to be actually going on between these two. Do not however assume that they will be explicit about their feelings in this conversation or later during the epilogue. They are both still very much conforming but this whole conversation between Jonathan and Steve hints at what could have been if they both had the courage to go after what they actually want. (being together, a happy future and possibly children further down the line)
This is also where I want to bring in the meaning of the “Tammy” song for this conversation because I do believe it is reflective to the feelings they have had for each other possibly going as far back as before the show even started. Then they went on their respective journeys and could throughout all of it never really forget one another although they both really tried to.
It's a song reflecting lingering feelings from the past that still hold relevance today and I believe it holds the same meaning for Jonathan and Steve as it does for Will and Robin. They are all not over their Tammy. They are all very much in love with their Tammy (or in Robin's case the one who is very similar to Tammy) but no one is going to do anything about as apparently conforming is much more important.
That is the bittersweet truth behind it. At least according to my interpretation.
Lastly I want to address the last thing you said because I do agree with you here. Jonathan does want Steve to be with him. He tells him so two times. For Steve though it might not be as easy.
My interpretation of the ending also plays a role here as I do in fact believe it to be some kind of Vecna vision that is keeping everyone trapped by making them satisfied. They are not unhappy with the state they are in but they aren't truly happy with it either. They accept their fate if you want to think about it in terms of Max's three doors of fate. (also check out @anime97-99 theory about it here) In fact, I believe it is the satisfaction which keeps them in there and the lack of courage to actually go for what they really want.
What is also important to keep in mind is that they aren't truly unhappy either and this also works as a trap to keep everyone exactly where they are. If you have ever thought “At least it's not as bad as it could have been and then found yourself satisfied with the situation you are currently in although you know it could have also been better” you might understand what I am trying to say here.
This is especially important when it comes to Steve and his ending. I do believe he also wants to be with Jonathan but there is something that keeps him from following his wishes.
It's not any of the women he mentions though. It's fear (knowingly or unknowingly) of what fate would await him outside of this Vecna vision he's currently in or if he even has any fate outside of it at all.
He almost died once and Jonathan was the one to save him. This happened because Jonathan throughout all this tower sequence paid very close attention to him. Jonathan could do this because breaking up with Nancy freed him of his jealousy (of Nancy as he hated seeing Steve pay attention to her) and he was finally able to pay attention to Steve is a way that is reflective of his true feelings for him.
Steve however might not be aware of any of this. He might think that reality or what goes on outside of this vision they are currently in (if he even knows there is a reality outside as it could just as well be some vague fear he holds deep inside) consists of Jonathan and Nancy being a happy couple. A happy Jonathan who might not have paid as much attention to him on the tower which then would have lead him to fall to his death for real. Or in other words he might not believe that he would still exist outside this vision as he believes he might already be dead out there.
What he doesn't know is that there isn't a happy reality where Jonathan and Nancy are a couple and he's dead. If anything it'd be a nightmare scenario for everyone involved. Happiness as a couple is out of the question for Jonathan and Nancy either way and Steve being dead would have made it all the worse.
What he really needs to do is to start putting trust in Jonathan and himself. He needs to overcome his fear and and accept that Jonathan's happiness can and does include him and that the feeling is mutual. He needs to realize that Nancy for him and for Jonathan is not the key to happiness but that they themselves are.
And courage of course! He needs a whole bunch of courage to finally break free of this bullshit just like everyone else does because Steve isn't the only one who is conforming either. Everyone is. They're all satisfied instead of happy. They're all choosing safety over risk and this in the end leads to them living their lives in patterns that are very familiar to them but don't challenge them at all.
Let me again thank you for this question as I wanted to do an analysis of this scene for a while now but also never came around to it. So I took your ask as an opportunity to do so.
Hi! I'm the person who asked the last question that you responded to. I wanted to thank you for giving such a thorough response. Hearing your perspective was very cool :)
Link to anon's previous ask.
You're very welcome!
I was also really excited to find your ask in my inbox but then also had to take a few days to think about it and prepare an answer. I'm also really glad that to don't seem to be disappointed with me taking so much time.
I think partway through I realized I don't even know what you had in mind when you talked about some jncy scenes being corrupted ronance scenes because as said it's not so easy that you could just replace them and then everything is fine (imho.) I also don't think they are secretly a coupe and the narrative just overwrote it with jncy.
Instead I do believe that that the narrative deliberately keeps them apart. Or deliberately tries to keep jncy a couple for reasons I cannot even guess. It's like every time jncy was on the verge of break-up (up until S5) something else happened to keep them together.
They got fixed all the time and ronance isn't like that and would never be like that because they actually like to spend time together.
Let me also thank you again for sending me this wonderful ask. If you have any other thoughts you want to share you are very welcome to do so. Same goes for everyone else of course!
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The amount of times Jonathan and Nancy try to avoid each other in S5 is crazy. In fact they seem to do anything in their power to not have to talk or be around each other as much as possible.
Let me show you
Jonathan and Nancy are not sleeping in the same room.
Nancy could have handed Jonathan the plate with the bacon. He's right next to her and the last in line to Ted who is the one who asked for the bacon in the first place. She doesn't look at Jonathan though and neither does he look at her. Instead she hands the bacon to someone else.
When you rather want to look out of the window instead of having a conversation with your girlfriend
Extra (because Nancy also ditches Steve): Nancy could have presented the manual to Steve who was tasked to find it and who's also pretty close to her. She doesn't though. She shows Robin.
First Jonathan is ditching Nancy for Steve. Then Nancy is ditching both Jonathan and Steve for Robin.
Looking straight ahead while her boyfriend is stumbling right behind her. How are the chances that she just didn't notice? Yeaaahh
Would Nancy want them to stick to the plan? Either way it would give Jonathan the added benefit of not having to confront her. Meanwhile Nancy at the hospital isn't missing either of hem.
First Jonathan's quite vocally disagreeing with Steve's plan to drive through the gate but then he's also the first to congratulate him when they actually made it all while Nancy was the one to agree with Steve first. She was the one who pushed him to do it. Her impact does not seem to matter to Jonathan though.
Nancy is agitated because of Hopper and because Holly is missing but instead of caring for her or even talking to her Jonathan much rather makes a comment about a comparison Steve made earlier. (Which mind you is kinda outrageous because if anyone should know what it's like if your little sibling is missing it's Jonathan. But no. Steve is more important.)
When you rather want to team up with your supposed "love rival" instead of your own girlfriend
Also all of this happens before Jonathan and Nancy finally break up.
Hi, so I've seen some theories that meories/ scenes have been altered and that maybe some of the Jancy scenes are Ronance scenes. Some people have based this theory on wardrobe parallels between Robin and Jonathan in S5. I've also noticed some other parallels between their characters that I don't know if anyone has pointed out, that I've put below:
Both of them seemed not to really have any friends before becoming involved with the supernatural.
Both are associated with music.
Robin repeatedly mentions her mom not appreciating her, which is also true of Jonathan.
Jonathan and Robin both have storylines involving lying to their significant others (Jonathan about college; Robin about the Upside Down).
Both act as mentors to Will
So, basically, I was wondering if you think that Jonathan and Robin parallels might be a hint that some Jancy scenes are actually corrupted Ronance scenes? And if so, do you also think some of the Robin and Steve scenes/ scenes where Steve mentions Robin could actually be Stonathan scenes/ about Jonathan?
For instance, in S4 at the Creel house, Steve tells Nancy that he and Robin are just friends, but then goes on to say that he could date her, then says never mind and trails off. I always found this an odd thing for Steve to say. The implication is basically that he would date her if she wasn't gay, which is kind of a fetishy thing to say, and seems out of character for Steve. Plus, Steve seems to really just think of Robin as a friend in S4 (in my opinion), so him saying he would date Robin felt out of place. That made me wonder if maybe that line of dialogue was actually about Jonathan.
So, first of all thank you so much for this very interesting ask but I must say I am not too sure about jncy scenes being corrupted ronance scenes because generally speaking jncy is build upon a very flimsy foundation. They aren't hopelessly in love with one other. They are together for very specific reasons which in the end are not rooted in genuine romantic attraction to one another or even physical attraction. They are a couple and stay a couple throughout most of the show because the narrative wants it that way. Not because Jonathan or Nancy would have chosen the other on their own terms.
Yet as you also said Jonathan and Robin do share a lot of parallels and I have also thought about them quite a lot and even more about how Jonathan and Robin actually differ from one another.
But first le us go over the parallels you mentioned.
It is true that the show presents us that neither Robin nor Jonathan did have any friends before the UD but Jonathan also tells us later that he considers Will to be his best friend which I would assume might have also been true before the show even started (Personally I also believe he was friends with Steve and then also had a bad fallout with him before the show even started but this is based on my very own interpretation so ymmy)
Also correct. Both are associated with music but Robin in the end also makes Mike choose a different record because she disagrees with his choice as she doesn't like the song. Would Jonathan have done the same?
Both of their mothers don't appreciate them in the way they deserve but the difference lies in how they deal with this as family still matters a lot Jonathan (I will talk more about this later)
Both Robin and Jonathan do lie and both also do it to save/ prolong their relationship with their partner but this also links jncy more with rvickie which is fitting considering that both ships do share some characteristics
Both act as mentors to Will but with quite different outcomes. Whereas you can be sure that Jonathan's advise to Will comes from a genuine place of goodwill you might actually doubt Robin's intentions. I still believe that she tried to give him the best advise she thought she could give him but there is reason to believe that she just tried to make him follow her footsteps in overcoming a love she deems impossible because she believes the love interest to be straight and therefore completely out of reach. (Yes, this would be about Mike, Tammy Thompson and most of all Nancy Wheeler)
This btw is what Robin looks like right before she tells Will the story about Tammy, her younger self an the 8 mm camera. She is rolling her eyes which makes it seem like she is rather annoyed at what she knows she's going to do next. In other words she might not even have an interest to mentor Will in the first place. She also isn't in this situation by her own choice. She got caught in a compromising situation and then proceed to save what there is left to save. Possibly pissing off Will would be totally off the table here. She might not want to be his mentor but she is still trying her best anyway.
Now compare this with Jonathan who is always eager to help Will in any way he can because he is his brother and Jonathan loves him a lot. You would never catch him roll his eyes at Will. Never.
As I said before I am not quite sure about jncy scenes being corrupted ronance scenes but that also heavily depends on what people have in mind when they talk about corruption and what it means for scenes to be corrupted. It is not as easy as just swapping out Robin for Jonathan and expecting it to have the same result. But then again maybe this is also not what the theorists are arguing for. I do not know.
If scenes are indeed corrupted and we are meant to replace Robin with Jonathan in some way then it would for sure also lead to a very different outcomes.
I do however believe that the parallels and also differences between Robin and Jonathan are present for a very good reason as I do believe that it is possible that the narrative expects them both to fulfill roles the other would be much better suited for. (Does this also count as corruption?)
One instance would be the mentoring of Will as mentioned above but there is also an even more glaring example of it and it involves Nancy as well.
For this we need to go back and look at what Murray told Nancy about Jonathan (and Steve) back in S2.
Murray: Probably, like everyone, afraid of what would happen if you accepted yourself for who you really are and retreated back to the safety of - Name? Name? -
Jonathan: Steve.
Murray tells Nancy that she is afraid of embracing who she truly is and is therefore rejecting Jonathan and retreating back to the safety of Steve. (Also note that it is Jonathan who links safety with Steve, not Nancy) This then means that if she would only embrace who she actually is she would ditch Steve and be with Jonathan.
Steve here also works as a symbol of sorts. He represents safety, (financial) stability, marriage and family.
Nancy however as we all know doesn't want any of this. She wants to follow her dreams and not be trapped in life that would ultimately make her incredibly unhappy. So she in this moment and a bit later does what Murray tells her to do because she also believes his promise (Jonathan would support her in following her dreams) to be true. Murray here is manipulating them both to be honest.
Now let us keep this in mind and look at what Jonathan actually thinks of Nancy and if he is able to fulfill the promise Murray gave her.
In S1 Jonathan accuses Nancy of being insincere in her rebellious ways. He thinks that she in the end will give up on her dreams and instead marry a popular guy from school (Steve) and start a family with him in a cul-de-sac. Pretty heavy words but maybe he didn't fully knew Nancy back then, right? Maybe he's just too cynical to believe that there are people out there who genuinely don't want to live a life that involves family and marriage.
By the time S4 rolls around though, Jonathan should definitely know better but instead he still tells Argyle that he is convinced Nancy would again let go of her dreams because the guy she is currently with (he himself) doesn't want what she wants. He believes that she would come to him, marry him and then they'd have kids. Yes, I am fully aware that Jonathan also makes a point that he knows it'd turn ugly in the end because she'd then blame him for giving up on herself which would be a correct assumption. My point though is that marriage and family are still the only plans he has ever had for his future with Nancy. Never has he tried to think of what their future could look like if it doesn't involve marriage. In fact it almost seems like marriage seems to be an essential part of his future just like said marriage ending in divorce and disappointment also seems to be the inevitable outcome.
In other words: Even by S4 and after spending 3 full seasons with Nancy his opinion of is still the same as it was in S1.
To make matters even worse in S3 he he also tells Nancy multiple times to drop the story she so desperately wants to pursue is therefore siding with their boss (an authority figure who also represents the oppressive system) over his actual girlfriend. (He has very good reasons for doing so and I will get into that a bit later.)
Now let us remember again what Murray told Nancy: She could embrace who she truly is if she would just be with Jonathan instead of Steve as apparently Jonathan would help her to embrace who she actually is.
I mean either Murray is right and deep down Nancy wants to b a wife and mother (lol) or Jonathan is just Steve 2.0 in here and in the end also values what Steve is supposed to be representative of.
Thing is that Jonathan fits the outward aesthetic of the person Nancy is looking for which is also where her attraction in S2 came from. She wasn't attracted to Jonathan as a person. She was attracted to what she believed he stood for: Someone who supports her in pursuing her dreams.
Jonathan is rebellious in the way that he is cynical and very critical of society. He is an outcast and considered a freak. He also holds a deep disdain towards the system. Therefore he also seems like the person who would understand Nancy best and would support her when she needs it most against authority figures and the system trying to keep her down.
He doesn't do any of it though. Instead he in some ways acts like an extension of the forces trying to keep her down because how is his behavior any different from what Murray said she'd find with Steve?
Then S3 introduces free-spirited Robin.
Like Jonathan she also fits the outward aesthetic of a rebel but unlike Jonathan she can also give the word the word the meaning it deserves.
Robin doesn't adhere to authority. Robin praises Nancy for her will to search for information on her own and follow her instincts even in defiance of what others tell her to do. Like that time at the beginning of S4 when Nancy was defying Steve and his worries and Robin was there to witness it.
I do believe it must have left an impression on Robin because behavior like this is what Robin is drawn to. She likes strong-willed women who go their own way despite what others and society tells them to. She was head over heels in love with Tammy Thompson after all who also never made her plans of becoming a singer a secret to anyone and who also faced lots of adversary (everyone saying she is a bad singer) but never cared for it either as she had plans she wanted to follow.
Robin also unlike Jonathan would never hold Nancy back in the same way he does because Jonathan in the end is also a very family-oriented person. Family to him always comes first. Be it his mother or his brother. It is for their benefit he's willing to do everything. Not for Nancy's.
Robin on the other hand seems annoyed by her own mother. I have a really hard time imagining Robin prioritizing her family's needs over her own or anyone else's. In fact Robin seems like the kind of person who would leave the environment she is currently in without a second thought if she'd be able to whereas Jonathan would never leave Will or his mother behind if he feels that they might need him.
Jonathan loves his family and it is also his family which is his motivation for siding with his and Nancy's boss in S3. He wants to support them in order to lessen their financial struggle and Nancy only comes second after this. He would always have consideration for his family which in the end also means that he comes with ties attached to him his significant other would need to accept and deal with.
Nancy however doesn't want to be held back by anything or anyone. She doesn't want to compromise which as you might assume then inevitably must lead to conflict with Jonathan.
Robin much like Jonathan also faces financial struggles but unlike Jonathan she also never turned them into ammunition against Nancy. Robin also must find an answer to the question as to how to pay for collage as her family probably won't be able to pay for it either. Arguably she is even poorer than Jonathan because at the very least he has a car and a license while Robin does not.
Robin also doesn't see Nancy as a future wife and mother.
What I am trying to say here is that Robin embodies the type of person Nancy was promised to find in Jonathan. Both are similar in certain ways but also different in ways that matter especially when it comes to their motivations and the way they deal and interact with Nancy.
This is why I am a bit iffy about jncy scenes being corrupted ronance scenes. There is nothing in jncy that actually makes Nancy (or Jonathan) happy. If anything they make each other more miserable by the minute and I see Robin and ronance (as well as stonathan) in contrast to jncy.
Please also keep in mind that Jonathan and Nancy don't like to hang out and do activities together because as it is revealed to us nothing they could do together is fun for the both of them. By S5 it is also very noticeable how they actively tend to avoid each other as much as possible.
Meanwhile Nancy chooses to be with Robin whenever she can and Jonathan in a twisted way also chooses Steve over Nancy as well. He prioritizes what Steve does and what he says over everything Nancy does and says and yes I do believe the reason for this is jealously but he isn't afraid of losing Nancy to Steve. Otherwise he would pay more attention to her and her needs. What he is really unable to handle is losing Steve to Nancy.
You can also look at this whole thing from Jonathan's perspective. If he thinks that Nancy will in the end marry him and become mother his children then you might also ask why he's never let go of this belief. Why his mind seems to circle back to marriage and kids even when that isn't necessary at all. Nancy doesn't want it and has never given him any indication that she might and yet in S4 he still believes she does.
Honestly, I do think he is projecting, What Jonathan envisions Nancy being unable to resist in the end is actually what he himself is unable to resist despite his desperate tries to do so. He's not naive though. He has been let down by society as well and he is fully aware that what he actually wants is hard and maybe almost impossible to achieve. His own father left his family and even the Wheelers (Karen and Ted) who do seem to have everything society deems valuable are still unhappy in their marriage and Jonathan knows it because Nancy told him. So even if he theoretically were to achieve what he wants, he still believes it'd ultimately end up in failure.
Yet he's unable to let go because he cannot rid himself of what would actually make him him happy. Jonathan thrives when he's with his family. He loves them deeply and and is the most happy when he is with them. So what would that sentiment mean for his future and how it looks like? When either he himself or Will is out of the house and they don't live together anymore? I do believe that in the end Jonathan would also opt to have children and love and care for them in way that is very similar to how he treats Will right now.
So then, who is the only other person in their age group who places any value on family at all? Who is the one that learns to love and care for kids and also sees them as part of his future? Yeah. That is Steve.
Both Nancy and Jonathan are hoping to find in the other what they are looking for but both end up being disappointed. Neither can fulfill the others wants and desires because they are not fundamentally how the other imagines them to be.
Robin and Steve could though. Maybe. If the narrative would give them a chance. It doesn't though. (Is this also what is meant by jncy being a corrupted ronance storyline?)
Going back to your last point about the scene with Steve and Robin I must say that I totally agree with you. Jonathan is the person Steve has in mind and what he says about Robin is mostly still a reaction and damage control to a thing he accidentally said earlier.
It actually starts here with Nancy pulling the spiderwebs out of Steve's hair which then finally gives him the opportunity to do what I think he's been wanting to do since the start of the season. He asks if they can all go out together. Then he mentions himself, Nancy and then Robin. There is nothing suspicious about it just yet. He is friends with both Nancy and Robin so it's natural if he wants to go out with them.
Then he makes a very slight pause and mentions Jonathan. This so far is also still okay. The common belief (by the audience) is that he mentions Jonathan as an afterthought in order to placate Nancy and make her think that he's not romantically interested in her as he's also willing invite her boyfriend is therefore respecting their relationship.
What comes after is what makes it really weird because then he drifts off and mentions in a dreamy, wistful but also slightly regretful voice that „it's not like we are dating.“ This can of course mean Nancy as she's touching his hair right now but the kicker is that the last person he actually mentioned was Jonathan. Usually and especially in this short amount of time your mind wouldn't drift as much. At least from a general point of view it would make sense that what he says would be about the person he mentions last. Jonathan.
So, it is absolutely possible his mind did indeed stay with Jonathan and what he says to Nancy is also actually about Jonathan. This means that he just now blurted out to Nancy that he's kind of regretting not being the one who's currently dating her very own boyfriend.
Quite a blunder, isn't it?
No one is actually understanding what is happening here but the possibility that someone could still drives Steve into panic mode. He potentially just disclosed his queerness for everyone to hear and made it clear that he might be interested in dating someone he shouldn't have any interest in whatsoever. Jonathan who's a guy and on top of that also his love rival if seen from an outsider's viewpoint.
So he tries to salvage the situation and goes for the only safe option he has left: Robin.
He corrects himself by saying that it's not like he and Robin are dating which is the truth. I think you are also correct in assuming that Steve only sees Robin as a friend and is therefore not interested in dating her. He's just trying to inject this new meaning into the statement he just made which originally wasn't about Robin at all.
Then he's again trying to convince Nancy that he isn't dating Robin like it wasn't enough already and I do believe he also notices how his words might not help him as much as he wants them too. He just let it slip that he's interested in guys (one guy) and now he tries to make Nancy believe that this is not how she should interpret his words … by insisting of only being platonically interested in a woman. ("Do not assume I might be gay, I - a guy - am only friends with this woman." is what he basically says here and yeah. It's not very convincing.)
This doesn't help his cause if he wants Nancy to believe he is straight so he tries to reestablish his heterosexuality again by saying that of course he would date her but she's not interested in him ("It's not me! It's her!") and then he trails off because he also isn't going to disclose Robin's secret to Nancy.
The essence of this is that he desperately tries to make this not about him or his own queerness. He doesn't want Nancy to think hard about what he actually might have meant or what the implications of it are. He just wants her to believe that he's straight and there is no hidden queerness in him whatsoever. So he basically says that the reason as to why he and Robin are „only“ friends is not because of him but because of her.
He uses Robin quite a lot in this exchange in order to deflect from what is actually going on inside him. I also believe that he's overreacting a bit because neither Nancy nor Robin would somehow expect him to be queer just because he fumbles with words and might have said something he didn't intend to say. He is panicking though and this is reflected in how he stumbles over what he says and the meaning he wants to convey to Nancy.
Another thing about this whole exchange I personally find quite interesting is the order in which Steve names the people he wants to go out with. First it's himself, then Nancy (the one who the narrative wants us to think this is about,) then Robin (his platonic friend) and then comes Jonathan.
It's interesting that both Nancy and Robin are in the middle of this succession of names because if something or someone holds special importance to you then you would in most cases either think of them first (name them first; in this case it doesn't hold though as he himself takes that place) or you'd put them last (leaving the best for last; and also what comes last usually stays with you longer.) Last one is Jonathan though and that is interesting especially because neither Nancy nor Robin come to Steve's mind first. They are sandwiched in the middle.
That at the very least is my interpenetration of the scene as to what is happening between Steve and Robin (and Nancy) in this small exchange. I don't know if this would be considered a corrupted stonathan scene but I absolutely do believe that Jonathan was on Steve's mind during this conversation. However I also believe that Jonathan and Steve have a lot of undisclosed history between them which neither of them is willing to tell us (the audience) about.
Maybe though there might be a scene that I would consider corrupted after all but it also heavily depends on what your definition of corruption looks like. I do believe it is possible that in S5 it might have been better if Jonathan would have stayed back in Hawkins and Robin would have gone with Dustin, Steve and Nancy into the UD. (I talked about in more detail in this reblog here) Maybe then Jonathan would have been the one to give Will better advise that isn't discouraging him from confessing his true feeling the person he actually likes (Mike) and maybe Robin would have been able to keep Nancy from shooting the exotic matter because let's face it Nancy at this point in time would have never ever listened to what Jonathan says while she might have listened to Robin.
That being said, I think it can only happen under the condition that Jonathan and Nancy face their relationship problems much sooner and then inevitably also have their break up much sooner because if Jonathan isn't in the UD with Nancy, it obviously can't happen there so it must therefore happen before they enter.
Again, thank you so much for this wonderful question, anon. I had so much fun answering it and putting all of this together and I really hope you are satisfied with my answer even though it is kinda long (and I did not cover Steve's perspective at all)