Jasper🍂

I love you trans man lesbians

I love you non-binary lesbians

I love you agender lesbians

I love you trans fem lesbians

I love you trans masc lesbians

I love you bi-gender lesbians

I love you gender non conforming lesbians

I love you femme lesbians

I love you butch lesbians

I love you stud lesbians

I love you masc lesbians

I love you lesbians that only use “dyke” to refer to your lesbianism

I love you lesbians that only use “wlw” to refer to your lesbianism

I love you lesbians that only use “nmlnm” to refer to your lesbianism

I love you lesbians that only use “as long as you’re not a cishet man” to refer to your lesbianism

I love you lesbians that don’t date women

I love you lesbians that only date women

I love you lesbians that are t4t

I love you lesbians that are in the closet

I love you lesbians that are loud and proud to be queer

I love you lesbians that are bisexual

I love you lesbians that are pansexual

I love you lesbians that are gay for men

I love you lesbians that are omnisexual

I love you lesbians that are stone tops

I love you lesbians that are pillow princesses

I love you lesbians that are tops

I love you lesbians that are bottoms

I love you lesbians that switch between top and bottom

I love you lesbians who don’t participate in sex

I love you lesbians that bend the “meaning” of what a lesbian is

I love you lesbians that describe your gender as lesbian

I love you lesbians that only use lesbian sometimes

I love you lesbians that love men

So, shout out to disabled people who:

—Can't always wash their hands after using the toilet. *

—Who wet/mess themselves in bed(and can't clean it up) because "I can't leave bed" means I can't leave bed.

—Who get nosebleeds because they pick their nose so much. *

—Who can take a bath/shower, put on deodorant, and put on freshly washed clothes and still smell 'bad'. *

—Who can't help but get food/drink/blood/snot/etc. on their books/comics/magazines when they try to read. *

—Who eat everything with their hands. *(I've eaten cereal and soup with mine on multiple occasions)

—Who have/have had moldy dishes/pop bottles/wrappers/food/etc in their room for weeks or months or years or longer. *(I just recently had help from a sibling to replace my broken furniture, clean up my space, and throw out trash. Before that I had moldy stuff in my room for up to 4 or 5 years for some of it.)

—Who have never had bed wetting problems, but do struggle to stay dry during the day. *(Bed wetting is valid too, of course, and so is doing both, I've just seen people talk about bed wetting, but not day wetting.)

—Who eat things(specifically non-food things)you know you shouldn't. *(I'll eat just about anything(just not most foods), but I'm big on styrofoam and old chipped paint from my walls)

—Who don't know/can't use "basic manners" *

—And a bunch of other stuff I can't think of right now(feel free to add more in comments/reblogs)

Mspec lesbians (who do like men) aside, you can't call yourself a gold star lesbian without implicitly saying that the lesbians who tried so hard to "fix" themselves by getting in relationships with men and have managed to accept themselves now are lesser lesbians. Without subtly saying that the lesbians who didn't know they were exclusively lesbian and found out through trying to be with men aren't as good at being a lesbian as you are. Or that the lesbians who were pressured into relationships with men that they may not have wanted have failed at lesbianism. Nor can you say it without sending the message that a caedlesbian (lesbian because of trauma, especially trauma around me ) isn't as much of a lesbian as you, because you're naturally a lesbian.

Being a lesbian isn't a test you took in elementary school where you get a gold star sticker if you get full marks. You can't get full marks in being a lesbian, because every lesbian has their own experience and every journey is valid.