🕸️Anti Contact Anti Confirmity🎃

paraphiliac disorder is specifically when a paraphilia causes a person distress or interrupts their life. we do see this a lot with pedophilia because of the stigma and hate towards pedophilia specifically, but not every pedophile has pedophiliac disorder. the DSM-5 explicitly states that a person who has not caused harm or is not distressed by their paraphilia should not be diagnosed as having a paraphiliac disorder.

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hmm.. maybe the radqueer community isn't so bad... i'll look at the tag today ^u^

oh wow, he coined transID? so cool! i wonder what else he has on his blog-

oh. that's him reblogging a post that's extremely clearly about being pro-c.

and running a ""safe"" discord server. that definitely includes pro-cs.

but surely that "hebequeer" post isn't popular? surely someone is calling this out?

surely there's at least SOMEONE in the notes saying this is bad?

nope. literally only positive feedback. fuck this stupid community.

fuck this community for letting these people in, fuck this community for telling people to be "more inclusive" to people with an ideology justifying abuse, fuck this community for convincing people that unethical relationships are ethical, fuck this community for creating these unsafe "safe" spaces, fuck this community for letting these people hide, fuck this community for letting these people be open about their abusive ideology. a community i once was proud of, now nothing but a hell pit of edgelords justifying animal abuse and justifying child abuse. fuck pro contact bullshit

> neu consent

> equating youthlib with the hebe age range

Thank you for letting me know. I will personally be leaving my asks on as usual so that I can receive any troll asks and report them for spam, threats, etc.

However, I have the spoons for this task, which many people do not, and I also have been through multiple of these raids before and know how to handle them, where for many people this will be the first time.

In my experience, if you have under 300 followers and no viral posts or kiwifarms pages, you will probably not get hit with much or anything. However, better safe than sorry, so:

If you want to ensure you are not affected by this raid, take the following precautions from now until Dec 26:

Turn off ALL asks. If for some reason you cannot do that, then turn off BOTH anons and media in asks.

Turn off ALL submissions. If you cannot do that, leave ONLY text submissions on. Text submissions CAN contain images, but they will be blurred until you click them.

Set DMs to "only allow messages from tumblrs you follow" to prevent new accounts from messaging you directly

xelebre.com is open for signups! We are a pro-fiction anti-censorship Mastodon instance based upon the principles of freedom of thought and tolerance.

If you think you can apply it to paraphilias in general, let me remind you that some people think animals and four year olds can consent, so no, your stance doesn't really say anything, this is a term in which pro-contact people who are scared of being seen as pro-contact due the controversy that encompasses this term.

That's why, if you are going to say your contact stance, or you are anti-contact, or pro-contact, no complex contact, no consensual contact, no neutral, just pro or anti for sexual and romantic contact with little children and animals. Easy.

If you want to add something else for a specific paraphilia or action, then add it with the proper explanation of what you want to say, but that does not mean you should distort an important stance that should be specific for your own desires.

These labels should portray something solid, not something fluid that changes depending on the person, contact stances are important for the para community, and if you don't care, then don't interact with contact stances and the discourse surrounding them at all, don't even mention them.

Neutral here just means pro-contact, neutral here just means you are okay with people saying that kids and animals can consent.

Stop distorting a stance that literally boils down to being pro-abuse or anti-abuse.

And I get it. I understand why it's galvanizing. None of us got justice (not that I believe our current legal frameworks could even dispense it) and we have to live every day with the shit that happened to us. And that fucking sucks. The animal in me wants retribution. It wants them to hurt like they hurt me, it wants violence done to them like the violence they did to me. When I was 19 I would watch To Catch a Predator on YouTube on repeat. It satisfied that angry animal. Seeing n these men--the exact same sorts of men who hurt me, having the exact same sorts of conversations they had with me--getting their "just desserts" was so profoundly satisfying to me.

But no one deserves violence--physical or social--certainly not for the sake of supposed catharsis. The animal that craves an eye for and eye is reactionary. It is moved by feeling, outrage, and (often justified) anger. But what it really wants, it will never get. I cannot change the fact that I've been raped and abused. It will never be satisfied, it will always be angry.

And how quickly that quest for satisfaction turns to violence, social murder, and torture--all in the name of "protecting children." But this world does not have monsters. Evil doesn't exist. Everything is explicable, every social ill has material conditions which produces it. I wasn't raped and abused because of evil. I was raped and abused because adults had incredible amounts of power over me and they wanted to use that power and just didn't care about how it would hurt me.

But the fascists don't care about that. They never have. To them, the problem they face is not one of the material conditions of children, but instead a fight against evil, against whatever social forces stand in the way of the family as an economic unit of capitalist production. They'll label you as a pedophile too.