this winter hasn’t been so rough

Lord, grant me the strength to throw away this box that i'll never use, the courage to throw away this box that i'll never use, and the wisdom to throw away this box that i'll never use

And when ilya makes the Theo ilya connection he’s like borya you know you are like a brother to me you know I stay out of your business (ignore the drug deals) But dude. Why this guy who isn’t even hot and is straight up unpleasant to be around. And boris is like nooooooo you just made a bad first impression because he’s weird about rich people and gay people and the concept of Russia. That last one’s because I am the sound of the woman who loves him that he will never get away from. Even! Though I’m not gay. The rest well he’s a judgemental asshole :-) but he is also soooooooooo kind so generous so full of love and also soooooooo sad all the time you don’t even know how many times I had to drag him off a roof or road or out of the water.

These types of jokes rely on a belief that trans women should be grateful to experience misogyny. That misogyny is not something we already deal with every single day. And that misogyny is a mostly harmless if mean activity and not a massive systemic force that gets us raped and murdered. Calling women bitches is not funny and it doesn't become silly just because you're talking about a minority of women, that's ridiculous.

"every trans woman I meet is a bitch" should be a clue in to that maybe the narrator isn't treating trans women respectfully

in the movie the goldfinch (2019), boris, played by aneurin barnard, is wearing leather cuban heel chanel boots. this is a subtle nod to the fact that he's gay.

Has anyone considered sleazy 70's Ray in a burnt orange suit with flared trousers and chunky yellow tinted aviators. can anyone hear me.....