ori's nebula

My dear little ones,

Sometimes, the big world is just too loud, too fast, and too heavy. Slipping into your small, soft headspace should feel like wrapping yourself in a warm blanket on a rainy day. So, I have gathered a few gentle tips to help you find that cozy feeling, whenever you need it most. (´｡• ᵕ •｡`)♡

1. Create a "Little Nest" Just for You.

Find a corner of your room or your favorite spot on the couch. Pile it high with your softest blankets, your squishiest pillows, and all your favorite plushies. This is your secret kingdom, where only softness is allowed.

2. Prepare a "Little Basket" Ahead of Time.

Fill a small basket or bin with everything you might want while small: coloring books and crayons, a sippy cup, a pacifier if you use one, a small snack, and a comfort object like a special stuffie. Having it all in one place means you don't have to search or think too hard.

3. Choose Your Cozy Sounds.

Soft music, gentle lullabies, or the quiet hum of a favorite cartoon can be a wonderful anchor for your little space. Make a playlist or find a show that feels like a warm hug for your ears. ♪(´▽｀)

4. Let Your Body Feel Small.

Wrap yourself in an oversized hoodie or a soft blanket like a cocoon. Curl up on your side. Hold a plushie close to your chest. Sometimes, letting your body feel small helps your mind follow.

5. Give Yourself Permission to Be Little.

This is the most important tip, my dear. You do not laneed to earn your little space. You do not need to be "little enough" or do things perfectly. You are allowed to be small, quiet, silly, or even a little sad. There is no wrong way to be you.

6. If You Have a Caregiver, Use Gentle Signals.

If words feel too big, have a small signal for when you need them. A certain blanket over your shoulders, a specific plushie in your lap, or a simple text like "🌙" can tell them you need extra softness.

7. Be Kind to Your Heart.

Some days, slipping down will feel easy and floaty. Other days, it might feel sticky or impossible. That is okay, little one. You are not failing. Your heart is just having a heavier day. Be as patient with yourself as you would be with a friend.

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and now it’s time to say goodnight!! ⭐️🌙

“what’s wrong, my little one? momma’s here for you.”

she carries you to her cozy little cabin and sets you down in your special play area, filled with all your favorite things—building blocks, a colorful toy piano, beloved toys, and more. Nearby sit your paci and your sippy, right where you left them.

curious, you crawl or toddle over to see what she’s doing. Momma bear smiles and gently boops your nose with her paw. She’s making a sweet snack just for you, hoping it will bring a smile back to her precious baby dove’s face.

soon, she lifts you onto her hip, holding you close while she prepares your favorite treat, showering you with soft cuddles and loving nuzzles along the way. 💛🐻

you have to be kinder to people who are slow processors.

you have to be kinder to people who don't understand your jokes.

you have to be kinder to people who forget important dates.

you have to be kinder to people with cognitive decline.

you have to be kinder to people who were always this way, too.