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If you’ve ever wanted to know what makes you a “bad b” or have always wanted to know what the formula was, I’m more than sure the things I wrote in this article will surprise you.... P.S: If your reading this your already a “bad b” you just haven’t realised it yet!

1. She minds her business

What people think of her is none of her business. She doesn’t indulge, get mixed up, involved or ask personal questions about other peoples business either. She is focused on her and her only.

2. She has her own hustle

Shes BUSY! And not busy doing nothing either.

Shes fully focused on her own dreams and desires and isn’t easily distracted by others or the pursuers of the outside world. She works at her own pace knowing that what is for her, will always be for her.

3. She always looks GOODT

Even on her worse days! She has a unique look and wears clothes well, she always looks clean, tidy and well presented, and people often wonder what she smells like when looking at her in a picture.

4. She only responds to those and things that matter

She understands that not everything needs a reply, answer or response, she takes her time to articulate her self only when she needs too.

5. She allows people to miss her...

She’s not part of and involved in everything, because she knows she doesn’t have to beinvolved in everything to be or stay relevant, people often wonder what’s she’s up too and that alone makes her mysterious.

6. She doesn’t befriend everyone

Her circle is small and only a small handful of people have contact with her. People go on a hunt to find out her telephone number or contact details.

7. She stands for things of importance,

You would never catch her entertaining drama online or promoting anything she doesn’t really care for! She stands firm in her truth and what she believes in.

9. Her personality is BOLD

She has no problem authentically expressing herself, she’s enjoys showcasing her personality but never does too much! - but just enough to get people talking...

10. She’s sexy

She has a inner sexiness about her. The essence of her isn’t always expressed or showcased in a traditional ways and that’s what makes her attractive to others. 

11. She had a Element of mystery

People think they know her but they have no idea. 

Bonus point.

12. She has no problem trying new things

People have no idea what her next move, step or venture will be, but when she’s on the scene people are often very excited, her whole existence is an adventure!

How the Greek goddesses would throw parties and who they’d invite:

Aphrodite:

Theme would be ‘S&M or M&S’

Hosted in a burlesque house she rented

Drinks would be laced with aphrodisiacs

Oisters anyone?

Playlist has a lot of Charli XCX

Balloons saying ‘consent is cute’

Invites to all the immortal ladies

Shirtless butlers

Artemis:

Full moon party

Tents in the woods

S’mores and hog roast

Fire dancers

Scary stories

Apollo would perform guitar

Drinking games

Guest list: Athena, Hestia, Apollo, Hermes, Hephaestus, Dionysus, Hecate, Persephone and Hades.

Hera:

Masquerade Ball theme

She bought a whole manor and estate for this

A full orchestra

She would check on all her guests constantly

The fine wine would be flowing

Floral arrangements

Guest list consists of everyone except Zeus’ affairs

Ballroom dancing

Demeter:

Dress code is bohemian

Picnic blankets on the grass

Food fresh from the garden

Flower crowns gifted upon arriving

Chamomile tea

She hired an ABBA tribute band

Strawberry picking competition

All of the Dryads, Persephone, Hera, Dionysus and Zeus.

Persephone:

Halloween party hosted in Underworld

She would dress up Cerberus

Banquet table of food

Blood red wine

Indie rock playlist

Let the Thriller dance off commence

Invitations in black wax ceiled envelopes

All of Olympus and the nymphs are invited

Hecate:

Witching hour party

Dress code is black on black

Cocktails served in cauldrons

Stevie Nicks is performing

Everyone’s getting high af

Hungarian dancers

Fireworks

Whoever dares is welcome to come, but guests of honour are Persephone and Hades

Athena:

Dinner party at her private residence

Dress code is academic elegance

Hired a string quartet

Reciting poetry

A quiz judged by herself

Debating at the table

Wine and cheese for dessert

Before you begin:

• Know what you want. What you really want. And don’t think of “how” you’ll get it. • Write the desire in present tense on a card. It is now your goal card. • Carry this card with you and read it often. This is putting the desire into your subconscious mind. • Check if your goal is really what you want. Can you imagine bigger? Are you letting fear stop you? Are you answering your soul’s calling with this? 

Night:

• How you fall asleep determines what shows up in your life. Everytime. Without fail. So we start our day how we fell asleep the night before, actually. Ask your self one question before you sleep: “If my wishes were fulfilled, how would I feel?” Fall asleep to that question satisfied. • Record an MP3 or voice note of your OWN voice, reciting positive affirmations. Get examples online but personalize them. Your subconscious mind trusts your own voice. Use it.  • Never ever let yourself fall asleep feeling stress or failure. Don’t invite it in. 

Morning:

• When your eyes open, set your intention for the day.  • Did you have any dreams last night? Write them down. • Write 5 things you’re grateful for. Increase to 10 after a while and begin to include wishes that are yet to manifest e.g. “I’m grateful I now weigh __” 

Day:

• Read Think And Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. (PDF’s online) Read slowly and reflectively.  • Read Feeling Is The Secret by Neville Goddard (PDF’s online)  • The Secret book/DVD is great for beginners but you’re going to have to dig deeper to pull this off.  • Do what makes you smile. Read, play your music, call a friend, go for walks. Do whatever you can to lighten your mood.  • Write about your desire as if it’s already happened.  • Visualize your life ASSUMING the desire has already happened. How do you feel? What are you wearing? Where are you? Was manifesting easy and fun?

Remember:

• Bruce Lee, Jim Carrey, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Oprah Winfrey, Big Sean, Conor McGregor and countless others have used this formula. It works, and it will work for you. 

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these are constantly updated, you can send me requests for films to add to my personal lists!