ONE - Tommy Lee is an abuser. In a case Pamela Anderson filed with the Los Angeles court, she stated that Tommy Lee had gotten jealous of the fact that she gave their children more attention. And so, he resorted to physical violence. According to Daily Mail, the papers stated, “Tommy kicked me violently in the back several times and in the buttocks. He was completely out of control.” Tommy Lee only gained four months in jail. He also abused his children. Pamela Anderson reported that he dangled his son in front of a “temperamental” rottweiler. She also wrote in the documents, “Brandon has told me that Tommy hurts him and pinches him and Dylan. Dylan has told me that he hates me for making him go to his father's.” He remained abusive well into their adult years. In March 2018, Lee’s fiancé, Brittany Furlan, called 911 after a fight broke out between Lee and his son, Brandon Thomas Lee. According to a transcript of the call, Furlan told the dispatcher, “My stepson and my fiancé got into a fight and pushed his father; And then he asked his son to leave and he wouldn’t leave and he punched him.”

TWO - Tommy Lee also has a history of sexual assault. According to a report from Tucker Max, one passage in the book “The Dirt: Confessions of the World’s Most Notorious Rock Band” read, “For ten years solid, we had been invincible. No one could touch us. Tommy and I had raped a drunk girl in the closet, and she had forgotten about it.”

THREE - Its easy to see how much of a womaniser Tommy Lee is. Another major confession in the band’s book involves Tommy Lee and his womanising habits. One of the stories in the book claims Tommy Lee had sex with a woman just so he could drive her Jaguar. He was notorious for his womanising ways. His marriage to Heather Locklear also failed due to his infidelity, as he cheated on her with a porn star.

FOUR - He fetishes a disability. During his interview with Rolling Stone, Tommy Lee explained, “I have this crazy fascination with little people. Like, if I see one, I’ll run up to him and be like, How’s it going? To be really honest with you, I want to take them all home with me. And I know I can’t do that, but for some reason I always try. They just remind me of fun and the circus. I don’t know what it is. And I’ve just always called my world “Tommyland” — like Disneyland, but a lot crazier.”

FIVE - He’s racist. He and Sixx verbally harassed and assaulted a black security guard during a concert in October 1997. According to a report from CBS, it all started when Sixx allegedly started a racial tirade against the guard and then encouraged a crowd of 2,500 to attack him. Lee, in turn, poured a drink on the guard’s head. When charges were filed against Lee following the incident, he turned himself into the authorities.

SIX - He fired workers without paying them a single cent- even after they had obliged by his constantly changing wishes and lack of pay.

SEVEN - He was seen as a ‘sex god’, and both he and his band, Motley Crue, were thrown back into fame. Pamela Anderson was shunned by society, and was completely sexualised and harassed over it.

I beg you to do your own research. Read about why Tommy Lee isn’t a good person, in any way. And please, respect Pamela Anderson. She deserved so much better than what she got. Don’t support Pam and Tommy just because your favourite actor is in it. Don’t support any show that tells a morally wrong and traumatising story, just because you like someone in it.