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Sauna [Haven post 5x26 Forever: Nathan Wuornos; Nathan/Paige] 1088 sanaa (8.8.2026)

https://archiveofourown.org/works/89365656

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@suomalaistenfaniteostenviikko päivä 5: vuodenajat inspiroima

Sophie Fournier Book 3 Lighting the Lamp (2020) by K.R. Collins +Finns

Korhonen from Montreal Mammoths

Jumalani on Lempo [Love is the Monster; Blake] 39 sanaa (8.8.2026)

Chapter 1: Prologi

It’s easy to say that cyber bullying doesn’t matter in the real world or whatever but targeted online bullying campaigns have the power to wreck entire communities and support networks.

It’s difficult to just turn off your computer when all the people who relate to this aspect of your life are in there.

I’ve definitely met other asexual and arospec people irl but it’s quite rare. And real life queer spaces are in fact often bars or kink spaces. And like bully for you if you like kink or alcohol or romance but when your entire identity is based around not feeling the feelings often associated with romance and/or sex that’s not always super fun.

And people got relentlessly mocked for bringing up this issue. Shut down. Called childish. Like okay. Fuck us for wanting a sober non sexual spot to meet other queers, right? So childish for wanting options.

I’ve been involved in the online asexual community and doing education about asexuality and aromanticism in both irl and online queer spaces for almost fourteen years now and that short period of time around 2016-2018 took a wrecking ball to my people that I feel like we’ve still barely recovered from and I’m still angry about it.

Take my gay cats, Tumblr!