Did you know you shouldn't misgender people even if they're problematic or if you dislike them or disagree with them. Did you know that misgendering doesn't become acceptable after a certain threshold and the other trans people around you will not feel safe and will wonder what it must take for you to misgender them too. Did you know recognizing people's identities isn't a fucking privilege revoked by bad behavior. Did you. Did you fucking know
Same goes for racism or ableism like. Hey it really really seems like you're just bigoted and glad to exercise it on acceptable targets and it will make you look bad and I will take your criticism way, way less seriously immediately.














