"learn to rest, not to quit "

when the "examples of fandom racism" post is actually just a trojan horse to complain about fans liking the wrong characters/ships/kinks under the guise of "well it makes poc (the ones whose opinions i'm willing to actually count) uncomfortable so you're a bad person if you keep writing it 🥺"

same case with the term "fandom misogyny" as well. obviously there are problems that can be tied to misogyny in fandom but radfems use that term to as a excuse to harass people who mostly prefer mlm ships "because men bad, women good." these radfems are saying that that those kind of shippers are "male centered" pick-me's and need to pay attention to wlw or mlw ships instead or else they are "misogynistic" without realizing that real life men gain absolutely nothing from these mlm shippers and the men they are centering in question are fictional characters just being used for their own entertainment.

jax we need more one more realistic depiction of a panic attack or this show is gonna be a flop, yes it has to be you, no it cannot be anyone else shut up and do it my little piggie

antis are really fucking funny i mean you'll be shipping adults😭😭 ADULTS and they'll be like UM THIS CHARACTER IS TEN YEARS OLDER SO LET'S NOT👆🤓. THERE FUCKING ADULTS😭😭😭

by the way it's fine to like sexual content just for the sake of it. "we can't ban porn because other stuff will get banned" "sometimes nude art has value" "the government will classify queer people as sexual" this is all true but it's okay to just like porn. its okay to not want porn to be banned because you like it.

i cannot do another round of "is shaving feminist?" discourse again, i simply cannot do it. is shaving feminist? no! do feminists shave their bodies? yes! is this a deep betrayal of principles? not really! do some women actually shave for the mythical "sensory reasons"? well, considering that my number one reason for shaving my legs in the summer is because my ceiling fan blows on the hair and i'm constantly having mini freakouts that i've got a bug crawling on me, i'd imagine some do! is it okay for a woman to say to herself "i realize i'm mostly doing this because i don't want to be treated worse by people in the world who find my unshaven legs disgusting, but i'm still going to do it because i don't think suffering for no reason is virtuous" and shave? yes! will yelling at her to "think critically about her choices" until she agrees with you actually work? no! does any of this make it any easier to get an abortion in this country? nope! have we replaced the "is this pop star a feminist?" discourse of the 2010s with "are your personal choices antithetical to the tenets of feminism?" discourse in the 2020s, none of which is conveniently focused on the actual loci of power?? hahahahahahaaaaa

this is so cool!