im back.. again! people didn't know how to act on anti-willo-solivan, as they were constantly putting csem links in my post comments, so I made the difficult decision to delete the blog.
this lets me start brand new while I fix up another intro post, reblog some old stuff, and so on.
first things first, i am against any non-traumagenic systems -> INCLUDING endos, willos, tulpas, polyminds, ect ect.
I am pro-kink and NUANCED pro-fic. I use the pro-fic label for a quick view point instead of repeating what I think over and over again to asks because it gets tiring. Do not label me as a proshipper, a darkshipper, or anything of the sort. I do not like their communities in any way, I do not like the profic community either in any way—don't start screaming at me for "trying to defend myself from being in an icky community", as before, i do not like any of these communities. my full stance is here, DONT SEND ME ASKS ABOUT SHIPCOURSE. I DONT CARE. ALL SHIPCOURSE ASKS GETS A BIG FAT FUCKING BLOCK.
I occasionally discuss kink topics with proper warnings and tags, but despite my stance on fiction, discussions of it will not be brought here. Do not involve me when someone else's kink/fetish grosses you out or makes you uncomfortable, you won't get the response you're hoping for.
I do not like blankqueer labels. I do not like radqueers, radnormals, or anything. Do not follow me. You can reblog and like my posts. Multiple people have falsely accused me of producing csem, which isn't true and never will be.
Lastly, I AM A MINOR! I am bodily a minor with multiple adult fictives who help run this blog. Nothing more, nothing less. Do not take an adult-alter age and run with it.
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okay but taking accountability for your alters IS hard sometimes and im tired of people being like "its not that hard to just take accountability."
while i 1000% believe that alters need to take accountability for eachother, its okay to be like "damn this sucks" like. yes you have to do it anyway even if it sucks. you cannot say "oh i cant control it" or "yeah this alter is just like that. sorry :/" and use that as an excuse to keep harming someone. BUT its okay to be like "this is a struggle for us. this is really hard." because it is. healing is hard. it's okay to acknowledge that.
if you just discovered your system, PLEASE do not research did/osdd/pdid/cdds on carrds or just sites which were made by people who are not professionals.
why?
many of these websites may have outdated sources in them or just things about did/osdd/etc which are false. and this misinformation may be harmful to you when researching more.
sites that i recommend when researching about cdds are .org, .edu or .gov sites. as for individual sites, i recommend the mayo clinic, ICD-11, DSM5 and Cleveland clinic. there are more sites that i want to list but im too tired.
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Not to be that guy but porn is an addiction that can ruin lives. I agree with the other ones, as they don't usually harm people, but porn encourages rape culture, incest culture, misogyny culture, and the fetishizing of gay men, lesbian women, transgender people, people of color, disabled people, and most minorities in general.
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@/all-alters-can-fuck is a blog ran by Sophie and she's also using it to purposely trigger someone she doesn't like (not to mention she falsely accused someone formally in the AWV of producing CSEM, which led him to get harassed and get his own CSEM link sent to him)
this isn't really just about me having an issue with the blog listed, but the fact that Sophie has caused so many harassment campaigns and i genuinely want her ass off Tumblr and off the internet as a whole. i don't even know how she gets all these accounts or how many emails she has but she could be doing literally anything else. if she was just a pro endo blog, i'd block and move on, but she's promoted harassment to trauma survivors and anti endos, spread misinformation, and just keeps fueling the flames of whatever the fuck she has going on.
anyway, here's the blog and the proof of her admitting that she spread those false allegations as some kind of weird "pay back revenge" thing
I'm not asking this in bad faith and you don't have to answer but if fiction doesn't affect reality why does propaganda media work?
I'll humor you because you're nice and I'm in a good mood. Also, tagging this as profic so people can avoid as needed.
I never said fiction doesn't affect reality. It absolutely can in its own way.
There's been a few anons sending me studies or bringing up propaganda as if my position is "fiction never affects people." That's never been my argument.
Most of the studies I've been shown actually reinforce the point I've been making: media can influence attitudes, emotions, and perceptions, but people don't all walk away with the same interpretation. Two people can consume the exact same story and come away with completely different lessons depending on their experiences, beliefs, environment, and media literacy.
Back to propaganda.
Propaganda isn't defined by whether it's fiction or nonfiction—it can use either. What makes something propaganda is that it's intentionally created to persuade people toward a political, ideological, or social goal. It often relies on emotional appeals, selective information, repetition, and trusted institutions to reinforce its message. Usually any sort of taboo writing or art warns people away from doing anything irl, but propaganda tries to appeal to you because they want people to agree with them that certain real world topics are good, okay, and/or cool.
That's also why propaganda works differently than someone privately reading a disturbing novel or writing dark fanfiction. Successful propaganda rarely exists in isolation. It's reinforced by governments, schools, families, peers, news outlets, advertising, and broader cultural narratives. People are encouraged to trust those sources, and repeated exposure can shape attitudes over time.
My point is that media effects are incredibly complex. There are studies showing media can influence attitudes, and there are also studies showing those effects depend on context, personality, prior beliefs, social environment, and many other factors. That's why my position is nuanced instead of absolute.
Reality shapes fiction. Fiction can shape how people think about reality. And both are filtered through the individual consuming them.
I'd rather judge people by how they actually treat other human beings.
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A message for minors below 🔻
A Message for Minors
Whether you consider yourself antiship, proship, profic, darkship, neutral, or you don't care about ship discourse at all, I honestly think minors should be extremely cautious around these communities. Not because every person in them is dangerous but because predators exist everywhere.
They exist in antiship spaces. They exist in proship spaces. They exist in fandoms. They exist in gaming communities. They exist in activist spaces. They exist in educational spaces.
A community label doesn't tell you whether someone is safe.
Before you involve yourself in discussions surrounding abuse, grooming, coercion, sexual violence, or other heavy topics, I think it's important to have a basic understanding of:
* why those behaviors are harmful in real life
* what consent actually means
* what grooming looks like
* how manipulation works
* how to recognize red flags
* how to practice good internet safety
Content warnings and age ratings exist for a reason. While I recognize that some minors will inevitably become curious about adult topics despite those warnings, that curiosity is exactly why education matters.
Predators often don't start by asking you to do something obviously dangerous.
They build trust. They make you feel special. They encourage secrecy. They blur boundaries. They normalize behavior that makes you uncomfortable. They isolate you from people who might question them. That's grooming.
Whether someone calls themselves antiship, proship, profic, or anything else doesn't automatically make them trustworthy. Judge people by how they treat you and others—not by the label in their bio.
And if someone ever uses fiction, morality, politics, fandom, or "education" as a reason to pressure you into crossing your own boundaries, leave. Your safety will always matter more.
the whole "insulting someone based on their appearance is bad because it could indirectly hurt people you like who share that feature" is a good start for unlearning body shaming but i do think we need to go further and remind people that even if there was some physical trait that was magically 10000% exclusive to conservatives and creeps and nobody else ever had it, we still shouldnt be insulting them based on that. because the problem with them is not their appearance its their ideology and actions. by insulting their appearance you arent just indirectly insulting others who look like that, youre literally not making the correct point. stay on topic ya know.
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if you told me it was actually sophie of all people who spread the false allegation I was producing csem, I wouldn't believe you.
Anyways, here's more proof of how much a piece of shit Sophie is! Make sure @/Vicanthropy gets the word too because it seems like she's also getting targeted by The Scatland Queen herself.
(tagging outside of my anti tags for more reach because oh my god please get this chick off the platform)
"heh... i'm always... 2 steps ahead..." is how she fucking reads to me. I can't even take her seriously. Unsurprised that she did this, but her and her like one million fucking accounts she uses to target people/communities, block evade etcetera make me giggling if only a fucking little. literally in her 30's beefing with children on the internet because she has nothing fucking better to do.
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