worth the whole damn bunch

read this article a few days ago on deadly grief & the influence of love on death and i keep thinking about it and i really absolutely do not need this on a monday morning

i know this is looking mainly at spouses etc but literally this goes for everything and EVERYONE it’s not about who you marry or have kids with or whether you marry and have kids at all because romance is so absolutely beyond this!!! its about the people whose very presence in our lives is enough to make this entire thing not just bearable but meaningful and worth it bc knowing them and seeing them and hearing them laugh or having them make you laugh or simply sitting in silence watching a film together even if its over the gd phone together is beyond enough because these are the people who make and remake the world for us into something livable into something real into something we can genuinely call love no matter what shape it takes or who it comes from and that is IT that is ALL of it always and always and always !!!

if somebody held their arms out to me and softly told me “c’mere” i would simply break down

if you ever catch me blogging about love no you didn’t