Introduction
Hello! Welcome to my deprived little corner of Tumblr. I’m 22 years old, my pronouns are she/her, I’m a full-time wheelchair user and a virgin. I would consider myself relatively new to kink so have patience with me. I don’lt have much experience with putting kink into practice with another person and am currently not looking for anything, but I have enjoyed having this space as a way to explore and further develop those interests. I would not go as far as to label myself as a sub, but I’ve had an interest in power-dynamics for as long as I can remember and on a personal level I’m more drawn to the idea of submission as opposed to dominance.
My profile picture from the show Steven Universe<3
Kinks
Soft BDSM/power dynamics: still figuring this one out, but these are ones that I’ve found that intrigue me in one way or another. Many of the other kinks mentioned going forward are also closely tied to my fascination with these types of dynamics.
Pet play (? - see below)
dd/lg (? - see below)
Soft CNC (? - see below)
Praise:
Literally any and all types of praise. You cannot go wrong. Probably one of my top kinks of all time.
I’m especially fond of pet names. Call me a pretty name and I will melt on the spot. You should try it. In fact, I dare you (please <3).
> that being said, kindly do not call me “baby” or anything vaguely related to that. I’m not picky, so this is one of the few pet names I’ve found that consistently gives me the ick.
Degradation (especially in combination with praise<333): this is a vast umbrella term that can consist of many different kinks, so much so that it’s hard to boil down. I think for me what it comes down to though is the implied power imbalance that automatically comes into play when engaging in this type of kink. With that in mind I have tried to compile a list of keywords within this kink that are especially interesting to me.
Objectification
Dumbification
Humiliation
Interpret this however you like, for now. I realise these are still quite broad terms that can include many different things, but if I was to attempt to list everything that I enjoy within this kink down to the specifics, things would have started to appear unorganised. Perhaps I will add to this in the future, if I find an effective way to do that.
Other: kinks that I have taken a liking to, that I feel do not fit directly into the aforementioned categories
Anal
Edging & overstimulation, orgasm control
Voice kink(s)
Hypnosis: though this one is mostly hot in theory, as I have yet to find a way to further dive into this kink that actually works for me. Imagine though…
Yes but…
The following is a list of kinks and dynamics that i enjoy to a certain extent, but I found I may have certain reservations.
Masochism/sadism/impact play: I am not huge on pain, but I find it fascinating in relation to kink and power exchange. It can be a good tool, if used right.
Dumbification kinks: this is high enough up there that I would go so far as to consider it a full-fledged kink of mine (see above), however I sometimes have a hard time letting myself engage in this fully due to some… let’s call it internal conflict.
I will address this once, and once only. do not under any circumstances, unless you wish to be blocked on sight, bring your ableist language into my kink. by this I mean do not use terms like "brain dead", "brain damage", "vegetable" or the R-slur (which I will not write in full but you are free to google if you are so inclined), to insult my intelligence. I see this type of language far too often within the context of this kink and i physically hurt at the thought. just don’t.
Patriarchy/misogynist kinks: this used to be further up on the list, but upon further reflection I have discovered that I don’t actually care for it much. Don’t get me wrong, the whole superiority/infiriority concept that this kink has its roots in will always be infinitely fascinating to me, it is just that your gender (more specifically, the fact that you are a man) is entirely irrelevant to my submission.
Dd/lg: there are so many things about this type of dynamic that appeal to me (casual dominance, feeling smaller, inferior “childlike” obviously assuming that all involved parties are above the age of 18), while at the same time there are certain there are certain things traditionally associated with this dynamic that I don’t think I would enjoy, particularly age play.
Also kindly do not call me “Mommy” unless we have discussed otherwise. I don’t mind this enough to where I would consider it a limit, it’s generally not my cup of tea, depending on who I’m talking to.
On a similar note, do not expect me to call you "Daddy" unless we have talked previously. If you’re wondering if I might be open to it, ask.
Pet play: much like above there are many things about this type of dynamic that appeal to me (the implied mindlessness, obedience, submission, casual dominance), avd some things that I don’t care for as much. I strongly suspect that my fascination with this particular dynamic is somehow related to my praise/degradation kink, as with so many other things on this list (call me puppy or pet and I will quite literally become a puddle on the floor, I can scientifically prove this)
Piss kinks: specifically holding and bladder control. There are some rather obvious health risks associated with bodily waste that in some ways make this kink less appealing to me, thus I don’t delve into it often, but it can be fun from time to time.
For those especially interested: if I am to enjoy this kink it is especially important to me that i remain in control at all times. Thus I will most likely not be willing to give up control of my bladder to someone else, both because that is incredibly intimate and would require a lot of trust, but mostly because I am not willing to risk having an accident, and I am more likely to be able to avoid those if I am not dependent on someone else’s OK. Unless otherwise specified, of course.
CNC: because of the often controversial and risk-based nature of this kink I find that it is often good to be careful when engaging in it. That being said I am utterly fascinated with the idea of giving up control so completely like that, so it’s making the list. Aspects of this kink that I could be interested in exploring are
Soft CNC dynamics
> Somno
> Free use
Other (?)
Breeding:
as a concept - YES
actual pregnancy - NO
Limits
Most anything involving hard kink: unless otherwise specified. Because I feel like this might need further clarification I will provide some examples off the top of my head, but this isn’t necessarily an extensive list
Gore (vomit, blod, weapons, snuff, permanent harm, bodily mutation etc.)
Knife play
Needles
Scat
Other:
Intox
Medical kinks and fetishes
Kinks, fantasies and fetishes surrounding disability
Kinks fantasies and fetishes surrounding weight
Kinks and fetishes surrounding race and ethnicity
Political play
I did not include philias in this list as I do not consider these to be kinks at all, but these would also be a hard limit. Please have some common sense.
I will not be posting or sending pictures and videos of myself under any circumstances. Do not ask about this, your comment/message/ask will be deleted and you will be blocked.
Please do not interact if
You are a minor. I cannot stress enough the importance of this one. Stay far, far away from this entire corner of tumblr if you are not above the age of 18. As long as you are a minor, interacting with adult spaces is incredibly dangerous for all parties involved. Part of respecting my space- and that of other adult content creators on here, is to stay away until you are old enough to be here.
You do not have your age clearly visible on your profile, as I will have no way of verifying that you are not a minor.
You intend to intentionally disrespect me or those who see my content:
> I aim for this blog to be a respectful space both in regards to me, but also for those who see my posts. therefore bigotry of any kind is not tolerated here. this includes but is not limited to xenophobia, racism, prejudice against religion, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism and similar.
This is all in good fun. I have a life outside of Tumblr as with most people here, thus updates may be sporadic.
Beyond this, feel free to interact as long as you remain respectful. All interactions within these limits is always much appreciated, and will probably make me just a little bit flushed. Asks are open, and can be both sexual and non-sexual in nature. I may not always respond, and if I don’t please respect that. DMs are open to mutuals only, if you are not a mutual of mine please refrain from DMing me, especially without asking first.
With this in mind, please do feel free to shoot me a message (ask or comment) if anything should be unclear or you have any further questions.
Thank you for your attention, take care! <3
