if you're teaching someone something like the stoplight system you can make it fun and sexy. explain the premise. green=go, yellow=slow down/can’t take any more of that right now, red=full stop. start touching them. whisper "what's your color?" in their ear. they're going to say green. start groping them. what's your color? pinch their nipples. what's your color? bite their neck. what's your color? start slapping their ass. what's your color? go harder. what's your color? they're gunna become a babbling mess eventually. they're only going to get rewarded when they answer your question, though. if they stop responding to "what's your color?" then stop until they do. it's a silly sexy way to build trust with someone and get them comfortable with safewording.

how am i so obsessive and so avoidant at the same time

forgive me father for i am back on my bullshit

what they don’t tell you is that the urge to just leave and start over somewhere far away only gets stronger the older you get

Sick of masturbating i want someone to rail me until i cant see straight

his hair is past his shoulders. he will never love you like you deserve, girl

they seriously expected us to worship cops & soldiers when street cleaners and sanitation workers exist? fuck off i know who my heroes are

“I ain’t reading all that” your brain is rotting and shrinking