victoria

it's possible

you just need to have discipline.

* the Skeleton City is back

* join us

* #skeletoncity

//the skeleton city is collapsing

//we're going to a safer place for now

//look for the #skeletoncity

I usually don't do this kind of thing(?) I'm also a supporter of the "block don't report" thing but honestly some things HAVE to be reported because they actively harm OTHERS.

We may be harming ourselves here but we never promote these behaviours or order people to hurt themselves and threaten and blackmail them. We do our best and support each other.

You may search for this profile and see the links and notice the MADNESS in them starting from the very first lines. Do not stop at the seemingly neutral tone in the post. Literally open any of the two links on it or DM the person directly and you'll already notice the mask crack and eventually fall off.

Now some storytime:

A fellow "skeleton" of mine was offered to join this group so she tried to go through with it and told me the vibe was off immediately. This person here is EXTREMELY toxic, bossy, and entitled.

And the way the group works is basically a herd of flying monkeys jumping around a delusional narcissist. They are all held together by fear of being REPORTED EN MASSE by every member of the group.

And if they refuse to report the banned member and show proof then of course they get reported as well.

Part of this sort of "initiation" also consists in reporting an apparently random person and in being considered "sus" if one dares to even just ask why.

One is also considered "sus" if they don't join workout sessions at literally any hour of the day or night.

So my fellow skeleton(s) are pretty much all brats at least as much as I am, and don't handle humiliation very well. Like hell she was gonna get out of bed for a random yoga session at 1am, so of course what she did after politely declining resulted in being insulted was reply literally "I'm not your doll to play with" as soon as she was ordered to do things she didn't want to do.

She was answered that "timezones are not an excuse not to commit".

She was called a "f4t f*ck" for not complying (ironically by someone with a waaay higher BMI than her who clearly lacks self awareness).

And in reply to the "doll" comparison, she was told "in my gc you are :)"

Guys.

GUYS.

I wish I had screenshots to show you but she was blocked and banned immediately after this message and will probably soon be reported on here too and will lose her blog (again).

So the only sane thing we can do other than steer away from people like this is report them ourselves. Cause they create an environment in which being honest and respectful is impossible, based on fear and threats and stupid rules.

The "block don't report" policy can only work when there is respect for other people. Not this level of entitlement and harmful behavior towards others. People who are more afraid of losing their blog than her would BEG this evil person to stay in the group and accept any form of humiliation and comply.

This person is creating a network of hate based on toxic behaviour, putting themselves on a makeshift throne and literally, by their own admission, playing with people like they were dolls.

Except we're not dolls. We're skeletons. We move OURSELVES towards our goals at our own pace. We support each other and give each other grace and patience when we need it. We are all trying not to die here. And we call out bs and toxic delusional narcissists when we see them.

Please share this post and report this person.

s0ps3s

(I won't tag them for obvious reasons)

So apparently they opened a new blog oc-ew

Only things I can think of doing are either reporting again or dm them "I'm not your doll to play with".