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! SILKQUEER !

Silkqueer (🐛🌈) is a blankqueer stance that is:

PRO:

Any and all transIDs, including transharmful and transhateful identities

Transition for all transIDs, excluding cases where transition would cause another individual non-consenual harm

Any and all kinks, fetishes, and paraphilias, including the “big three”

Any and all MUDs

Any and all contact stances, even if some individuals personally don’t agree with them

Disorders, including NPD, ASPD, and other disorders that cause low empathy

Destigmatization of low-empathy disorders such as NPD and ASPD

Shipping and fiction

Non-Ideological Nazism

Consenual abuse and CNC

All system origins, including endogenic and willogenic origins

Alterhumanity

Youth-Liberation

Bodily autonomy and modification for all individuals

Incest and consang

Adult-minor relationships

Human-animal relationships

Pre-death consent

Loli/Shota/Kodocon

Abolishment of the Age of Majority

Self-harm, with the exception of life-threatening situations

Consenual cannibalism

Religion, including both traditional religions and fults

Recovery for individuals who have abused or groomed another, as long as they are willing to genuinely try to recover (while also understanding how their actions were wrong)

Choice in the case of pregnancy - both abortion and birth are supported

Contradictory labels

Nudity

Sex work

Consenual harassment

CONSENT

ANTI:

Rape

Non-consenual harm/abuse

Non-consenual harrassment

CSEM/CSAM

Abolishment of the Age of Consent

Discrimination and bigotry

Forced recovery

Censorship

Sucidism 

Ableism, racism, and sexism

Sanism

Misogyny and misandry

Forced psychiatric help for disordered individuals

Coercion or manipulation into consent

Capitalism

archival is encouraged!!

(this was made specifically for a few certain headmates in our system! I also may or may not have compromised my Tumblr account for this so let's hope this doesn't backfire lmao)

She was a fictionkin trans girl and for a while she was closeted a8out the former and stealth a8out the latter. I was the only one actively in her life who knew a8out her fictionkinity until we 8roke up. She 8ecame more pu8lic a8out it afterwards so I think that's what she would want people to know a8out her.

We d8ed for 3 years. The circumstances of how we 8roke up are irrelevant and honestly extremely 8oring. The same thing has almost definitely played out thousands of times 8efore among all the other 16 year olds with 8PD in the world. 8ut after a traumatic event, she 8ecame too sheltered to recognize that.

For the several months I knew her 8efore it happened, she was extremely kind and accepting and gave so much to the people around her. She continued to 8e for the coming years 8ut she was never quite the same. She 8ecame extremely avoidant 8ut she acted like it was a choice, and that she just liked to 8e away from everything and all the "commotion". I 8elieved her.

I think had she had a 8etter community of people (I was really her only close friend in all that time), she may have 8een a8le to recognize how she could live on without me. I realize how ridiculous that sounds after typing it out. Is that even a question, that she might see it differently if I wasn't all she knew?

I'm worried a8out her transpho8ic dad and what he'll try to do to her.

🦭 Sealqueer recoin ! 🍓

- pro Radqueer beliefs ( pro all transIDs , all paraphilias / kinks / fetishes , all genders / sexualitities , MUDs , full body autonomy , etc )

- pro any kind of transition or no transition , as long as it doesn't nonconsensually harm anyone / anything .

- pro Radfic beliefs , Radical Medical Inclusitivity , and Paraphile Darkship Disconnection

- no contact stance , the being using it can have their own contact stance ! It is , however , anti nonconsensual abuse / harassment / threats , of course .

- if someone / something says they are able to consent , do not doubt them or convince them they cant .

- pro real life Radqueer activism and groups , and spreading the word about it and its beliefs in real life .

( ALSO anti generative AI , like AI songs , images , videos , chatbots , etc , yk . It is also pro ALL religions and fults , and is at the very least anti capitalist . It is also supportive of consensual cannibalism and ACAB ! : - ) )

Emoji combo is 🦭🍓 / 🦭⚰️ !

TransID Kitty :3

I think nobody in this community acknowledges some ARE groomed into this community, and thats because this community does not post about safety, risk awareness, what consent REALLY is (being fully aware of what is happening, being able to say no after saying yes, having safe words, ect), nor educational pieces on safety half enough - making it very easy for manipulators to thrive in this community

Which does not make this community nor its ideals inherently evil like antis say, nor does it inherently mean every aspect should be thrown out the window, thats the exact same as anti-kink anti-bdsm mentality honestly

It's simply that its very easy to lead an uneducated person, or even an educated person who feels trapped into this community, giving them a hundred labels that makes them feel tied to their abuser, and then labelling the relationship as con-abuse

cause nobody seriously dives into the risks of con-abuse, how such a relationship should have breaks and aftercare, outside of anti-rhetoric

I'm talking from experience, It happened to my system, and we are, on a labels and identities level, entangled with our abuser, and still spiral into "well originally i consented, even if I said no later and tried to set up boundaries, maybe he just thought it was all part of the game"

And I am not the only one!!! I've talked to other!!! People in the radqueer space who admit they wouldn't be here without their abusers!!! When people say they were groomed into it, it is NOT just anti rhetoric, theres more substance in these claims

We need awareness, pdfs filled with safety tips, when to take breaks, how to abuse someone safely, how you can hurt someone safely, I want a world where the first thing you see after looking up conabuse is "here's a article on how to do such safely" "heres a class on how to do such safely" "heres a book on the ethics and how to do such safely"

I want a world where we acknowledge the grooming, how identities can be manipulated, twisted, this isn't just a radqueer issue, my otherkin identities were twisted too, so intertwined with theirs it felt like even if I escaped they'd still be who I am.

I just want more safety highkey

Harassed by antis hiding behind an anonymous who prolly smell like shit irl

Feeling like you're too "complicated" for this world.

"I reblog retards"

Atypical dysphoria

Wishing you were "normal" or "different."

Wondering why you're like this

Extreme guilt

That one fictional character you're obsessed with

Searching up radqueer *insert interest* to see a bunch of antis with your interests.

That one anti comment that really.. really hurt.