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the average human lifespan globally is 70+ years

taking the threshold of adulthood as 18, you are likely to spend at least 52 years as a fully grown adult

at the age of 30 you have lived less than one quarter of your adult life (12/52 years)

'middle age' is typically considered to be between 45-65

it is extremely common to switch careers, start new relationships, emigrate, go to college for the first or second time, or make other life-changing decisions in middle age

it's wild that I even have to spell it out, but older adults (60+) still have social lives and hobbies and interests.

you can still date when you get old. you can still fuck. you can still learn new skills, fashionable, be competitive. you can still gossip, you can still travel, you can still read. you can still transition. you can still come out.

young doesn't mean peaked. you're inexperienced in your 20s! you're still learning and practicing! you're developing social skills and muscle memory that will last decades!

Hello, I am Hashem and I am reaching out to you with a heavy heart on behalf of my family of six who are trapped in the devastating situation in Gaza. They are urgently seeking evacuation to Egypt after enduring more than 300 days of displacement and hardship.

I am seeking to help them urgently and provide them with the minimum requirements. I was displaced and managed to escape the horrors of war to Rafah and then we returned again to Khan Younis and were displaced more than 11 times inside Khan Younis until we reached the beach, and during our displacement I was injured in the palm of my hand and underwent surgery and had platinum inserted in it and is in dire need of another operation.

Today I find myself in a situation I never expected. The conflict in Gaza has left my family in dire need of assistance.

This war has taken our livelihoods and our factories and now we are struggling to survive. I had a carpentry shop for making furniture, which was my source of income to support my family and was a source of security for my life, but now it has been destroyed and all the hard work of the years was lost in a short moment.

I had a home to shelter my family and children, and the occupation also destroyed our only shelter, and the streets became a bed for my children.

Each of my children had a dream to fulfill. My eldest daughter Dima dreamed of becoming a doctor to treat children, but now I don't know if I will be able to fulfill her dream. My second son Aboud dreamed of becoming an architect to build the country and what the wars destroyed. The third dreams of becoming a mechanical engineer, and the fourth dreams of becoming a painter to color our lives with the most beautiful drawings. These were all our dreams before the war, but the war destroyed everything.

I feel ashamed to ask you to help me save my family's lives. If someone donates $5, it will make a difference for us and help us because we need more. I don't want to lose my family, you are my only hope, you are our hope always and forever.

I’m so embarrassed but I’ve rubbed salt in my wounds and I have no one else to save them but you. My family is calling you and asking for your help. They are in desperate need of rescue and safety.

Your generosity will directly help save my family from death and rebuild our lives. Every donation, no matter how small, makes a huge difference.

Reach out and make a meaningful impact for us because we need you. Donate on GoFundMe Every contribution, no matter how big or small, will directly help save my family’s life and help those still trapped in the Gaza Strip. ✓ Share this post and spread the word ⩥ Please share this campaign with your friends, family, and colleagues to help us reach our goal.

Your support means everything to me, and I am so grateful for any help you can offer during this difficult time.

My name is Sahar Umm from Gaza

In a place far from safety and comfort, my little one was born, a small blessing that brought some joy into our dark days. But as I held her in my arms, I found myself battling internally because I can’t give her everything she needs.

We live in a torn tent, with no walls to shield us from the cold winds, and no roof to protect us from the rain. At night, the cold becomes unbearable, and the darkness takes over. I can’t even provide a small light to illuminate our way. My husband has done everything in his power to give us a better life, working long hours, but the conditions are just too harsh. He is no longer able to provide milk for our little one, nor winter clothes to protect her from the cold, nor even diapers to keep her safe.

All I’m asking for is a little help that can make our lives less harsh. I need energy to light up our tent at night, diapers to protect her, warm clothes to shield her from the cold, and milk to nourish her.Please help us because the bombing over our heads has resumed. We want to leave Gaza. Help us, even if it's just a little, so we can leave Gaza.💔😭😭😭😭😭

I’m not asking for much, just a little because my little one doesn’t deserve to live in this hell. Your help will be more than just financial support; it will be the hope we live on, a hope for my daughter and for us.Your support, no matter how small, can make a difference in saving our lives

Please be the first to donate, you are our lifeline ❤️

The donation link is in the bio 🙏

To donate, click here. Your support is our lifeline 👇

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‼️‼️The crossing is closed‼️‼️

I'm Wasim from Gaza, as you know the crossings are closed and the situation is very difficult, everything is expensive, we cannot afford any food or gas and we are in the holy month of Ramadan and we fast for 15 hours and we cannot break our fast because of the high cost of food...😭😞

As you can see, we do not have cooking gas because the crossings are closed, and we suffer a lot when cooking...😔😭‼️

My mother also needs medicine and vitamins, but she cannot buy them because they are expensive due to the closure of the crossings and the scarcity of the quantity.😭

‼️Help us and donate so that we can break our fast in this blessed month and so that my mother can receive her vitamins...😔🤲🫂‼️

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1. @el-shab-hussein and @nabulsi # 151 on the spreadsheet of Vetted Gaza Fundraisers List]

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I contemplate the happy faces of people around me here in Ireland and reminisce about the happy normal life my family and I had before the war. A life that turned into a distant memory for us and was replaced by an unending series of horrible nightmares.

Unlike my family in Gaza, people here have access to drinking water, all types of food, electricity, and a roof over their heads. Above all, they are safe, and I cannot help but wonder if they genuinely do appreciate these blessings in their lives enough.

People seem relaxed and laughing wholeheartedly around me in Ireland. I wish I could laugh too, but I am crushed way beyond recovery on the inside. I was evacuated by my Irish college after five months of living the horrors of war in Gaza. I hope you will never know what it feels like to live in constant fear and worry and be horrified by the most sickening and scary nightmares every single night while you are far away from your family in such circumstances.

When did my people in Gaza cease to be human beings worthy and deserving of a normal life? Has it become normal now for my family in Gaza to be starved and killed while the whole world is watching the genocide? If that is the case, then you will have to excuse me if I seek every avenue to bring them to Ireland and start a new normal life like all people here around me.

I was assured by the Irish Reugee Council (IRC) and lawyers in Ireland that there is hope I can reunite with my family in Ireland. In difficult times, it is hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. For me and my family, you are literally our light and hope for a better life.

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Displacement, torture, agony, hunger, fear, and death. This is the daily reality in Gaza. Every day, people receive warnings to evacuate before another wave of relentless Israeli airstrikes. And every day, the same desperate question echoes across the strip: Where do we go?!!!!!

Gaza has become a living hell. You cannot blame us for longing for a safe, normal life, for seeking a place where we can reunite as a family and rebuild what was torn apart. Can you?! Wouldn't you strive to do the same at any cost?!

28/3/2025: At 75% of our final goal and getting there, hopefully.

For two months, we’ve held onto hope, but only 15 donations have come in. My heart aches knowing that my son, Yamen—like so many innocent children—might be denied the basic necessities every child deserves.

Yamen was born into genocide. His eyes have seen nothing but destruction, his ears filled with the deafening echoes of bombings. He has never known safety and never felt the security that so many children around the world take for granted.

We are desperately trying to raise $5,000 to provide Yamen with the essentials he needs to survive this devastation. Every dollar is a lifeline, a step toward hope in a world that has been so cruel to him.

Please, don’t look away. Stand with us. Stand with Yamen. Your support can make all the difference.

Vetted by @gazavetters, my number verified on their list ( #74 )

Vettedon X platform on this spreadsheet (#391)

Vetted by @gazavetters, my number verified on their list ( #74 )

Vettedon X platform on this spreadsheet (#391)

As you know, after spending a year and a half under genocide, we are now back at war again. Bombings are everywhere, martyrs are everywhere, everything is dull, the crossing is closed, there are no goods or medicine, and the prices are exorbitant. 😭😔

At this moment, there are more than 500 martyrs and the number is still increasing.😞 Every martyr is a dream. More than 500 dreams have been killed.😭😞

We will die at any moment, don't leave us alone, we need you, you are our last hope, donate to save me and my family...‼️‼️‼️

JUST DONATE ‼️🙏

Mahmoud’s family consist of 43 members, mostly young children and old women!

The truce was breached and the war returned. I hope everyone helps us.

We don't want to die or become pieces

The crossings are closed again‼️

We need your help, the situation is unsuitable and dangerous, we need your help, you are our last hope... Food, clothes, milk, and everything else has become expensive, and we are in the holy month of Ramadan...😭😔🤲

We want food to eat after fasting for 15 hours, nothing is like before... The prices are very expensive...😞

The elderly, our children, us... we all need food, drink, medicine, milk and winter clothes... We live in tents that do not protect us from the cold of winter. 🥶

Please help us... Any donation will save our lives and the lives of our children.🙏😭👶

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‼️Only 417$ left...‼️

Donate & share...🫂🙏🙏

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My name is Ahmed Nasser, 30 years old. I used to live a peaceful and hopeful life. I was married to Huda, and we lived with my 60-year-old father, my 58-year-old mother, and my younger brother Mustafa, who is 14 years old. I managed an aluminum workshop, where I found both passion and joy in my work. I had a large house full of memories and a car to commute to work.

But that peaceful life suddenly turned into a nightmarish ordeal. The war came and brought with it complete destruction. During the bombing, my family and I found ourselves trapped in the Baptist Hospital, where missiles struck, causing a horrific massacre. I lost my older brother Mahmoud😭😭 in those tragic moments, leaving behind two young children who became orphans in a world filled with sorrow and pain.💔

I sustained severe injuries to my left leg, and after several failed surgical attempts, my leg had to be amputated entirely. This was just the beginning of the disaster; the war destroyed my workshop, which was my source of income, and my house, once full of joyful memories, turned into rubble.

My family and I tried to find a safe refuge, but we were unsuccessful. We have been displaced from place to place more than five times, each attempt ending in failure. Today, we live in a small tent under harsh living conditions, suffering from a lack of clean water and food, and the spread of diseases, making our lives even more difficult.

In these tragic circumstances, my family and I dream of escaping Gaza to find a dignified life. However, the cost of leaving is exorbitant: £5,000 per adult and £2,500 per child.

I call upon you from the heart of this tragedy, seeking your support. Every donation, no matter how small, will make a significant difference in my life and my family's life. Your donation can be a beacon of hope in this darkness and help us achieve our dream of living with dignity.💔🙏🙏

Simply put: there is a lot for us to do right now. 

Please donate and share to the Al-Anqars fundraiser, which supports the lives of 14 people, as well as their community in North Gaza. While the Rafah border crossing is still closed, it is IMPERATIVE that we continue raising funds so that once it opens, the family can cross as quickly as possible.

€14,210/€20,000 – DONATE AND SHARE

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Hello! 👋🏻 My name is Bethany-Grace. I'm the founder of Gaza Giving Tree, and I am sponsoring a Chuffed campaign specifically to help Hossam Al-Qazzaz and his family either rebuild their home or safely relocate out of Gaza.

Due to lack of infrastructure and income, the family has been forced to use the funds from their GoFundMe for essentials in order to survive.

Not wanting this precious family to be forced to make the decision between saving to eat and putting a roof over their heads, I made this separate Chuffed campaign to help Hossam, Hanan, and their family save for their future. 🌱🌳🏠

Hossam's campaign has been vetted by @gazavetters and is (#287) on their list of verified campaigns.

Hello dear people

I am Nabila from Gaza,, I am 64 years old ,,

speaking to you with a heavy and painful heart. I am sorry that I had to ask for help from you, but what we are living is what pushed me to do this. I was living a beautiful, quiet life, enjoying the time I spend with my grandchildren and seven daughters.

Imagine waking up to find that your world has changed in a moment, and you have lost your security and peace, and your home has been destroyed, and you have become homeless and living in conditions that no human being can bear. I suffer from chronic diseases, high blood pressure and diabetes. My medication has run out for some time and I am facing difficulty in obtaining it in light of the lack of treatment in hospitals and health centers. Most of the time I cannot feel my limbs, but I am trying to resist. I do not want to die in such circumstances. I still have hope that this war will end and we will rebuild our beautiful and beloved country again and live in safety. I believe in divine power and justice and that all this pain will go away.

I am trying to endure these difficult conditions that I live in inside a small tent and a bathroom a few meters away from my tent and you know the conditions of diabetics in this case but once again there is still hope. I used to live at the expense of my daughters but with all sadness and regret they have all lost their homes and places of work and they have no source of income left and their situation is like that of any Gazan who is still inside Gaza struggling with death, hunger, diseases and extreme heat each one struggling to feed his children I cannot ask them for help so I have resorted to you and I am fully confident in your humanity to help me so that I can provide food and treatment and provide a better tent than the one I live in because it is torn and the place is full of insects. If I can provide treatment, I want to continue my life and see my grandchildren grow up around me. I don’t want to go now. I know that I don’t have as much life left as I have, but I have the right to live and enjoy this. Please don’t hesitate to help your mother who has come to you with a heavy and sad heart. Every dollar will make a difference in my life. Don’t leave me to live this pain. I appreciate what you are doing for every Palestinian inside and outside Gaza. I pray to God that you don’t go through what we are going through, my beloved.

Medical visits and insulin: $5000

Travel and transportation to hospital, coordination with Egypt's border: $5000

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what seems to be the old fundraiser was supported by @/90-ghost. his reblog seems to be of the said closed fundraiser, meaning this campaign may have had to restart. [ link to post ]

Nabila needs $80 daily for insulin injections. her condition is becoming worse. her family also needs extra funds for food because it ran out a few days ago!

the fundraiser is extremely low on funds!

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🥶We're freezing🥶

Hello, I'm Wasim from Gaza, in Al-Mawasi specifically... My family and I were displaced from Rafah after hardship, bombing, displacement, and hunger.😭😔

Now we have been away from our city and our beautiful home for 9 months. We have lost our house that my father built stone by stone and he worked 24/7 to build this house. But the occupation destroyed it, and no house remained in my beautiful city remained intact.😭💔💔

We are now living in a tent or semi-tent, which does not protect us from the cold of winter or the rain. Our lives are very difficult.😔😭

Thanks to your donations, we have been able to buy food and flour, and now I am asking you for help to buy a tent that will protect us from the cold of winter. We do not know what it means to sleep because of the extreme cold.🥶

This is our tent made of fabric and some nylon, not closed on one side. We are freezing from the cold. Help us to buy a new tent. You are our last hope.😭🥶🥶🙏

I also want to ask for help for my mother, who is the most precious thing in my life. Without her, I am nothing...

She has a back cartilage disease and is in great pain. She needs physical therapy, medicine, and vitamins, and I am unable to provide them. Help my mother receive treatment.🙏🙏😭

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This family is EXTREMELY close to reaching their goal, and only $55 USD is needed to accomplish it!

Please do all you can in your ability to help Wasim and his family rebuild their lives. Every donation, no matter the amount, will help them towards their goal.

If you cannot afford to donate, then please consider spreading this around! Your contribution can truly change the lives of many.