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sapphireh3arts

yes that pre-op trans girl has a clit. and you must show her.

kayla-denker

For those who don't know: this isn't just a silly post.

HRT makes the penis work like a clit. It no longer responds to stimuli as an androgenated penis would.

Treat it like a big clit.

kayla-denker

Girls, do yourself the biggest favor of your life since starting HRT: get a good vibrator. The Hitachi wand is literally the best one, none of the others compare, but get what you can afford. A cheap one is better than nothing.

You wanna actually get that big full-body orgasm? A vibrator is how you do it.

Your penis is just a big 'ol clit now. Treat it like one.

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sapphling

it's so epic that breakups/shitty dynamics/drama/mistreatment/neglect etc. are all just Stuff That Happens In Life if you're monogamous but if you're not then it's an itemized list of trespasses that the poly community MUST account for

sapphling

my point is never that polyamory requires no emotional maturity or work, it's that these are things you should be working on no matter what your relationships with others (sexual/romantic or otherwise) look like, but when monogamous people chronically fail to do any of it it's just considered par for the course/human failure/totally normal to be this irrationally controlling/"sometimes things don't work out" etc. and not Proof That Monogamy Just Doesn't Work In Real Life

reticentlybouncingonit

If you’re monogamous and you pretend to your partner or lie to yourself that you’re fine with polyamory when you’re not, I need you to understand that you’re about to ruin two lives minimum.

reticentlybouncingonit

I see a bunch of stories around the internet of the evil poly bringing the mono who wasn’t ready into the polycule through pressure. But I’ve seen so so so many less of these play out in real time than I’ve seen an insecure mono like someone so much that they resolve these feelings by making the poly partner bear the responsibility of them until they’re rendering themselves monogamous and suffering for it. I’m so fucking tired of it. Your relationship is made of needs, boundaries and hopes, and it’s your responsibility to know them well enough to know if your relationships has a contradiction strong enough that communication can’t overcome it. Some people can handle it. Be realistic about if you can.

reticentlybouncingonit

Little miss run-on-sentence is really really mad about this right now.

cuppydogshane

all the rights that come with marriage you should be able to have without marriage btw. you should be able to designate a person who can visit you in the hospital regardless of your relationship to that person.

soup-mother

But like genuinely. "humans have an innate need for spirituality" should be pretty transparently a reactionary opinion. It's simply not true and equates something that some people get benefit from with it being a fundamental aspect of being human (and one that is missing it most people today). You gonna start arguing "children *need* fathers or they grow up broken" next?

imsobadatnicknames2

The most annoying part is when you try to push back on it and they respond by reframing mundane things such as making art or enjoying nature or participating in community as inherently ~spiritual~ experiences so they can say you only disagree because your concept of spirituality is too narrowminded and shaped by organized religion or some shit.

graham-folger

It's the motte and bailey approach to anti-athiest sentiment

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stuckinapril

I love the whole 30 is the new 21 trend like yes queen so true. Your 30s are not for having children and settling down. They are for traveling, building your career, and going to the CLUB. Freeze ur eggs if u must I don’t care. Any 30 something year old woman who’s choosing to enjoy her newfound financial stability and not spend it in an unhappy marriage has my wholehearted stamp of approval.

soup-mother

"masculine role models" lol

soup-mother

"masculine role models" were a scam invented by men (who themselves are also a scam invented by men, it's complicated) to cement the patriarchal family as the only possible way to raise a child and justify keeping "fathers" around. It doesn't necessarily have to be a nuclear family, but kids *obviously* need some masculine influence to teach them it's not ok to be a woman. Otherwise they'd grow up soy.

Masculinity is a social pact that reproduces itself via violent enforcement and reinforcement between men and you should not be giving them any more victim-members or treating it as the natural way of the world.

Anyone who tries to convince you of some genuine psychological need for "masculine role models" in a kids life is a wacko gender shill trying to justify the patriarchy all the unimaginable horrors that come with it, and you should probably kick them in the shins.

soup-mother

> "Negative impact of lacking male role models/a father in childhood development"

> look inside

> 99% just the negative impacts of childhood poverty from being raised by a single mother

kuttithevangu

OK I keep seeing people refer to the Michigan parasite outbreak and then others will chime in “it’s in my state too!” so to clarify this for everyone it is a NATIONWIDE outbreak reported in 31 US states as of today, July 12th 2026. There is no reason to assume it is not present in the rest of them

NBC News’ tally shows at least 26 states have reported cases of the parasitic stomach illness, as health authorities race to find the source

kuttithevangu

The CDC is tracking cases but they are significantly lagging behind the states on numbers (their data is weeks behind) so it’s probably going to be most effective to check your individual state’s infectious disease tracking.

This is a parasite that usually causes about 3000 cases of illness per year in the USA, Michigan currently has reported about 2900 (the confusion about “Michigan outbreak” is because Michigan is the first that caught an uptick in cases and has been very proactive about trying to trace them). Last official update from Massachusetts was 18 cases here centered in Greater Boston. The CDC recommends NOT assuming there are no sources of the parasite in your state even if no cases have been reported.

It isn’t an unknown illness but it is an unusual quantity of cases, and the fact that they haven’t been able to pin down the source after weeks of tracking is what makes it particularly concerning this year (harder to contain).

Wash your hands, wash your produce, cook it ideally, and advocate for farm workers to have access to safe and hygienic toilet facilities

lamiafemme

People constantlyyyy using new words to water down misogyny when a woman does it. No she is not “male centered” or “not a girls girl” she’s a misogynist just like her boyfriend!!!!

innerchildabortionclinic

ultimately though I think children get too much blame for being the source of nonsense online. mind you there was an era of this website where people in their 30s and 40s with their own kids were full-time dedicated to 'ace discourse' on their blogs

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innerchildabortionclinic

an endless cycle:

>"reddit snark communities are extremely misogynistic"

>"aren't those communities mainly made up of women though?"

information yet to be acquired: women can be misogynistic

closet-keys

also, re: the transmascvoicesproject shit

the idea of any project soliciting people’s experiences of sexual violence that deliberately excludes accounts in which someone experienced that violence from men is just statistically going to be ruling out the majority of survivors.

even if that blog actually limited it to only transmasc stories (which it doesn't), imposing a rule about how participants can only share their experience if they were assaulted by a woman (classic MRA thing btw, excluding male survivors of sexual violence and partner abuse whose assailants were men) is just so transparently not giving a fuck about survivors at all.

literally every TME trans person I’ve ever met has experienced sexual harassment, violence, or abuse from a man at some point in their lives. so claiming you care about transmasc experiences with sexual violence and abuse while erasing the most common experience of it is just audacious.

mask-off transmisogyny with utterly implausible deniability. an insult to all survivors and to all trans people.

closet-keys

I saw an emotional regulation resource that was titled as a resource "for men" & I wanted to talk about this kind of gendering a little.

first, obviously I think it is essential that men learn to handle their emotions, because they are people, and it's everyone's responsibility to learn how to self regulate to the best of their ability. and I understand in some contexts it has utility to have emotional regulation resources presented as "for" men specifically, because on a hegemonic level men are expected to outsource managing their emotions to women and children instead of engaging in this work themselves, so general resources about self regulation are likely to be looked over by most men as not relevant or necessary for them.

but. like that is kind of the problem at the same time.

like the whole issue is men thinking they don't need to learn how to handle emotions (identifying them, processing them, expressing them, channeling them usefully, grounding themselves, addressing underlying issues, etc).

and then these kind of half-way measures that position tips as "mental health FOR MEN" "emotional regulation FOR MEN" inevitably ends up cross-pollinating with MRA style analysis where we get things like

"the MALE loneliness epidemic" (as if women do not also experience loneliness and alienation under current conditions), or

"men aren't allowed to cry" (as if women and children aren't berated and patronized for crying all the time & expected to "smile" for men), or

"men have the highest suicide rates" (implying that men are uniquely prone to being actively suicidal, glossing over that women attempt suicide more often)

which all ends up reinforcing this idea that men's emotions are bigger and more serious and urgent than anyone else's, and men need help to manage them, so "society" (women and children) must help them.

which just reproduces the exact social conditions that cause men to not learn how to manage their emotions in the first place.

innerchildabortionclinic

the way some people treat sex tourism as a joke about losers desperate for sex will never sit right with me

some of the most gruesome sex crimes cases you'll come across are the result of sex tourists, the level of dehumanization involved is not unlike that of a serial killer

plaidos

it would be cool if transfems were allowed to be non-binary, but even a lot of so called transfeminists on this website as categorically incapable of saying “transfems” in place of “trans women” — even those who are quick to note how we are excluded from non-binary identity & forced to overstate our identification with womanhood in order to be taken seriously

plaidos

It’s getting pretty frustrating to keep explaining that “Transfems are alienated from non-binary identity” and “TME people will weaponise the existence of non-binary identity to coerce transfems away from transition” are not incompatible.

The whole point is for us to not have access to a framework of transmisogyny — thinking that all transmisogynists just don’t want us to exist at all is naive; transmisogyny is attractive to TME people specifically because it means that those of us who aren’t eradicated from public society are dependent on them and easy to coerce. Y’know, because we’re a misogynised class.

plaidos

They want us to be the Other, that’s already what they were doing; your average transmisogynist is more happy to accept “non-binary” because what they mean is “third-gender”. The problem they have is isn’t us recognising that we are a different, lower class of faggotry, it’s us having access to the social technologies of the transfeminine identity, transmisogyny theory etc.

When transphobes say “Trans women don’t exist” they are not saying they believe transfems to be imaginary, they are drawing lines in the sand to politically deny us the rights afforded to women. Similarly, when they say “couldn’t you just be a femboy?” they are not saying “I respect gender non-conformity in this form more” they are saying “It would be better for me if you did not have access to the social technology of trans womanhood as recognised by the state”

There are lots of places in the world where you literally still HAVE TO assert yourself as a binary trans woman with XYZ specific experiences with dysphoria or they categorically will not allow you to access HRT or life saving surgeries. As a non-binary transfem, this is what I had to do, and I know many others who did the same.

it’s disingenuous & naive to act as though TME suggestions of “just being a femboy” are out of preference or palatability, when it’s simply to try to deny us access to the very few rights that we are entitled to — but only if we walk a very thin, highly scrutinised imaginary line.

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dykieran

it's crazy how once you notice how literally everything centres men all the time you will never be able to enjoy anything properly ever again

dykieran

this show is about men this movie is about men this game is meant to be played as a man these characters are men so they're intrinsically more likeable than their bitchy women counterparts this show is about women but they're all for men to look at this movie is about a woman but there's a guy there as well to make it more palatable for General Audience (men) this fandom is all about this one man what do you mean you don't like men. what about this man you must like him!!! he's like a woman to me! and by that i mean i headcanon him as a trans man because im #queeringit and him being a trans man basically means Woman Lite right? so i basically do care about women! and going on e makes you like men and going on t makes you like men and being a lesbian means you still have to have a himbo man friend and you HAVE to read this book! it's about a man

ot3

the way that people on this site who believe in misandry talk about women but most importantly women who are either vocally lesbian, vocally feminist, or both, is borderline indistinguishable from how alt right youtube faux intellectuals speak about them once you strip back the tumblrspeak of it all and look at what they must actually believe about us in order for the statements they're making to be widely applicable, relevant, or important enough to be worth saying.

like if you're basing any opinion you're expressing on the idea that "woman who spends all of her time frothing at the mouth about her hatred of men for no good reason" is a type of person that actually exists in sufficient quantities to be worth addressing then you're a misogynist. full stop. whatever other spin you try to put on it that's not something you can believe that doesn't come from, at the very best, unbelievable naivety and lack of sympathy regarding the extent to which women are still marginalized.

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