every time, every second, endless

yall want the diverse perspectives and labor that comes from oppressed minority groups but don’t want to share our anger and rage when we’re oppressed. like bitch stand up

the idea that kink is somehow safe from critique and prejudice or harm is so fucking funny. ah yes bodies, desire, and power, three things that have famously never been utilized in harmful ways. great news everyone yes we are all existing in complex systems of oppression and violence BUT!!!!!! it’s on pause when we are horny

The reasons for why men kill their partners and themselves point to all the connected causes (financial stress, increased access to guns, etc) but never to like, THEE reason. Which is abusive men think they own women and children, and misogyny. But America is allergic to the words misogyny and femicide, so we can't get to the bottom of it

I think if your mother hates you you should get a little card in your wallet that allows you free concessions at the local independent movie theatre

and a gun.

overhearing my neighbor rant on the phone top of his lungs and his friend is saying something in calm voice and he goes NO. NO NUANCE. STOP SAYING NUANCE. MY BOSS NEEDS TO DIE

Women and women can never be friends because the sex thing just gets in the way

People always have a lot to say about caregiver fatigue, but no one gives a shit about the shame of being taken care of. I think it's even heavier than caregiving. As a caregiver, you can always take a break. But when you're on the other side, the shame never ends.

Caregiver fatigue and empathy fatigue are just deeply uninteresting topics to me. Sorry. Can we talk instead about building a world where help isn't rationed according to how likeable someone is?

We have the capacity to honour the fatigue of caregivers and that of those who require caregiving, for the betterment of all society we can honour, support and raise up both. Imagining society as a competition is a capitalist concept. Envision a society in which care is not rationed, because the cost is managed by the State.

(no beers in) So how do you perceive me in the privacy of your thoughts

liberals making empathy a focus in politics is a mistake not just because of their hypocrisy (lacking empathy for victims of imperialism evidently) but because the right genuinely thinks "so much for tolerance huh" means anything when someone stands up to bigotry. like no, you don't actually have to tolerate people treating you like shit, and you aren't a better person for being a doormat--it will drive you insane

also "taking the high road" is an excuse for inaction in many circumstances. it is, ironically, prioritizing personal comfort by avoiding conflict

honestly it seems like as a man on youtube being "left" to your audience is just not actively saying slurs on camera. which is I suppose left of pewdiepie?

little girl in the checkout line was freaking the FUCK out reaching for a shelf and screaming "GIMMEEEE GIMMEEEEE" at the top of her lungs and the mom kept saying "no 🫩" and I look at the shelf expecting there to be candy or something and it was full of batteries

#ratatouille

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grimes

the lilo and stitch movie suggesting foster care for lilo is so dark sided

[talking to group of children] sorry you can't watch this movie. we need to talk about various issues with the united states legal system first