Cheese Flavor

People seem to have an odd penchant for making gay characters, especially those with children, woobified, for lack of a better term. A not-insignificant amount of posts use language like motherly and maternal instincts and such to describe England’s relationship with his children, and are generally averse to much masculinity in these caretaker-oriented headcanons. It is, as I said, not really a big deal, but it does strike me as somewhat sexist and with a dose of gender essentialism. When you necessitate femininity for caregivers, it’s alluding to the notion that to raise children is a feminine job, and also that like. Men can’t be adequate caregivers if they’re masculine and yea I’m. It’s not that big of a deal, just rambling lmaO

A comic about the spectrum of responses to stress - we talk alot about the more extreme ends of this and trauma, but the more subtle and every day responses can be harder to spot. if we can understand our own and other’s responses better, problems Are easier to confront and blaming is less likely to happen :) hope it’s helpful!!

have a hog wild weekend

update i looked it up and really fcucking dont like that

based on the way the person i spent thanksgiving with drew penises

youre a fuury

Thanksgiving’s over which means it’s time to get festive!

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