do people forget when they have kids with a person, that if they die, the surviving parent is the most likely person to raise their children? or do i have to see yet another post of a terminally ill cishet woman joking her husband is incompetent at even the most basic childcare, and then feeling the creeping horror of knowing his lack of any skills would spell absolute disaster for her kids when she died? if you cannot trust the other person to care for a human being, do NOT entrust them with that human being. get a notarised will if you have to. holy shit.




















