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Give yourself the same love you give to others. Provide the same care and support you give to others to yourself. You are valid. You are kind. And you are trying your best.

#I love you all even those I don't know!!#and I love me!!!#sug #suggestions #suggest #suggestion

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slfcare

stop defining yourself by what you lack. you are not the absence of qualities, you’re the presence of them.

sometimes when I'm low I make your favourite drink so I can feel you with me

#the lack of physical touch makes me ;-;#this whole closed border stuff makes me so sad when I can't just curl up with you #sug #suggestion blog #suggestion #suggestions #romantic suggestion

I wish I could've loved you when we were small

#I really do just love to love people #and when I hear about their pain I just wish I could do something #I wish I could just love everyone for their whole lives #suggestion #suggestions #suggestion blog #sug

shesgotwhatittakes

While cleaning out my room I found a paper that my therapist gave me some time ago to deal with obsessive and intrusive thoughts. Sorry the paper is a little crinkled and stained, but I figured I’d post it in hopes that it will help someone like it helped me.

shesgotwhatittakes

Here it is again with text for anyone who can’t see the picture

That thought isn’t helpful right now.

Now is not the time to think about it. I can think about it later.

This is irrational. I’m going to let it go.

I won’t argue with an irrational thought.

This is not an emergency. I can slow down and think clearly about what I need.

This feels threatening and urgent, but it really isn’t.

I don’t have to be perfect to be OK.

I don’t have to figure out this question. The best thing to do is just drop it.

It’s OK to make mistakes.

I already know from my past experiences that these fears are irrational.

I have to take risks in order to be free. I’m willing to take this risk.

It’s OK that I just had that thought/image, and it doesn’t mean anything. I don’t have to pay attention to it.

I’m ready to move on now.

I can handle being wrong.

I don’t have to suffer like this. I deserve to feel comfortable.

That’s not my responsibility.

That’s not my problem.

I’ve done the best I can.

It’s good practice to let go of this worry. I want to practice.

#a lil positivity for you all!!#I'm sending love!

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I’m not a good girlfriend and it hurts me more than him that I take out my insecurity and anxious thoughts and anger on him I always feel such guilt after and just wish he would go find someone better because I’m too selfish to let him go cause he’s the best I’ve ever had it’s hard for me to break toxic behavioral patterns although I’m trying to so hard because I just wanna be my best for him and treat him how he deserves I never used to be like this but I’ve changed I’m not good anymore

The very first step of changing your behaviour is acknowledging what you want to change. I think you should have a really open and honest conversation with your partner and see how they perceive your behaviour. It could be totally in your head. And if it’s not, apologize and keep working forward.

People are always growing and changing, you just need to have patience and be kind with yourself. You CAN change if you want to, it’ll just take some time. I promise you are good, and you’ll only keep getting better.

(DM me if you ever need to <3)

#My DMs are always open my lovelies #claire answers

shakysuggestions

Honestly, i deserve all the shit thats coming to me I’m such a fuck up

shakysuggestions

Hello friends, this is a post I made over three years ago, when I was dealing with a lot of mental struggles. When I look back at posts like this one or other posts I made in that time, it was truly saddening that I felt so low as a person. Now, when I see the likes and the reblogs (old and recent ones), it gives me a different type of sadness.

As people, I believe we are inherently deserving of love and respect. No one deserves any personal struggles from others or from themselves (though I understand that at times that can be difficult).

Give yourself the same love you give to others. Provide the same care and support you give to others to yourself. You are valid. You are kind. And you are trying your best. No matter what, you deserve love and kindness.

And if you fail, you can pick yourself up again. And no matter what, you deserve love and kindness. And you even if you have to try and try and try again, you will reach your happiness, even if not in the way you think.

Be kind to others, and be kind to yourself.

#send love to others and to yourself #get therapy or medication if you need it -- its normal!#it makes me sad to normalize such negativity sometimes #thank you guys -- I send you all love

late night self reflective asks 🌙

cosmos: what's one thing you wish you could say to someone you are no longer friends with?

galaxies: what are three things you want to do before you die?

waxing: what is your proudest accomplishment?

waning: what is your biggest regret?

full moon: what type of person do you hope to be?

contemplation: if you could wake up one morning and everything in your life was perfect, what would that look like?

night light: who/what makes you feel safe?

ponder: what do you want to do with your life?

sunset: who is someone you thought would be in your life forever, but you no longer talk to?

midnight: are you a different person late at night than in the early morning?

candle light: are you an indecisive person?

reflection: have you ever changed something you liked about yourself to satisfy someone else?

sweet dreams: are you happy?

nightmare: what are you most afraid of?

constellations: who is someone you could talk to for hours and never stop?

reminder: who is someone you will never forget?

11-11: what's something you want, but feel like you will never have?

shooting star: who is someone you trust to help you make the right decisions?

earth: where do you feel most at home?

soothe: what's one thing that always makes you feel better when you're upset?

slumber: what's one thing that helps you fall asleep when it feels impossible?

#ask game #maybe ?? if you guys want??#I miss the interaction w you guys

My s/o never follows through. They say they're gonna talk to me, then they don't, they say they're gonna do something for me, then they don't.

If someone isn’t giving you assurance and love in the way you need to feel happy and fulfilled, then it doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t care for you, but it also does not mean you have to stay

#I really hope you are getting the love attention and respect that I believe each person inherently deserves #I am sending you well wishes #feel free to message me anytime #my DMs submissions + asks are always open <3 #claire answers #anon

ramblingsuggestions

how can i express the boundlessness of my heart?

you pluck every string in time

i can feel the beating heart of the universe in your smile

your arms wrap around and around again

an armor that i can never shed

no matter what happens

even if your light fades from this world too early

i will never forget being held by you

cemented forever in my soul

#ramblingsuggestionsfanclub #I adore your writing aud #I'm sending love

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ramblingsuggestions

i can feel you fading. i’m reaching out desperately, scrambling to hold on to just a piece of you. but you slip through my fingers like rushing water

#ramblingsuggestionsfanclub

ramblingsuggestions

how can i express the boundlessness of my heart?

you pluck every string in time

i can feel the beating heart of the universe in your smile

your arms wrap around and around again

an armor that i can never shed

no matter what happens

even if your light fades from this world too early

i will never forget being held by you

cemented forever in my soul

#audrey I have a crush on you.#this is the sweetest thing ever

you just make so much sense

#sug #suggestion #suggestions #suggestion blog #love #in love #hehehe #ldr

i wish i could sprout more eyes so i could stare at you

#heheh #sug #suggestion #suggestions #suggestion blog #ramble #love

he’s just soil, love, and music all wrapped up together

#I ! Am ! In ! Love !#this is fucking crazyyy #i adore this man and feeling in my heart #and only up from here !#sug #suggestion #suggestions #suggestion blog #love #love!!!

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shakysuggestions

She owns my heart and she owns my hips but she never wants me except for on her special days But I love her when she spins me up and lets me dance like her music box

#thinking about this once again !#self reblog

I think I need to introduce myself to myself and that’s okay it’ll be like meeting a new friend

#I really want to turn a new leaf #sorry for babbling #yesterday just felt really really profound #sug #suggestion #suggestions #suggestion blog

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