seeker of the muse

First of all, the scene isn't nearly as bad as people make it out to be. Like god forbid a woman get her puh eaten out. But besides that, sex isn't just rough play and kinks. It's supposed to be fun and exciting for people. And it could be a good guide for people to discover what they like and who they like.

That's what it was for Visi. Like, she was so confused when she woke up, and that was the beginning of her developing feelings for Robert. Now, people can argue on this, but I personally think that Visi confirmed her feelings for him during the movies. We see her disappointed when he left the comms and we see her happy when he joins her.

The dream is also about Visi's character, not Robert. She preaches that she's this rough and dominant character, a mechanism meant to shield her vulnerability. But in the dream, she's the one who was receiving pleasure and the one who's being submissive. Sex is also an activity built on trust. Meaning that the period after her capturing Lightningstruck and before her wet dream, she began trusting Robert, that he's not gonna be another person who thinks she can't be a good person.

But obviously, she can't just fully trust him after just one dream. With the mix of her confused feelings and impulsive behaviour, she acts out on this, beginning to push Robert's boundaries. Her straight-up telling him in the men's bathroom was just another act of defence. She doesn't know how to feel about it, so why not find out how Robert feels about it?

And I've said this before, but people who say Robert was uncomfortable in that scene were playing with their eyes closed. Like, none of Robert's responses to her dream showed any sign of disgust. He was thrown off, not uncomfortable. Plus, he still calls her out anyway when Waterboy interrupts them, so there's literally no issue.

TLDR;

one’s character has no impact on whether they were/are a victim or not, victim status is not something that is only afforded to the palatable.

or say that he "could do this all day" after visi asked him if he jerks off in his mech suit.

or say he loves donuts from his mouth to his butt after she made a sex joke

oh but sure he was totally uncomfortable, whatever u say gng 🥀

brideshead revisited edit