SEA OF TEEF

Sometimes its nicer when friends just play with your hair and make soft soothing sounds, instead of firing tactics and game plans to get you out of hard emotional states. Friends who understand the emotional state is a phase for growth and you will find your own strength to pull yourself out and from that strengthen your being and add another handy tool to your life tool belt. Offering second hand game plans to be “better” and avoiding the discomfort of negative states, is refusing you the ability to gain experience in this situation and the knowledge of how to function the next time this negative state comes around. It is the same as handing you fake band aid tools for your life tool belt. The next time a negative state occurs, you pull out a noodle instead of the sword you were meant to gain the first time around.