controversial opinion coming up:
if youâre cis, and if youâre attracted to the opposite sex, youâre cishet
congratulations you arenât oppressed for your sexuality
Iâm assuming this is ace discourse but can I get some fuckin biphobia up in here?
Uhhh yikes
also cis, het aces arenât oppressed for being het, but they are for being ace. I have studies and other sources showing straight people discriminating against aces based on their asexuality if youâre interested in learning more.
Hey if you scroll down like five posts on the blog thereâs a post that amounts to âI donât like the bi group being called the bisexuals because it feels sexualising even tho I love being bi I donât want to be called bisexualâ so A. Op IS bi???? Which makes the post all the more weird because⌠shoot self in foot much? And B. What? What?
You all prove valid points!! Iâm so so sorry that I worded this so badly. Im in no way trying to be transphobic/biphobic/aphobic. Iâm not on tumblr often so I didnât see the amount of traction this got until today.
I did shoot myself in the foot with this one as stated. I didnât word it properly (as said) and I didnât reread it and even think about the fact that it could be interpreted as biphobic (which is super dumb.. Iâm bi for gods sake).
As for the âopposite sexâ thing,, I canât really do myself any favors on that one. Reading over it now, I realize how transphobic it sounds to some and that is not my intention at all.. Iâm sorry that I made it seem that way.
I was trying to make a quick and snappy post on ace discourse and it backfired on me, as it shouldâve. Iâm now actively going to try to either keep my nose out of where it doesnât belong and make sure I know the point that Iâm trying to make before I make any more discourse posts.
I know not everybody who saw my original post, which is now deleted, will see this. I want to try and fix what Iâve done, but obviously that isnât completely possible because people are going to disagree with me no matter what I do.
Iâm very embarrassed at myself for making that post. I apologize to anybody who got hurt by the post or saw biphobic/transphobic/aphobic undertones that were not supposed to be there in the first place.
Thank you for calling me out or else I wouldnât have realized how terrible I sound here.
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