Queer Tumblr, I need your advice!!
My partner and I (cis women) have been hearing of this thing where a wlw couple find a mlm couple and both couples agree to ‘fake marry’ to live safely within their communities without having to cut family off.
I think these are called a ‘lavender marriage’ or ‘mixed-orientation marriage’ and are described as “a male–female mixed-orientation marriage, undertaken as a marriage of convenience to conceal the socially stigmatised sexual orientation of one or both partners”.
If anyone has any information or ideas on where to look and/or how to find a like-minded couple, we would be very very grateful! If you’re not sure, please reblog so maybe someone with information may be able to offer some advice. Every bit of information will be greatly appreciated.
If you need any more information from my side, please ask!
Thank you all so much in advance!
Much love ❤️🙏🏽

















