self ship blog!!

Imagine gently playing with your F/O’s hair or massaging the back of their neck and watching their brain turn off as they become completely and totally relaxed beneath your touch, or vice versa! <3 bonus points if they fall asleep while you’re doing it, too!

I love self inserts that have intricate lore and ties to the story <33

There's so many talented writers and artists in the community, not to mention how creative others are in general! It's so fun to see what everyone comes up with :]]

Imagine cuddling with f/o, legs and arms tangled together in a surprisingly comfortable way. f/o carefully adjusting to tuck you in closer, chin resting on your head as they absentmindedly trace slow, gentle patterns on your back. maybe you both quietly talk with eachother until one of you falls asleep, or maybe your f/o has already drifted away to sleep the moment they curled up to you.

They catch on to your fidgeting and what may be causing it! They'll also do what they can to keep an eye out for anything that may end up hurting you, like skin picking, biting or chewing. They'll hold your hands or distract you with a kiss instead!

If it stems from something negative, they'll offer to hold your hand and give you some reassurance, or get you somewhere calmer to catch your breath. If it's coming from something positive, they'll smile to themselves and comment about how lovely you look/sound!

They comment on how your voice sounds once you question them on how they knew you weren't feeling well. They know your tone so well that they can tell whenever you begin to feel upset, which gets them in caregiver mode almost immediately

If there's anything they can do to help you feel better, don't fret to ask! They're more than happy to provide you with anything that may make you feel a bit more relieved. From just being held while you cry, to getting some comforting snacks and some water; they'll do their best to help you out

They remind you that they love you when they notice a certain look in your eye. Everyone feels insecure every now and then, but they'll make sure you know that you have nothing to worry about. They'll never stop loving you and every little thing about you!

Your body, your voice, your soul, your personality. Every last piece of everything that makes you who you are, it's all perfection to them! They aren't afraid to shake off your negative thoughts either, by the end of it you'll really feel like the gorgeous and lovely person that you are!

They get you gifts whenever they remember you telling them about something you were interested in! They may not share all of your hobbies or interests, but they still pay attention to what you have to say about it all!

From stuff you collect, to accessories, to gear for your hobby/interest, to something you've had your eye on for a while. They'll make sure you feel seen, heard, appreciated and remembered! And of course, they'll ask to see how you'll put it to use as well

Your f/o cares about ALL of you. Every quirk, regardless of how you may view it, is genuinely perfect to them, just like the rest of you! You have no reason to be ashamed of yourself, especially not when they're around!

Your romantic F/O who is so head over heels for you... The simple thought of you is enough to pull a lovingly sigh out of them.

Your romantic F/O who daydreams about you, who imagines cheesy lovey-dovey scenarios between you two. Maybe they giggle and kick their feet, too.

Your romantic F/O who sketches you in the corners of their notebook, in the middle of their notes — and suddenly, the whole page is filled with doodles of you and hearts.

Your romantic F/O who thinks about you before they go to sleep, hoping they can meet you in their dreams.

Your romantic F/O who is constantly reminded of you throughout the day, by the mere sight of things that make them remind of you — your favorite color, your favorite food, something you like.

Your romantic F/O who always has loving you as the intention behind most of their actions. Their love for you takes a huge part in their life.