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I decided it was time for our community to have a place where we can log all the hypnosis abusers and evidence. There’s been a long standing problem with issues becoming known to the community, they flare up for awhile, and then die down. But once they’ve settled, how would a new person ever know to avoid a site, file, or person?

Enter @safehypnosis. This blog will record and archive findings and evidence around hypnosis abuses and the people responsible. Each #whotoblock below shows every screenname I have for each individual. You’ll see that they like to change their names alot to try to avoid their past, but they keep doing the same behaviors.

To send me information either submit the information to me here or tag @safehypnosis in your own evidence blog post. The best evidence is screenshots of communication or timestamps in files.

Typical abusive behaviors

https://safehypnosis.tumblr.com/post/637731679625216000/the-abusers-toolkit

#whotoblock list 

@ Neuralnetsandprettypatterns, @ Nnpparchive, @ neuralnetsclassic, thedeepdreamstate, petruccio, neuralnetsandpretttypatterns, Patreon: MindEraser, and Fetlife: NeuralNetwork. https://fetlife.com/users/12723855

@ nimjahypnosis and YouTube: nimja

Headcrash and Doctor Headcrash and WEEHU conference

@ taloshypno and kik: primal den and talos_cuff

@ shadowmancerspell

@ essexandblackpoolhypnotist

@ greatplansforyou

@ jjimmy789

@ purplegreyyellow and c2077

@ obeythemasterhand

@ rose-alpha-female

@ makingthisfun

@ newmaster1234

@ masterdom97

@ hypnofuninthesun

@ master-batman

@ the-neuromancer

Got this report about @the-neuromancer .  The boundary violation occured during a phone call, but is referenced in the attached screenshots.  

The survivor indicated that she specifically informed him prior to any trances that she wasn’t interested in memory play.  He professed a commitment to safety on their first two calls.  But, on their third call, she was repeatedly fractionated and then he moved into trying to alter her memories and build connections.  He indicated that he was trying to do an amnesia trigger in DIRECT conflict with her stated goals prior to trance.  When she brought herself up through her own methods, she confronted him on it and he claimed that it was a “accident.”  But, it was clearly no accident.

Discord: Neuromancer

Alias: Jack

Tumblr: chaoticbouquetsoulflower

FetLife: (unknown)

The screenshots show it better than I can tell the story.

My thoughts:

He tries to claim he does his own sessions- I have proof that is not the case. His tag is @bodyworshipart Avoid him at all costs!

See below screenshots. You can clearly see his chats with me vs someone else’s hypnosis sessions. He copies and pastes them into the chat from their sessions. He mainly uses @hypnoserosnox sessions but he knew I figured that out so today tried using another which I also found ( www.spiralingdown.com/hypnosis-script-falling-into-my-voice/ ). When I questioned where his own sessions were he blocked me (see screenshot).

If you’re not a hypnotist, you shouldn’t use someone else’s sessions without 1) crediting them and 2) asking the submissive if they’re okay if you use someone else’s scripts. Otherwise it makes you predator like by luring girls in under mind control for your own benefit with no hypnosis training.

And yes, I’ll forever call guys out like this because I’ve been hurt in the past and I refuse to allow anyone else to have the same experience. My profile may say bimbo but let me assure you I am an intelligent girl and I’m not naive. You send me a photo that looks modelled, you best believe I’m tracing it to check you haven’t stolen it offline before I trust you with photos of my own. Don’t mess with a sub who’s been burned 💁🏼‍♀️ if anyone is interested in doing genuine hypnosis sessions, let me know xo

Passing off someone else’s scripts as his own

Trancing for photos without consent

If you listened to last night’s (6/18/2021) “discussion” of the controversy surrounding MindQuake – which I will say upfront I didn’t, because I long ago decided against going to it ever again – then you probably picked up on a lot of things that made you uneasy about that convention and its new leader, Mr. Taqtiks.  If you didn’t, then you probably need to talk to your peer group about it, because that could mean that you need to have your moral compass checked.

I’ve heard that while he was spinning his false tales of conspiracies against himself (hmm … kind of like that other former world leader who still maintains that an election was stolen despite the total lack of evidence outside his own fantasies), which is boring but nominally allowed.  But then, apparently to bolster his nonexistent case, he started reading verbatim from someone’s private complaint letter against him!

If you’ve never been involved in a complaint case, you may not be aware of certain very relevant things:

1) Complaints are (supposed to be) treated as extremely confidential by the organizations to which they are submitted.  The actual text of a complaint is not to be disclosed to anybody who hasn’t demonstrated an actual need to know – that includes concoms, and it especially includes the person the complaint is against.  The very fact that Taqtiks has seen that person’s complaint against him means something went very wrong with the handling of that complaint.  And the reason the subject of a complaint should never see the written complaint was fully illustrated by Taqtiks last night: it opens up the person who wrote it to retaliations by Taqtiks and others who are sympathetic to Taqtiks.

2) Taqtiks, as a former (fired for cause) member of the Charmed! concom, has a passing familiarity with this basic principal.  He had no objection to it until there was a complaint against him (not to Charmed!, BTW, but to the local BDSM education organization); then, and only then, did it constitute a personal affront against his concept of justice.  It’s tempting to draw a conclusion just from that, but it only scratches the surface.

So knowing that complaints are confidential, and that complaints are not intended to be shared with anyone not directly involved especially the person they are about, Taqtiks proceeded to read aloud on Discord to a public audience from that person’s complaint letter.  He took a situation that was already bad, and made it 1,000 times worse by broadcasting that he had a copy of the complaint and making it public knowledge, down to specific wording.  I’m not sure what his objective was in doing that (other than to torture/punish the person who complained, obviously), but he has made a few things abundantly clear to everyone:

Taqtiks has no interest in preserving the proper handling of any consent complaints about himself, at least, and demonstrably will retaliate against anyone who complains about him in the future.

It follows that if the rules don’t apply to him, they won’t apply to anyone else that he likes or that is associated with him in some way.

Therefore, no event that Taqtiks is part of can be considered a safe environment for anyone who isn’t a personal friend of Taqtiks.

A short summary of recent events: Many of you may have read this writing of mine and some of you may have seen that he has posted a writing in which he accuses me of harassment. He claims that the victims whose stories I tell in the writing linked above have asked me to stop. To take the stories down. I want you to know that I have always got prior consent before posting anything online and I always respect the wishes and privacy of the people who decide to share things with me.

In his writing, he shares screenshots of communication and he claims that is the woman whose story I shared in 2019. He claims that she was unaware of my history and my reputation, and that she feels betrayed by my story. According to this, she has asked me to take the story down. This feels like a case of mistaken identity to me. Because the woman who approached me knew from the start that I have written about this man’s victims, it was the reason she asked me to write about the way he violated her consent. She read and okayed what I was going to write and I waited to post it until she was ready. So I cannot believe that the emails he shares on that webpage are from the same woman. In order to protect her identity and privacy, I’m not going to say any more about that at this time.

In his writing, he also alludes to that time when I shared a writing from Jukebox’s Tumblr to Reddit. I regret that and I should apologise for it. Jukebox wrote some really good things and I wanted to share them with more people, but I went about it all wrong. I should not have done that and I’m glad the mods took it down.

In his writing, it sometimes feels like he is grasping at straws. He says it’s a collection of ways how I’ve harassed him, and then he lists that time when Guilty asked a venue to not use our name Hypnomeets for their event. That communication was private between the venue and Guilty, and seems irrelevant to all of this. It was a courteous request to a venue to avoid confusion, and I am not sure why he would even have access to that communication, let alone why he chose to share it here.

Instead of going back and forth about who said what with screenshots, I would like to invite you to think for yourself. He seems to posit that he is a victim of harassment. I have always said that I am just a kinkster who cares about ongoing consent and keeping people in the community safe. I invite you to look. Read some of the things he’s written about me. Read some of my writings here. Use your own critical thinking skills and come to your own conclusions.

Some people have suggested that he should be allowed back into events because of restorative justice. Some people have suggested that he and I just need to stop antagonising each other. Why do I keep sharing these stories and why do I keep warning events that he’s a predator? It’s a valid question. The reason is that the pattern is so painfully clear. These two stories are just the ones that I am allowed to share, but there are so many more. It happens often that someone who has read my writings contacts me and tells me about their negative experience with him. And I have never seen him show any remorse about any of the things he has done in the past, so therefore I think my fear that he will just do it again is justified. I do this because his behaviour follows the pattern of a predator, and I worry that more newbies in our community will fall prey to him. The only way to deal with a missing stair, is to raise awareness.

If he wanted to atone for the people he has hurt, he wouldn’t be accusing me of spreading lies, calling himself the victim. He would be apologising and telling us how he’s going to avoid hurting people in the future. When he does that, then we may be able to talk about restorative justice. What he’s doing now in his writing is deny, attack and reverse victim and offender. 

None of the victims I have talked to have expressed a wish to forgive him. On the contrary, they have asked me to keep their identities safe because they fear he will retaliate against them. He is widely known and has quite a large fanbase, so the fear that he would lash out at them is very real. Just like he has lashed out at me now.

Apparently NNPP’s fan gallery – 3 of them, at least – have heard about my stroke and decided this is a good time to counterattack.  So let’s just get the basics down here for you.

The complaint by Bliss was handled fairly

Bliss complained about being outed – which in this context meant a post contained her first name.  The same first name she uses on her Twitter.  She wanted the Charmed! concon to force a presenter to remove her reblog of it.  

I brought the complaint to the whole concom, and we reached the same conclusion – that we are did not want to get involved in censuring someone’s social media habits, and that we didn’t appreciate Bliss trying to weaponize our report process to get her way.  End of case.  Or it should have been, but of course nothing is ever finished with the NNPP crowd.

The complaint was not leaked

What really amusing about this one is that Bliss accused me of leaking the information in the report 2 days before she actually sent the report.  But that doesn’t make Bliss look very good, so she ignores that fact.

Only Bliss reported anything to Charmed

VanessaSpectra is running around telling Bliss’s story as if she were the one wronged, but never reported anything.  If her report was the same one, it probably would’ve gotten the same response for the same reasons, but she never actually tried.  Which makes her entire diatribe meaningless.

So … why are they doing this?

If you ask them, they’ll say something about how the report was leaked and never treated seriously, so they have to.  Really?  

First, examine the first three points above.  Then ask yourself, if I were on a concom and someone came to me demanding that we start policing the social media habits of our presenters, would I do it?  Give that a little thought, especially the subsequent requests.

Next, realize that the post they are so concerned about went down in the Tumblr purge last December.  So it’s gone anyway, and through no action of theirs.  (And remember, our presenter just reblogged it – it wasn’t the original post.)  So they actually got the result they wanted.

Now, recognize that the common thread here is NNPP.  NNPP has gotten banned from the Erotic Hypnosis group on FetLife, and that rankles.  He doesn’t have the gumption – or the credibility – to go after that group himself, so he’s using his girlfriend (Bliss), Vanessa, etc. as his surrogates.  He wants them to make the case that because NNPP hasn’t abused anyone (yet!) in that particular corner of the Internet, he should be allowed there and the group moderator shouldn’t look at this years-long record of abusing people in other places online.  Does that sound like a good idea to you?

Nah; me either.  So just bear that in mind whenever you see someone posting about the poor innocent NNPP, or how this con or that con is so mean to him and his allies.  It’s a game to them, and they’ll keep on playing it as long as they can get someone to listen.  And the truth doesn’t matter.

@daja-the-hypnokitten @hypnoobiwan @zanydanger @ellaenchanting

This is the story a man named Michael, or Neural Nets, or Petruccio, EvilPsychiatrist, BrainlessBecki, MistyGwen, MindFogger, Decognition and Bimbo Virus. 

A Decade of Lies and Manipulation

I don’t want to Trigger the trauma of his other victims by reciting stuff already on the web (Just search it up). What I want to do is share my chapter. What I saw, what I heard, and you may just have to take my word on it. 

Originally, I was a fan, I wanted to support him, I did. Hell, I wanted to be in his files, and eventually, I was, but after knowing him for some time on TumbLr, and other places, namely joining his Discord, I began to hear stories. People came to me, talking about abuse, and for a while, I played along, quite a while, and suddenly, the Real person behind the facade began to emerge. 

(I should mention here, I am empath, I pick up on people who lie, and this also means people can find me to be someone who is easy to open up to) 

It started, the moment I joined the server. I met with https://huntressm.tumblr.com in Voice Chat, had a great time and trance with her, and then conversation somehow shifted to consent, where NN was mentioned. She imparted wisdom upon me, and I listened mostly. 

I took Huntress’s advice as something of great value, and her and I would continue to communicate about it at a later date.  

I would soon learn NN had damning evidence against him, but for the time, I played along. 

Then, was about the time he decided to me a 5 dollar Whore in the server, for speaking too much, and I was silenced. I would then be put under Bliss’s care, for what she called “One word training”. 

Things got more cult-like…

Soon, members, myself included were involved in the gaslighting of other members, it was awful, and when any questioned it, they were peer pressured into following along like I was. People would be encouraged to confess things they experienced under hypnosis, encouraged to trance on the daily, and that is what ultimately led to Feather, the infamous file Neural promoted which had suggestions in it to “Forget all other people” and was the subject of trauma for some. You may have even read, dear reader, the story of Secret Subject, and her reaction to the file was not great. 

The Great Cult Clash of Hypno-kink

SS, bless her, just wanted NN to put consent warnings in the descriptions of his files. He did, but only after covering his ass which he had Mind Melters (his high ranking cultists) help out with, to strip himself of any responsibility for his actions. It IS a fact that when SS tried to speak out, they did everything in his power to make her look GUILTY. Not once showing a shred of care about consent, till it took to Tumblr, and it became hard to suppress. 

Then I got kicked 

Long story short, he manipulated a good friend, many actually, and with the help of Guzzles, aka Bliss, aka Amelia, that friend was led into a whirlwind of mental health issues. We have since rekindled and apologized to eachother. 

The Bitch is Back aka Deneuralization

After some time had passed, I contacted NN for re-entry. Veronica Mars was back on the case, and I immediately set out a plan to play honey trap, and squeeze this lemon of anything I could. I played along again, each time noticing no matter how high I got promoted, there was always this inner circle, an untouchable few, that did stuff in secret, so nothing bad ever got out. I also worked to get close to who I could, felt people needed protecting, to know the truth.

The Girl who Kicked the Hornets Nets and the VFD 

Soon I was on his good side enough to become a Mind Melter, this meant, I was a mod, and as soon as I became one, I was aware this was much, much bigger than I had ever imagined. He pulled all strings, everything to ensure the place ran like clockwork. Bliss became my boss, but we rarely spoke except for events like Friday Deep Drop. 

In drop, it was kinda hot, I’ll be honest, but I always had this worry, like it was a way of conditioning others to follow him, say the mantras like the girls in the files. On the surface it was inclusive, but deep down more or less a way to rope more people in. He has since deleted all evidence of the promotions, but they remain, as reblogs. 

Then I find out, I’m not the only one looking into all this. That SS and hero of the decade Hoosen, and many others, were also looking into it. We worked together, I method acted, kept digging, and kept finding more evidence. 

Exes, old friends, you name it, so many have interacted with him, and then bounced because of how manipulative he is. Speaking of bouncing, I find it fitting to note I got accidentally triggered by one of the suggestions from the file Bounce, while in the shower. Thankfully, I was able to gain a grasp on reality, some were not so lucky. 

I continued to poke and prod, finding out about more and more stories, just like mine. 

Hoosen’s Letter 

Then came the first truth bomb. Hoosen sacrificed himself in the line of duty, everything he worked to build, soon exposing NN and his past. 

This open letter (meta I know, so self-aware)

That leads us to here, and this very moment, where I write to you dear hypno community to say your stories are valid, and if he harmed you, and you are comfortable, speak up. You are not alone. Just today I finally got brave and called him out on his tricks. We are wise to them all, name changes, identity shifts, a true Count Olaf. 

Why He didn’t have the nerve to do it himself, I will never know, but I was in fact kicked again, like all before me, for just bringing some transparency. 

I ask you all, please, let him manipulate no longer. See it in your heads that what he did was wrong, and he is trying to this to evade punishment. See it in your minds to come to your senses like I have, and others before me. 

We want to say he could change, but after saying he was not coming back and giving control of the place to Aurora, ego pulled him back. 

Bliss aka Amelia, even knows he is an abuser, yet lets him do it anyway, wanting to be fucked up. Promoting it like others should do that too, and blurring fantasy and reality along the way. 

The Pink Room  

This was Amelia’s personal retreat, a public, but inaccessible audio channel originally just for her, a person brainwash room. When I asked what it was and if I could join, she shut me down fast. She knew more than she was letting on, and I knew it too. I’d see others join too, others closer to Amelia, people she had sometimes met IRL, I am to learn. We now have every reason to believe she was deliberate about all this. She wanted us to know she was getting fucked up. And we knew all right because she was so open about it.  

As a file girl

At first, it was liberating, like being a Playboy Bunny but ultimately, that wore off and it was clear he was just using us, for our voices, cause he disliked his own. At first, it was like “yeah cool, I get to work with people I have wanted”, but the cold reality is I recorded alone, having to press for tips by sharing what I recorded, till what was recorded was sufficient. Even then, it was clear who were the faves. It was clear he wanted to draw the most attention to the higher circle in his establishment, as I am only in a fraction of the file, despite recording the whole script. All this effort, for only a few seconds, here and there. And pretend praise when it was shared with those involved. He made it clear. He cared more about those who were established in mind-kink.

The illusion of Free Will

Ultimately, He’d like you to believe you have a choice, that you can quit any time, yet he also very happily admits his files are designed to addict people. Don’t believe me? Healsluts are what was it now? How about if I say Tick Tock? 1 2 3 4? 

These earworms, combined with advanced NLP and other tactics, are his main weapon. Why his server went to 4K, before declining, as people worked out what was really going on. 

You never have a choice, he makes you think you do, that it is a game, but

THIS IS NOT A GAME ANYMORE…THIS IS REAL. Real minds have suffered real life consequences, and he will say it’s a conspiracy, anything to make him not liable for the damage he has done. 

I love this kink, I really do, but I saw him lie and manipulate long enough, and it’s time it was out on the open.

He’s banned from conventions and forums on hypnosis for his behavior. He’s even broken laws just to make money off stuff that isn’t his. 

Maybe I'm the only one who had a bad experience with him, but I talked to someone and he said that these were all red flags. All I want is for no one else to get hurt like I did.

May 14, 2021: Friday Morning

Good Morning Anon.

I’m very sorry for your experience, and we appreciate you sharing it with us today. From the final statement in your ask, I can tell that you are shopping around this encounter to get feedback from people so you can get a better understanding of what has happened to you. I’m happy to tell you what I think, based on what you’ve expressed.

1. He got to the hotel and started the scene immediately...

Consent based encounters start with discussion and negotiation. Unless it was agreed upon before hand that the scene would start upon your entrance, (which you say it was not) it’s a fucked up way to start a scene with someone new, and was your first huge red flag of your experience. 🚩

2.  started the scene immediately without saying anything or verifying he was who he said he was.

How completely terrifying. There is no way a consent based experience should start this way. Once again, unless this was agreed upon, this is neither dominant or human behavior. Second huge red flag. 🚩🚩

3.  and he grabbed my neck right after walking in the door and started smacking me.

No. Without introducing himself? Upon entering? Undiscussed and unnegotiated? Completely fucked up. Red Flag. 🚩🚩🚩

4. He popped my jaw smacking me

So you walked in and he just started whaling on you, and hard enough that he popped your jaw. I'm going to guess there was no check in there, as there seems to be no concern for your comfort or safety anywhere in the encounter you are describing, so another red flag. 🚩🚩🚩🚩

5. I shut down and just went along with it and he didn't do a consent check in and make sure I was still good.

I understand your response as someone who was actively being abused. Considering the activities you're describing, it's inexcusable that you wouldn't be checked in with many times throughout the encounter, especially as someone new to him. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

6. His safeword system was inconsistent and he got really pissed when I called red to the point where I wanted to leave but I was scared to do so.

An inconsistent safe word system = no safe word system. A safe word is something that must be reacted to strongly and immediately every time it's uttered. There can be no inconsistency in consent based encounters. Anger in response to a safe word being implemented is not dominant behavior. People who get angry at safe words tend to be abusers, misogynists, and/or narcissists. An inconsistent safe word system is a huge red flag. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

7. He got mad when I asked him to delete my pictures because I just didn't want him to have them anymore and he never gave proof of deleting them.

When you give someone pictures of yourself you are doing that with consent. You should be able to revoke consent and ask them to delete them without any push back or drama. Anyone who acts pissy or won't give you the peace of mind of knowing you did what they asked you to do is not a dominant. Definite red flag behavior. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Here are some final thoughts:

* If you uttered your safeword and it didn't stop the scene, you were raped.

* A dominant will make you feel safe in a scene, even when it's an intense or CNC scene. Having an intense BDSM scene is about creating the illusion of fear and danger, not about actually putting you in a state of fear and danger.

* A dominant will have a rock solid view of consent and will be very concerned about that being reflected in every scene they have with you.

* Again, what you describe is a terrifying and traumatizing scene full of red flags and consent violations. I hope you learn and heal from it, and I hope some of what I said helps you to recover from it.

However, the more I went over it trying to figure out if there was someone who matched up with the unusual details, I think I know who this person is (90% sure) and if it was them, we did meet so I should address this.

First of all, it saddens me any time someone doesn’t enjoy meeting with me, it’s rare but when you play with dozens of dozens like I have it happens occasionally.

However, this person is being disingenuous by omission and leaving out context.

This person contacted me asking me to take their virginity. We made plans for her to stop and get a room on her way down to college.

Their jaw was popped because they had a previous medical condition and it was prone to do so. They did not share this information with me until after it had happened. Any medical or psychological issues that may come up in a scene always need to be disclosed in advance for exactly this reason.

I’m a consensual non consent player. It is extreme edge play. I am known and sought out for my intensity and aggression. It’s well advertised, and present in many write ups done by people who have done scenes with me. I’m not a daddy dom. She knew all of this.

I texted her from the parking lot as soon as I arrived. I made at least two trips back to my car before we started. I’m not sure how she can construe this as not introducing myself.

I’m also not sure how my safeword system was “inconsistent” but it is true I didn’t use the check in part. I didn’t need to, she stopped the scene extremely frequently. You’ll notice she never claims I did not stop when she called “red”, because I did. Every time, and it was a lot of times. Pretty much every hit and even basic vanilla sex was too much for her.

In my opinion, this person wasn’t physically, mentally, or emotionally ready to have sex. Especially BDSM of any type. I definitely wasn’t the right choice for her, being on the more extreme end of the scale for that type of play.

It was her room, and she could have asked me to leave at any time. I actually offered to leave, once it was clear she couldn’t handle it. She asked me to stay.

We cut the scene short, and she talked to me about her mother, sister, and father. I listened and gave support. I often end up in a makeshift psychologist role, and I feel it’s my duty to provide that aspect of aftercare when people need it.

We went out to pick up calzones, came back to eat and watch Sherlock. We spent upwards of four hours of me listening to her problems and feelings.

And I’m glad. She needed that.

There were lots of opportunities for her to have me leave. She asked me to stay. We sat in her car the next morning after checkout, I don’t remember if we went to breakfast.

I’m not out to invalidate someone’s experience, but I don’t feel I’m being represented fairly in her account. Her jaw being predisposed to popping, insinuating (but stopping short of claiming) that I didn’t respond to safewords, not mentioning that we stopped the scene or any of the aftercare (especially when she got the gold star therapy version) leaves a lot of context out and doesn’t give a complete understanding of the experience.

You had fuck all care about that girls well being from the get go. There should have been no frequent stops in the scene because she called RED. YOU as the apparent experienced one, YOU as the one in fucking charge should have ended that shit well before it could be frequent. It’s clear as day from your own account in your own damn words that it was obvious she was in over her head.

I am going let you all read this one part

RED. Called a lot of times.

Here there is nothing that can save your integrity.

If red is called once and then you continue, I am left with the visual that ther was coersion to continue.

DESPICABLE.

The fact that you recognized this " she wasn't ready" should have happened WELL before any scene. That you can discuss that and acknowledge that fact, makes this even worse.

This was a scene that should never have happened, poorly planed, and sorry "take my virginty"

Jesus, what does it take.... nevermind..

This anon and your response, in my community would have you banned from any events, blogs, community, for life.

This was not informed consent, this was coerced consent from the very beginning because you recognized the state of your partner. The blame falls solely upon you.

I would suggest before you continue you step back and truly reevaluate this situation, take time off from kink play. Make sure that you know what happened here and accept what is truly your responsibility and act accordingly.

As an “experienced dom,” don’t you think it was on you to ensure she, a virgin, understood what was about to happen? She had NO way of knowing what to expect. First call of red should have ended everything and began the aftercare process immediately. In this case more than any other due to her virginity, it was on you to end the scene and help her process.

A reputation for being rough is no excuse when the person you plan to meet has admitted they have no reference point since they’ve never had an experience.

People, if you’re talking to someone and they IN ANY WAY RESEMBLE THE FUCKWIT CALLED OUT ABOVE, that is a big warning sign and you need to protect yourself.

I know there is someone following my blog who knows him and is mutuals with several of the other folks on this thread who have condemned him.

If you haven't already please stop interacting with him before he goes to far and seriously hurts you.

I feel like everyone else on this thread has clearly explained why he’s on the wall of shame. His blog is also just full of red flags. There is no excuse for his behaviour, he was clearly able to assess that she was not enjoying the situation.

That is such a horrible first experience and i hope anon is able to seek professional help to help them recover from that trauma 💜

Report the blog:

https://consensualpredator3rd.tumblr.com/

If you top for CNC play,

please fucking familiarize yourself with trauma responses

and don't make garbage excuses like this!!!!

Common reactions to trauma include fight, flight, freeze and fawn.

Freezing can include shutting down and pretending everything is fine. Freezing can include doing precisely what your aggressor expects and wants from you. It's a way for your brain and nervous system to protect you from increased aggression.

Fawning can include complimenting, assuring them you like them, asking someone to stay because they seem fucking angry at you, declarations of love, and all sorts of positive seeming behaviour! This is also protective!!!!

CNC plays with trauma. You better fucking be ready for inflicting actual trauma. It's a risk of even the most consensual and careful CNC and this was not that.

Should CNC tops not listen to bottoms because of potential freezing/fawning? Of course the fuck not. But AT MINIMUM when someone says they were not happy you don't trot out "we hung out for 4 more hours and they told me things" as proof that you didn't traumatize this person. You absolutely fucking did and need to take responsibility for that.

CNC tops - please have a plan in place for what you will do if someone ever says this to you, which begins with listening and learning and remorse, because blaming them is NOT WHAT YOU SHOULD DO. A bad response to a story like this compounds trauma. I recommend having friends ready as accountability people to talk through the details with you and be ready to identify where you may have gone wrong.

If anywhere! Maybe you didn't, and then can come at responding with compassion and responsibility. But this guy sure did go wrong!!!

As some of you might be aware, I was asked by @hypno-panavatar to present this year at WEEHU 5. The schedule has come out this week, and I was surprised…and not in a good way…to find out that Doctor Headcrash is also on the schedule as a presenter. I did not expect to see that. Had I known that he was under consideration for the position of presenter, I would have made it clear immediately that one of my conditions for presenting was his complete absence from the schedule.

In retrospect, it probably was incredibly stupid of me not to expect this. If you’re going to show the bad judgment to allow someone to attend who has been kicked out of every other hypnosis convention in the country, of course you’re going to extend that bad judgment to inviting him to teach classes. It was really just damn dumb of me to think that maybe they wouldn’t actively promote him as an authority despite the people who’ve come forward to talk about the way he treated them. (Those are not my stories to tell, but suffice to say that the other hypnocons felt that they would be running a safer event if he was not present.) I really should have seen it coming, but somehow I figured that the con would not consider him someone who exemplifies their intent as a gathering. Guess I was wrong there. I sincerely apologize to everyone who no doubt wonders how I was dumb enough to get involved in all this, and I hope you can forgive my really deep failure to understand the underlying dynamics of the situation.

It’s three weeks out from the con. At this point, I’d be giving them pretty short notice if I were to force them to rearrange their schedule to accommodate the loss of myself and @ladyruetha , and I would feel at least a tiny bit bad about that (although I’d personally be just as happy if they withdrew their invitation to us. Or, borrowing Douglas Adams joke about a more clear-minded person, to Headcrash.) But let me make this perfectly clear. Headcrash has no business teaching. He has no business attending. His presence makes other attendees feel less safe and frankly I think they’re right to feel less safe. I believe the people who’ve come forward to talk about the way he treated them, one hundred percent. I feel like I need to apologize to these people simply for being involved with this. I’m genuinely angry that I’m in this position. I feel ashamed that my name is on the same piece of paper as his, and let me say again that the people who are running this con have two very simple ways to remedy that right now, one of which involves finding a way to fill our slots and the other involves finding a way to fill his. And Lady Ru’etha can teach anything he could, if convention organizers were to come to their senses and realize that they can promote WEEHU or they can promote Headcrash but they can’t do both.

This is incredibly hard to do, but I just got back from one of the most amazing events I’ve been to with such wonderful people, and I can’t stand the thought of there being this kind of person in the community while people don’t know.

This post is about Feather, a new sleep hypnosis file from Mistress Magenta and NeuralNetsandPrettyPatterns ( @mistressmagenta and @neuralnetsandprettypatterns ).  The file comes in two versions, one for men and one for women.  The long form of Feather contains some pretty standard induction methods and addictive phrases as described in the original content warning above.  However, it also contains the following text:

12:25 “I like you forgetting things that aren’t me”

12:32 “Cause I really like how you worship me”

12:38 “Maybe you’re gonna forget tonight”

12:42 “Maybe other women (men)”

12:46 “I like that”

12:52 “You don’t need those other women (men) in your life”

12:57 “You don’t need to remember their numbers”

13:01 “You don’t need to remember their names”

13:22 “I’m gonna stroke the underside of your cock (pussy), but it’s gonna make you forget”

13:38 “You’re gonna forget those other women (men)”

13:43 “They are never as good as me”

13:56 “When you try to remember their voice what was it like again? It’s hard to remember”

14:01 “I’m stroking it all away”

This text is intended to replace the women/men in the subject’s life with the hypnotist.  This is objectionable, because it is not indicated in the warnings that the selective amnesia will also attempt to erase your real-life relationships and replace them with the hypnotist.

The file concludes with:

16:16 “No one else can make that pattern”

16:30 “Now when you cum for me, you really will forget.  All the other women (men).  They all seem so pointless.  You just need the best now.”

17:06 “You can keep me inside you, you can have all the attention. It feels dreamy good”

18:10 “Even when you wake up, this tiny part of your mind, oh let me tickle it, this tiny part of your mind remembers it. And when you see a feather you need it. You crave it. You want it. And you drop. You can’t forget that.”

This attempts to reinforce and make permanent the text in the middle of the file and connect the listener even further to the hypnotist by replacing their existing relationships.  This file, if effective, could be incredibly damaging and cause real-world harm to the listener.

In the past day, I’ve heard from people in the NNPP community who are 1) against this file, 2) want to just ignore this file, or 3) want the whole issue to go away.

The defenses of this file have included 1) it has a content warning! – The CW indicates addiction and selective amnesia, not replacement and deletion of RL relationships which means it was intentionally obscured from the user. 2) Only listening to something once won’t hurt you - True. But remember, this file is for overnight listening and its about 20 minutes, so that’s 24 times in one session. That could cause real damage to someone. 3) These are just a few sentences in the file! - No, I have the whole file. I have listened to it and I’m a trained hypnotist with over 10 years of experience. I know what this file can do and the script includes many phrases to reinforce and support what I’ve supplied here. 4) Isolated incident! This is the only file with an issue - NNPP claims he is the creator of MindMelter, which was created by petruccio, who had an infamous history online of repeated hypnotic abuse. There is a speculative masterpost about that history. If true, he owns that history. 5) People on the NN community know what they’re in for! Its known as a dark place - if that were true, why have so many people in that community been speaking to me about their concerns. Also, if that’s true, then this file should be no surprise to that community. That doesn’t appear to be the case. 6) You’re just a white knight with something to gain! - So far from the truth that it’s nearly laughable. I certainly will lose many things by posting this. I will lose friends, I will lose followers, and I may lose subjects as well. All I gain from posting this is the clear conscience that I have spoken out against a practice that breaks consent through damaging suggestions, may cause real damage to people, and damages the reputation of the hypnosis community.

1) These files work. In that case, what he’s done is so obviously wrong it’s unbelievable, because he’s subjecting people to suggestions that will fuck up their relationships and their mental state, without giving them any warning at all. No warning means there’s no possibility of any kind of consent or safety. So if he thinks his files work, he’s unquestionably wrong and abusive.

2) These files don’t work. OK, well, if they don’t work, why is he so insistent that they do? As you can see in that first screenshot, he’s totally maintaining that this file is designed to genuinely ‘fuck you up.’ There’s absolutely no suggestion he sees this as anything else than real. You might think he’s just playing a character, and that admitting this is fake would ‘break the fantasy’ or something. But in that case, what he’s doing is still wrong, because he’s talking about and doing kink without making any attempt to distinguish fantasy from reality, or to properly inform people about what hypnosis is and how to do it safely. That’s not good.

You might think it’s more complicated than ‘these files work’ or ‘these files don’t’. But actually it’s not, because if these files work on anyone, ever, they work. That’s the most important thing to understand. And they do, as we know from people like @thesecretsubject who have come forward about that, and from so many experiences that so many of us who are hypnokinky have had.

I’d like to share something that has been posted in NNPP’s server multiple times by moderators as representing the overall policy of the server (and presumably therefore, of NNPP himself), including in response to recent events:

I’d like to draw attention to a particular line: “We believe that subjects under hypnosis can still resist, bring themselves up, disagree with suggestions and set limits for themselves.” I think this is deeply troubling. All subjects? All subjects, all the time? For this to be the “excuse” NNPP needs it to be, this has to be absolutely universally true, and it is not. It clearly is not, we know it isn’t. Anyone who’s been in this community and actually cares about it knows that it’s just not as simple and easy as that. Hypnosis can hurt people. It can cause negative reactions. Once again, The Secret Subject has described her own recent experiences of that in relation to NNPP’s content.

So once you see how false and facile that line is, it all falls into place. NNPP believes hypnosis is real, but only if the subject allows it to be. In his view, the subject holds all the power. Nothing bad happens unless the subject allows it, therefore if something bad does happen, it’s the subject’s fault. The hypnotist isn’t responsible. NNPP isn’t responsible. That’s what this obsession with ‘personal responsibility’ boils down to. It’s just a way for NNPP to say that he can do whatever he wants and none of the consequences are on him.

Now I am in no way a victim of anything but for those who do react badly to this kind of thing the idea of then saying, “This is all your fault!” Is gaslighty and points blame in a serious way imo. In the moment they are having a reaction to something they are already vulnerable and saying that could make them believe that as a fact and could potentially lead to mental health issues.

I honestly don’t think it’s too much to ask people to do their research and just think about what you are writing in scripts and that’s all the matter boils down to for me. I’m not trying to bash anyone or point fingers, I’m just saying that as hypnotists, NLP practitioners and Dominants we need to think about the effect we could have on people with what we say.

Apologies if this is flogging a dead horse at this point, but it’s striking to me  how little it takes to do this properly, and how there are people who refuse to do even that. When This controversy first began, all NNPP needed to do was say “I’m very sorry, I’ll do better in the future” and add proper content warnings. That’s not a big ask. Instead, he threw a tantrum and starting saying all kinds of shady things that show how he really thinks. He couldn’t bring himself to just swallow his ego and admit he made a mistake

Always Ask Consent

Don’t be like this fool!

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I haven’t got the other screenshots anymore but I did send them to Master @hypdom at the time.

This person (jjimmy789) will continuously send spirals, try to drop you with what they send in messages.

Please block if you come across him

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