Traditional woman. Submissive

The world is loud, crowded, restless, and uncertain.

A woman was never meant to face all of it alone just to prove she can.

There's a reason her heart softens near a steady man. There's a reason his presence calms her. There's a reason his leadership feels less like control and more like shelter.

A good man doesn't block her view of the world.

He stands between her and the storm.

And a wise woman doesn't resent that.

When he walks in the room you immediately feel his authority. Not because he’s arrogant and a bully, but because he’s confident, dominant, wise, and loving. A man worthy of a woman’s submission is not a bully. He looks after her heart and body emotionally and physically.

The process of being disciplined is uncomfortable.

I get to decorate our house the way I want to(my husband has left that to me in its entirety+it helps we have similar aesthetic tastes)

I don't have to bicker and nag him about doing the chores in an "imperfect" way

I can create my own schedule and switch around chores, hobbies and rest

I can volunteer and learn new things in a more relaxed manner than I would if I had a day job

I can put more effort into my appearance and demeanor and inculcate a sweet attitude as most of my worries are quite minor

I can give my husband an organised lifestyle and more detailed care and affection

I can host dinner parties or entertain family or friends on his behalf and help him maintain good societal relations

Oh, darling, didn't you get the memo? Equal in value doesn't mean identical in role. Your husband needs your support, your respect, and yes, your obedience. It's not about being less; it's about complementing each other. Think of it as the divine division of labor.

You need my rules.

You need my discipline.

He communicates consistently and clearly. Replies promptly, doesn't leave you on seen, checks up on you throughout the day/week according to his schedule and in agreement with your needs as well.

He pays attention to your needs and desires and quirks, and makes your life better using said details. Ie. buys your favorite kind of flowers, makes your favorite tea in the morning, remembers your food allergies when having dinner dates, etc.

Disagreements may still appear even in health relationships, and it's ok, as communication is essentual for a healthy dynamic. However, his approach to disagreements is a secure one: each will share their perspective, and if feelings were hurt or mistakes were made, he takes accountability for his side, and makes genuine apologies followed by reparations and direct actions (ie. "I'm sorry I did x, I didn't mean to hurt you. I will be/do y in the future", and then does as he promised).

Promises are kept. His actions are in alignment with his words, and he keeps his words. If he says he'll call you after work, he does. If he says he needs to cool off during an argument and will reopen the conversation in 1h, he does indeed return in 1h to continue the topic.

If you're anxious, he will reassure you and work through it. He doesn't run away or avoid the topic (as an avoidantly attached person would).

If you come forward communicating your needs, or sharing complaints or grievances, he will hear you out and actively seek a way to improve things. He won't freak out, or get angry or run away in response to you having needs or communicating your thoughts; these are normal relationship things you're entitled to, and a securely attached man knows this.