Submissive and Disciplined

Oh sure! I've written about these other couples a few times. Brian and Tiffany are our best friends. Even without the sex we have with each other, they're our best couple friends. We've known them since college. They don't share our dynamic, so when we have sex with them, there isn't any d/s in play. Brian and my husband are both bi and they actually knew each other and were sleeping together in college before Tiff and I were in the picture. We swap partners or just kind of pile on each other. But, again, they're friends and when we get together we're usually just hanging out.

The other couple is Dan and Jill and they are HEAVILY d/s. Jill is extremely submissive in a way that I could never be. (It leans into sex slave territory). So when we play with them, we're always doing a scene. Usually we switch partners, with Dan being my dom and my husband being Jill's. There are things that Dan will do that my husband is pretty uncomfortable with (using humiliating language towards me) and Jill is really into piss play, which is something we used to do, but I'm turned off by since having children in diapers and living through potty training.

On an average week, we have sex most nights. Because we're the parents of two young children, our sex life is a little more vanilla than it used to be. Essentially, I don't deny him when he wants sex - ever. Right now because of kids, that means the kids go to bed at night and we usually have sex then we watch TV or read our books and go to bed. Me being free-use means that he calls the shots on when, where and how we do it. If he wants me to stop what I'm doing to suck his dick, then I stop what I'm doing to suck his dick. We have two other couples that we "play" with, and he makes the decisions about when we do it and how (or if) we'll be split up with them. It makes me feel good. I'm the one who told him I wanted to be free-use. I find it a turn on. Even when I'm not in the mood, him demanding sex is often enough to turn that tide.

Before kids, it was a lot kinkier than it is now, I can tell you that! It was often more than once a day, any time, all over the house, and usually included more impact play or bondage than we deal with now.

He asked all the things - was there traffic or something out of my control that made me late. But it really was just me not giving us enough time to get there. I knew as I was leaving the house that I'd be late. I hoped he'd be lenient on me because everything worked out - we were able to keep the appointment.

But he lectured me instead about respecting the doctor's time and respecting the office staff time. That when I make an appointment I am responsible for keeping it, and this type of lateness is a bad example for the children. So in addition to my normal maintenance spanking, I also got a punishment spanking. The maintenance was a normal spanking, done over his knee and with his hand until I was just feeling teary. But punishment spankings? Oh no, they are harder and are ALWAYS done to full tears. My rear end was already bright red from the hand spanking and then Sir used the belt on it for my punishment. I was squirming and crying almost immediately. I spent some time calming down in the corner before beings sat at the desk to write lines "I will be punctual at all times" two hundred times.