sphiaux

when will my body run out of things to go wrong with it

me??? needing??? constant??? reassurance??? yes

When you're sick, you're sick. That's a time for healing and resting and self care and not time for another episode of the guilt show. Don't torture yourself thinking about what needs to be done, how much more useful you could have spend your time or how this is setting you back. Everyone is allowed to be sick. Everyone is allowed to rest and heal, you are not an exception.

Not every day has to count. Some days are for repairing, resting, mourning. You don't have to perform every day. Some days are for doing nothing. For sleeping all day or being on your phone. Relaxing is ok, allowed and encouraged. Do what you need to do.

the hardest thing is when ur going through something terrible there is an awful middle phase of it when u don’t know if u can get through it or if you’ll ever be okay again and the truth is always you will get through it and you will absolutely be okay again but u just cant see it at the time

I love how people with chronic pain can be at extreme levels of pain and just be like “My body is ouchie”

The purest form of love is consideration. When someone thinks about how things would make you feel. Pays attention to detail. Holds you in regard when making decisions that could affect you. In any bond, how much they care about you can be found in how much they consider you

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