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By @shhhhdl and @moonbathinginthesea

For any ABDLs or incontinent people out there who are interested in wearing diapers, or already do wear, it can be a very stressful experience. Stress of being “found out”, leaking, or otherwise embarrased by wearing diapers can make it a lot harder than it needs to be. Hopefully, this guide can give you some tips to make it a lot easier to be confident in wearing diapers, either for need or for fun!

#1 - No one cares.

Seriously, no one around you is checking the people around them for diapers. Wearing diapers out in public is not a big deal at all. Wearing the first time out in public can be nerve wracking, but at the end of the day what’s in your pants shouldn’t matter to anyone besides you.

#2 - Number 2

For those of us who are not bowl incontinent, it’s always always ALWAYS best to hold your BMs as best as you can. Not only do you exponentially increase your risk of being found out, you also are risking the health of yourself and others by walking around with a mess in your diaper.

For people who ARE bowl incontinent, understand that this is something you cannot help! Anyone who would make you feel bad for your disability is unworthy of your time. Wearing a diaper that is especially built for handling bowl incontinance like the Abena M4, or the Dry 24/7 is a necessity - these diapers are built to hold a mess and will do so in stride.

#3 - Know Your Diaper.

If you’ve ever ended up with wet spots on your pants in public, you most likely said “oh it can handle one more fine”. Knowing how many wettings a diaper can hold, and how to ensure a long and absorbant life of a single diaper can be the difference between a long and happy day out and about, and a very soggy, very premature ride home.

Generally, most ABDL diapers and most high-end, European diapers are going to be your ticket for all day, care-free usage. Your Goodnight will not be able to hold more than one medium size wetting without bursting, and there’s nothing worse than leaving a puddle in the grocery store ilse.

Also, it’s imperitive that you wear the right size diaper. A snug diaper is going to be much more effective than an ill-fitting diaper. Most often for me, diapers fail at the leg-gatheters, and a big diaper is going to fail much sooner once it starts sagging. They’re also much easier to hide under clothes when they’re a little more form-fitting.

#4 - Hiding Your Diaper.

Generally, there are a few things than can “blow your cover” out in public. First and formost, the infamous diaper buldge. There are tons of tips out there to eliminate the outline of a diaper under clothes, so here are some of our favorites. First and foremost, a full-length shirt and lose-fitting sweatpants or jeans can pretty much entirely shield a reasonable diaper from veiw. In fact, a diaper and a stuffer can be hidden pretty well by lose jeans, a long shirt, and a winter jacket no problem! A dress or skirt can also be your best friend when wearing out in public, but just remember that where the outline disappears, it can also be easier to see from the bottom - wearing shorts or a pair of panties over top can make this a lot easier.

Tip - if you do end up leaking in public and want to avoid the embarrassment of the tell-tail diaper wet patches, sometimes it’s best to make a scene. Spill a drink in your lap! Spilling a quarter of a water bottle will make it look like just a regular spill, and not like you’ve overused your diaper.

#5 - Have Fun! Just Not Too Much Fun

It’s important in life to learn the difference between porn and real life. It can be a huge turn on to show off a diaper in real life, and in some situations it’s fine! At a con or a munch, it would be perfectly acceptable, and even on Halloween if you wanted to baby up, fine! But please remember that others that aren’t participating in your kink should not be included. It’s a simple show of respect and decency.

bonus:

“Mommy, why are you and Daddy getting a divorce?”