i am LITERALLY char's wife trust

You got a traumatized f/o?

Great, imagine them having a nightmare about it so horrible they wake up on the brink of tears next to you, shaking, eyes wide, breathing heavy, but as soon as they feel you next to them, they soothe like nothing was ever wrong.

As soon as they hear your voice, as soon as they feel your hands, as soon as they know you're there, they know they're safe.

think about…. f/o voice…. them talking…. f/o saying things…. f/o saying “i love you”…. voicing their love…… f/o love you…… f/o talking about how much they love you…… f/o’s voice <33

antishippers dni

"this is a bad part of town, stay close."

"you have an eyelash stuck to your face. let me get it for you."

"there's not enough room, you'll have to sit in my lap."

"my hands are freezing. warm them up for me, won't you?"

shoutout to the selfshippers who find it hard to put things into words, and most of their thoughts are never realised in any way.

shoutout to the selfshippers that cannot ‘gush’ about their f/o(s) with no prompt, or that find it hard even with a prompt.

shoutout to the selfshippers that feel guilty about talking about their selfships for whatever reason that may be, whether you feel like you’re being selfish, annoying, or any other reason.

shoutout to the selfshippers that want to talk more about their selfships, but feel like they can’t, for any reason.

you are a valuable part of this community. you’re no ‘lesser’ for finding it hard to talk about things. it can be overwhelming. you are still incredible and your f/o(s) adore you so much <3

faces of the red comet

it’s been another year. whether it was enjoyable or not, f/o wouldn’t trade it for the world - because they got to spend it with you. they’re giddy over the idea of spending new years with you, and if you need it, they’ll absolutely reassure you that next year will be even better. they will make sure of it.

When there are things the both of you need to sit down and work on. If they need to actively think about the relationship, be conscious to make sure they don't accidentally push a new boundary you've recently set. If something you do makes them uncomfortable or hurts them. Something you have to talk about, to change. Your F/O wouldn't leave you for that

If you struggle to express yourself. If you lash out. If you experience psychosis. It might be somewhat difficult for them. They might not know what to do. Maybe you will need to have long talks about it. Maybe they will need to go out of their way to learn about it

REBLOG TO BONK YOUR F/O(s) WITH A CARDBOARD WRAPPING TUBE!

Tis the season~!

You are armed, go forth!