I don't want you to think

Okay but someone going from identifying as gay or lesbian to identifying as bisexual isn’t like…regressive in the slightest. That person didn’t “turn straight” or “betray the community”. They’re just figuring out who they are. It’s their self-discovery journey, not yours, and you need to understand that instead of getting riled up.

This also goes the other way: someone going from bisexual to gay/lesbian isn’t “proof” that bisexuality is a “stepping stone” or that bisexuals “pick a side” or whatever biphobic bullshit people are saying. They too, are figuring themselves out.

i hope that i’m more than just a stupid fruit to you…

*bottles up emotions* this coping shits easy