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Alternatives:

Ampersand, it's offline so you can't friend others like on simply plural, however it stores a lot of information including custom fronts & custom fields, has a journal, and is pretty close to what Simply plural is.

Pluralkit, popular discord proxying app/bot, can have fronters set but cannot have front history, logs, custom fields, etc.

Octocon, discord proxying app/bot + application. Has fronts and privacy features. Do not use if you are endogenic; the creator is anti-endo and has stated that it's not intended for anyone considering themselves as non-traumagenic.

Lighthouse, journaling website. Doesn't do fronting or front logging, it's specifically for journaling. Good if you don't want the front logging bits.

How to export simply plural data:

From the dashboard, click the navigation menu (left side of screen, three lines), click the settings gear-shaped button, click account, hit "export your data" and request data export. You will be emailed a .json file with all your data on it. It can be used for some* alternatives like Ampersand. Even if you don't plan on switching sites/apps for whatever reason, please export your data for safe keeping.

*Pluralkit uses the integration feature as well as tokens, to access integrations, go from your dashboard; settings -> integrations, then input your pluralkit token, then you can sync to PK.

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Hihi! I saw some hate blogs posting system ask games. We don't stand for hate around here because everyone deserves a space for their system regardless of origin. Without further ado- here's our version uwu. Feel free to tag systems that are okay with ask games!!

-Presley

🛰-Do you have a large headcount?

👾-Do any alters in your system have typing quirks?

🚀-Does your system have any Non-human alters?

☄️-Is your system neurodivergent?

🔭-Does your system use neo Pronouns?

🌠-Do any of the alters in your system have dyed hair?

🌙-Are there any nonverbal alters in your system?

🪐-Do any in your system have any unique roles?

💫-Do your littles use 'little speech'?'

🌌-Does your system have little to no amnesia between switches

🌟-Does your system have fairly clear communication?

🌘-Do you have a large or complex headspace?

🛸-Do you have any fictives in your system? What about Factives?

👽-Does your system have any tics?

☀️-Is your system bad at masking?

✨️-Do any in your system have an accent?

🌎-Do any in your system speak in a different language?

☁️-Does your system use things like pluralkit and simply plural?

⭐️-Are you out about being a system?

Tags below the cut:

*(it's what they call "you".)

(disclaimer: this is what works for us, but everyone is different and as such may have different needs)

⭐️ Punishments, isolation, and jailing do not work. Do not use them.

⭐️ Try to understand why your headmates do the things they do. Research where that behavior comes from, try to note triggers.

⭐️ Be conscientious of each others' triggers (front triggers and other triggers). Try to learn what they are. Never share them with outsiders.

⭐️ Don't try to internalize singlet-style relationship types. You will not fit neatly into boxes of siblings, friends, partners, coworkers, roommates, or lovers. You are headmates.

⭐️ Have individual headspaces AND a collective headspace if you can. You can have houses, doorways, statues, fucking trees, whatever, in a circle in your collective headspace representing your individual headspaces. This way you are all connected, but have your own spaces. Have a collective meeting space in the middle.

⭐️ Try to make sure everyone has a name. Even if it's just "The Blue One". Unless a headmate specifically requests not to have a name, of course.

⭐️ Headmates can communicate in all sorts of ways. Not just words, but images, emotions, internal and external body language. Be open to listen.

⭐️ When looking for a headmate's "age", you are really looking for: emotional maturity, ability to understand complex topics, ability to consent to sex, ability to cope with an adult life, food preferences, communication style, and headspace appearance. It is most often not a literal age.

⭐️ If roles aren't natural, don't seek them.

⭐️ Put clear, honest communication + understanding above rules and everything else.

❤️ Regarding romance: It is a societal construct. Highly likely not to fit your collective needs. Take from it what you want. If it doesn't serve you, let it go.