Trans* & Inter* Conclave Week Warm-Up Day 5: Words
A prompt about language. The words we use and the words that are used for or indeed against us.
Lint Roller? I Barely Know Her
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Xuebing Du
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The Stonewall Inn
I'd rather be in outer space 🛸
Sade Olutola

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Today's Document

Love Begins
trying on a metaphor
YOU ARE THE REASON

if i look back, i am lost
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One Nice Bug Per Day

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Trans* & Inter* Conclave Week Warm-Up Day 5: Words
A prompt about language. The words we use and the words that are used for or indeed against us.

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I think, at the end of the day, makes the CaitVi kinktober fiasco so interesting to me is not just the none kink left October, not just the purity culture of it all, not just the misunderstanding of what makes kinktober kinktober.
It's that in less than 10 years we've gone from 50 Shades of Grey being among the most popular franchises to trying to sanitize everything that could even be a little problematic. If you want to write cnc with a laundry list of ways to make sure you feel moral reading/writing thats fine. You want to run an event with those rules, fine but be prepared to clowned on. You want to call it kinktober that is a problem.
I just find it deeply interesting and troubling that people feel so comfortable to police others in not just Fandom spaces, but also kink spaces. Play spaces. Pretend spaces that are free from societal expectations. Acting as if depicting a messy cnc/dubcon/noncon scene is the exact same as wanting that to happen irl is just absurd to me. I cant imagine feeling the need to have such control over what other people write. And no, saving the children is not a valid reason to want a list of rules so involved. I was in several spaces as a teen that I maybe shouldn't have been in. I ended up on real written porn websites at like 14 (not AO3, actual lit erotica sites where there was basically all porn I still frequent tbh) and Im fine.
I find it deeply troubling that this is becoming the norm. Or maybe reasserting itself as a norm is the better phrasing. Its simply a dangerous game to assert what is exactly morally correct. Its a moving target. The circle will only ever narrow.
Porn is as old as humans. Weird kinks are as old as humans. Its normal and okay.
scan from 'Transsexual Engineers Monthly', vol 3, 1979
caitvi kinktober rebranded as caitvi nsfw month and moved its ass to november (and we all cheered) and they finally have the rules page back up so i can see the whole thing... obviously it's been modified but guess what...... they used the same doc and some prescient soul saved several snapshots of the url on the wayback machine so now i get to snoop to my heart's content... (for posterity's sake here is the archived FAQ as well)
highlights of changes made from vers 1 (unfortunately vers 1 was the only one that saved the full doc, so I can't really do a version by version comparison)
"if your work has the potential to be taken as a depiction of non-consent" changed to "if your work involves the kink of nonconsent"
added stipulation that CNC kink must involve an established relationship (the thought pattern I'm following here is that an established relationship would make it "look less like rape" which is hilarious)
rule that "it must be thoroughly clear that participants must be enjoying every aspect of the sexual acts" was added later
i think it's funny that the CNC rules are listed as "non-negotiable" when clearly there was some negotiating going on
"they can't be portrayed as animals" rule removed while "they can't be men" rule remains
nice to know that not once did their FAQ mention transpohobia as an issue that occurs in their fandom even tho I've seen plenty of complaints about the transphobia lol
all mentions of trans portrayals removed entirely
added to FAQ:
anyways at least they acknowledge they didn't actually know what kinktober was and that they wouldn't actually want anything to do with it. i still think the butch rules about vi reek of gender essentialism and crypto terf shit, esp since removing any mentions of the word trans is token crypto terf behavior. it does look less openly absurd to remove the "vi can be transmasc but not a transman" stipulations, which were a hair's breadth away from "we want transmen to say they're transmasc" radfem ideology. what remains is this conspicuous blank space with the implication that it's not exactly a trans friendly event, but i get the impression most trans fans don't wanna touch the event anyways, regardless of whatever rule changes do/don’t happen.
The concept of having an nsfw month for your ship is legit so fucking funny to me like that's literally Tuesday on AO3

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don't let this flop. monty python watchers what phrases have had the most impact on your lexicon. for me it's "what's all this then" and "other than that, perfectly normal"
My hovercraft is full of eels
I vill not buy zis record, it is scratched
Wink wink nudge nudge say no more say no more
It is now time for the parrot on top of your television set to explode
Blessed are the cheesemakers but in German:
„Ich glaube, er sagte, gepriesen sind die Skifahrer!“ -„Was um alles in der Welt ist denn so Besonderes an den Skifahrern?“ -„Ich glaube, es ist als Gleichnis zu sehen: Weißt du, meine Liebe, es bezieht sich auf die ganze Wintersportindustrie!“
Chleudert den Purchen zu Poden!
CARDINALCULE
a scene must be included PRIOR to sex where the characters READ their birth certificates OUT LOUD so the reader will know they were born on the SAME DATE to avoid any disgusting AGE GAPS
oh my GODS
sometimes you realise you're in love with your best friend and because you're insanely mature and also just insane you accept that because of the circumstances you both exist in there is no point in indulging your own feelings and you proceed to tuck your love for them into a tiny little box and pretend you never saw its contents in the first place.
sometimes you're not that subtle about it and your best friend realises but also doesn't do anything about it because, again, The Circumstances, and you are both best friends for five decades and it is the worst and best thing either of you have ever endured.
sometimes love is about being a coward and not wanting to lose what you have. sometimes love doesn't win. sometimes you're on your deathbed and at peace because at least you'll see him again, soon. sometimes love wins after you die. if you believe in god.
this is a lawrellini post 👍

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bellini who jacks off while thinking about thomas and goes to confession about it the next day and the priest is just like ''god. just fuck him. at this point that would be less of a sin. please. just free me from this misery.''
this meme is so niche
AO3 Ship Stats: Year In Bad Data
You may have seen this AO3 Year In Review.
It hasn’t crossed my tumblr dash but it sure is circulating on twitter with 3.5M views, 10K likes, 17K retweets and counting. Normally this would be great! I love data and charts and comparisons!
Except this data is GARBAGE and belongs in the TRASH.
I first noticed something fishy when I realized that Steve/Bucky – the 5th largest ship on AO3 by total fic count – wasn’t on this Top 100 list anywhere. I know Marvel’s popularity has fallen in recent years, but not that much. Especially considering some of the other ships that made it on the list. You mean to tell me a femslash HP ship (Mary MacDonald/Lily Potter) in which one half of the pairing was so minor I had to look up her name because she was only mentioned once in a single flashback scene beat fandom juggernaut Stucky? I call bullshit.
Now obviously jumping to conclusions based on gut instinct alone is horrible practice... but it is a good place to start. So let’s look at the actual numbers and discover why this entire dataset sits on a throne of lies.
It's that time again. Centreoftheselights just released their mid-year 2025 summer stats (why they feel the need to release yearly data twice a year, I don't understand). Please do not spread their garbage data and please send this post to anyone you see using it to actually draw conclusions about fandom popularity.
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Modelled after Trans Terror Week, this is a trans* & inter* event, run by trans* & inter* folks, to highlight trans* and inter* fanworks creators and their work. The event will be running for seven days from August 31 through September 7, 2025.
You may contribute fanworks (more on this below and in the linked Rules & FAQ post) or Creator Highlight Posts where you talk about yourself and your work! We'll share creator highlights on Day 1 as an appetizer.
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There is NO restriction on type of content! Art, fics, edits, playlists, videos, textile art, cosplay, ... everything is welcome! You can also make a Creator Spotlight post - a post highlighting yourself and your work, and we’ll give you a boost.
Submissions to our tumblr are open. You can also post to your own blog and tag your works #transclave and/or ping us @transconclaveweek to make sure we see what you've made!
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