wont Somebody think of the Men!?!??!??!??

misogyny is real and misandry isn’t.

men’s rights activists are self obsessed crybabies who do not understand social justice.

Every fucking thread of transphobia goes back to a fundamental need to cement completely immutable sex categories so cis men can assert themselves as superior on some level

Trans women are seen as perverse degradations of the male ideal, people who "chose" womanhood, who are read as women for persecution but not for protection, who are sexualized and assaulted the same as any woman. "Choosing" womanhood is so unthinkable in our misogynist society that brains scramble to think of why anyone would do it, and every trans woman is living proof that womanhood is empowering

Trans men aren't allowed in the club, because if masculinity can be "earned" instead of granted, it implies that men aren't intrinsically superior but made and maintained, and that someone who could have been a good little baby maker housewife realizes that that's not the fate they want

The concept of TMA and TME is simply easily understandable and Just True. It's Just True. It's very obvious. Every time anyone, literally anyone tries to give a Gotcha! for it they fail because you just explain how it works again. It's both simple and effective and getting its point across

A downright absolute menace who wants to paint trans women as the worlds biggest bogeyman is able to go about her day and post some of the most vile shit I've ever seen. This of course after straight up stealing her entire concept from a trans woman and butchering it to make it more transmisogynystic than it would have been if they just stuck to the original idea

Honestly. I'm at a fucking breaking point. It's so goddamn hard taking any TME person who doesn't actively engage in transfeminism seriously. I am unable to see any person who says something along the lines of "don't start infighting" as anything other than a transmisogynystic chant at this point.

Why is it that when we try to point out that we are being mistreated all anyone can do is say "Hey, buck up. We have to stick together. Who would you have if you didn't have us. And you won't have us if we can't mistreat you"

We aren’t women to any of them, we aren’t people, and we sure as hell could never be the *actual* victims. All any of these freaks can see us as are predators and rapists and abusers in waiting.

the absolute fucking audacity of storyweavingspider to take a screenshot of ME calling out mousidy's insane behavior and turn it into THIS??? the "TMEs really think we want to sleep with them sooooo bad" line from mousidy is so profoundly, deeply rapey on its own, but then they use it to postion literally ALL TME people as habitual rapists who just endlessly coerce trans women into "comptop"??? it is so sick.

and lets be real for a single second: when people like mousidy talk about "TMEs" or try to lump nonbinary people into a neat little binary, they are specifically talking about trans people with vaginas. they constantly try to position transmascs and trans men as these monstrous, predatory tops who are forcing transfems into using their penises. but if they actually want to talk about "comptop" and sexual pressure?? why is there so much intense pressure for transmascs and TME partners to top with a strap?? why is there absolutely zero discussion about compbottoming for trans people who have vaginas when that is literally the natural other side of that exact dynamic?? it completely betrays everything mousidy actually thinks about our bodies.

"You only think trans men have privilege over you 'cause you're mad you're not a real woman."

WHAT.

I have never read something this dismissive and condescending. This is such a fucking vile thing to say. Speaking over trans women, dismissing our oppression, tacitly misgendering us and implying we don't know what we're talking about all in one, condescending, disdainful paragraph. Fucking. Hell.

feminism is a field of study that has decades of scholarship, thought, and debate, but believing that women are oppressed by men under the patriarchy is just a “flawed interpretation of reality”.

you can’t even call this TERF rhetoric at this point. there’s no feminism.

and the conclusion they’ve reached here is, what, “feminism wouldn’t exist if it weren’t for you damned trans women”? since apparently all of the effort put towards feminism scholarship and women’s liberation in all of it’s entirety trying to “gain gender affirmation”.

I'm not content to just vanish and leave it standing and causing harm wearing the name of something I created, though, so I've tagged all my posts (and some from other transfeminists) breaking down its issues as #TMVP. a read through this tag should prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that this is not a serious project created with survivors in mind, it is just a hate campaign

...you know, if the fact that it explicitly only accepts submissions if they are about transfem abusers wasn't enough to convince you

I will be back, and so will transfem voices project. but for now. goddddd I need a break

and I need to truly actually commit to taking said break this time...!

like just drop the fucking facade you are not fooling anyone. you made this blog to fear monger and promote hateful content about women.

Transmisandry does not exist.

Trans men are not systematically oppressed for being trans men.

They are systematically oppressed for being trans.

Why would a conversation about how trans men aren’t oppressed for being men “mean” anything when it comes to trans women?