to be clear for most women this is not even about kobe bryant the person. it’s about watching a ton of men you know performatively grieve a guy they never met who violently raped a woman and got away with it. which means they are morally bankrupt on the topic of rape. any woman who isn’t lying to herself will look at that and think “so would this guy not believe me if someone he admired raped me? would he not care? doesn’t look like it.” and this happens literally every time one of these guys dies! they just usually don’t die so young and tragically, kicking off an endless all consuming news cycle about how great they were.



















