@cinemaisgay​

love is insane you feel like you're always subtly asking "do you still love me even though i'm flawed" and the answer just keeps being yes

honestly even if ur 100% monogamous its healthy to be able to like... discuss your own attraction. your partner shouldnt be getting wildly jealous over you having the hots for a celebrity or fictional character, and if your partner thinks your friends are good looking that shouldnt be panic attack inducing. thats like... normal? its normal to notice when people are attractive?

like ok be miserable but me n my bf will be laughing together over which pathetic fictional man we'd have as our third if he were real

I wish i could hibernate because i would very much like to curl up in a cave under a tree and sleep soundly for a few months

ive known so many “cis” people who’ve told me they thought they might be trans or nonbinary but they dont really experience dysphoria so they felt like they werent allowed to call themselves trans. how many people have had to live their lives in the closet because they were told they werent in enough pain

i’ve said it once and i’ll say it again. EUPHORIA is the greatest identifier of a trans person. not dysphoria. dysphoria is hard to define and thus it’s hard to regulate what is and isn’t dysphoria. but euphoria? that feeling u get when someone uses the right pronouns? that “i can’t contain my smile” sort of joy? THATS what the trans experience is all about. that’s what unites us

anxiety dampened my euphoria for a long time. still does—getting correct pronouns is mixed joy with a feeling of imposition, like i’m asking too much. that’s a valid response, too. it’s okay if it’s not pure, undulated joy. if it brings you some margin more happiness, then you’re probably moving in the right direction.