Wolfstar things + thoughts of a Slytherin girl

Snape: He's dangerous.

Remus: He's lost.

Snape: He's insane.

Remus: He was tortured.

Snape: He's terrifying.

Remus: He's confused.

Snape: He probably stinks.

Remus: It's hard to shower on the run.

Snape: He's probably got it out for me.

Remus: You probably deserve it.

Snape: He's a scary angry murderous death ea-

Remus: He's A PRECIOUS CINNAMON ROLL YOU-

I want you to reblog this if you believe that two people can be very close and physically affectionate with one another, but still have a completely nonsexual, non-romantic relationship. 

Even if the two people in question are capable of being sexually or romantically attracted to one another. 

Remus: Yeah?

In the old days we didn’t call this managing mental health, we called this managing being an adult.

See, I’m five years into adulthood. I have a college degree (a few in fact), a car, insurance payments, a job, yada yada. I ostensibly joined the Grown Up Club a few years back.

But, having grown up with a number of undiagnosed disorders and mental illnesses, I never learned a healthy style of self-talk.

If I’m honest, between depression and anxiety, the way I grew up talking to myself was abusive. I’m not kidding; if the things I thought to and about myself were said aloud to someone else, it would be considered verbal and emotional abuse.

So this idea of treating myself like a small child? With the same loving firmness and compassion?

This is a radical idea for me.

This is me learning to stop those abusive thought patterns, and talk to myself in a kinder, healthier way.

And it doesn’t have much to do with adulthood. I know adults who have treated themselves unkindly this way for many years. A healthy relationship with yourself doesn’t just sprout once you’re an adult; you have to develop it.

Remus: How high are you?

Slytherin, mumbling: wasting our lives

Lily: Sirius said "Nice weather" and you said "thanks", didn't you?

Sirius Black: “I broke out of Azkaban at the age of 33″ Gary Oldman, age 46: “AZKABAN AGES YOU, BACK OFF”

Severus Snape: “When Harry Potter started school, I was 31 years old” Alan Rickman, age 55: “Look, being a Death Eater is rough on your skin”

Severus Snape again: “When Lily Potter died, I was only 21″ Alan Rickman, age 65 but with extensive CGI: “This is nOT bETter”

Harry, startled: JESUS!!