I need endless attention

Ranchu & Spring flowers

When my boyfriend and I hit serious enough for the kids to know they had one concern after my husband and I explained: so are we going to get more presents at Christmas?

Adding another parent figure to the family, the idea that you can love more than one person, our family dynamic being different, they could care less.

Gaining another set of grandparents and therefore more Christmas present was the only thing that mattered.

Another pro: More parents means the kid will have more people spending time with themA possible con (for the kid): too many dad jokes, endless “go ask you [other parent]” loop

Well one day this asshole who had been kind of tagging along with us asks her why she talks like that because it makes her sound dumb and I still remember her response word for word.

“In Russian I am so intelligent and clear. In English I am like [an] idiot”