live laugh selfship

I'm an adult (in my 20s), have been a self-shipper for as long as I can remember, and wanted to create a safe space for all self-shippers.

you can use my asks/inbox as a confession booth, or just to talk, or to share your own imagines that you don't want to post on your own blog, or whatever. you may vent about self-shipping and/or fandom stuff. please do NOT vent to me about your personal life. if you're trying to start some sort of drama (call-outs and the like), I will delete your ask and block you.

I try to tag my potentially triggering posts and reblogs as well as I can for filtering purposes. if anything is ever missing, please let me (kindly!) know!

also, I'll definitely post and reblog things that are at least suggestive or even explicitly sexual. I ask minors to respect my boundary of not having them interact with said posts. I'll tag them accordingly with #nsft selfship and #suggestive for filtering purposes!

I'm pro-fiction, anti-harassment, and anti-censorship through and through, always have been. I'm also pro-paraphilia, but absolutely anti-harmful-contact! I'm a fictophile myself, after all, so fellow paraphiles have my support!

do not harass people! block anyone that makes you uncomfortable. I use my block-button very freely. if I've blocked you, it's nothing personal.

most importantly: always be kind!

now, some basic ground rules before coming into my inbox:

you both stay up past midnight, so they wish you a happy birthday the second the clock strikes zero. they may cuddle extra long with you in the morning. they make your favourite foods for you (or order in, pick-up, go out with you, etc.). <3

every present they give to you is something you've wanted, but didn't dare ask for. maybe they just pay such close attention to you that you never even had to say something about it. maybe they knew you wanted this, but wouldn't ask for it, so they made sure to surprise you with it. no matter what it is, you'll have/get it if they can make it happen. <3