hey stranger

The best thing I ever did was stop trying to water myself down to make myself softer or less aggressive. I naturally have a strong presence & I own the space I take up in this world even if some people think I’m too much.

internalised lesbophobia got me looking shifty and uncomfortable whenever other women change in front of me because I’m like “do I have the male gaze?? should I leave???” and the women are like “oh it’s just us girls so it doesn’t matter” but I feel really disconnected from that kinda feeling because of my lesbianism???

fifty shades of text me the fuck back

i think……..one of the many problems in how sex is perceived in society is that we seem to think its this “skill” like people are very anxious about getting experience or practice or whatever wrt sex but that’s not really how it works, it’s a fundamentally an expression, a conversation; two-sided, subjective, situational, and figuring out what works for everyone involved, as opposed to being just another objective talent to master for all situations as if its one-size-fits-all without consideration to your specific partner

we are all in our early 20′s beating ourselves up for not having perfect beautiful apartments and wise carefully curated hobbies and self image! there is no rush!

I’m tryna eat fruit and walk around a lover’s house topless cos the summer heat be ridiculous. i’m tryna be laughing and giggling at inside jokes with my lover. tryna be laying in they lap as we watch movies, stealing a kiss here and there. i’m tryna be in love, vulnerable, and content.