PolyamProud

The polyamorous community is currently represented by an outdated pride flag. We're moving into a new era of polyamorous recognition and visibility and as a collective, we deserve to choose an attractive and inclusive flag to represent our community instead of accepting the flag we've inherited.

PolyamProud is a growing coalition of volunteers dedicated to making that happen.

I have crush on this guy, but this guy is in a polycule with 2 other people, I don't know if they are in a closed relationship, and i'm only really close with one of them but i want to get to know them all better, but how do I ask if they are open??

I don't want to ask them out if they are in a closed relationship, but I'll never know if I don't ask if they are open, but if I ask and they aren't then it might be obvious that I'm into them??

Do you have any advice?

Heya anon!

Of course we also have some cute little pixel animations as part of our GIFS!

Feel free to use these if you’d like.

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[Image Description: An image set of 2 square pixel GIFS 

Image 1: A GIF with a transparent background. In the middle of the GIF is a square speech bubble with a pink outer border. In the middle of the speech bubble is a black background with a white polycule symbol in the middle of it. The speech bubble floats up slowly and then comes down again quickly with a slight bounce effect. Image 2: A GIF with a transparent background. In the middle of the GIF is a square speech bubble with an outer border with the colors of the progress pride flag. In the middle of the speech bubble is a pink background with a white polycule symbol in the middle of it. The speech bubble floats up and down repeatedly.

This kid gets it 🖤 Comment your favorite polyamorous moments in mono-centric media 👇👇👇 👉 What you can expect from this page: • Polyamorous & nonmonogamous content • Pride flag & flag design content • Relationship advice & self-love content • Information & updates about our initiative 👉 DM us an intro with your skillset to tell us how you can help our team of volunteers! Thank you so much for following. you and your participation are so, so valuable to us. 🖤

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[Image Description: A set of 2 square images. 

Image 1: At the top of the image is a white box with left-aligned black text inside which reads “not even a little sorry for reading polyamory in every piece of mono-normative media.” Beneath the box is a black and white screenshot of the film “Belfast”, a 2021 coming of age comedy-drama film written and directed by Kenneth Branagh. The screenshot shows the main character, a young boy named Buddy, at the left side of the image looking at a young girl at the right side of the image. At the bottom center of the image are white subtitles, showing what’s being said, which read “...That’s what I want.” At the bottom right of the image is bold italicized, small white text which reads “belfast”. Beneath it is thin white text which reads “2021 kenneth Branagh”.

Image 2: The image shows part of a script.The text is left-aligned and starts with italicized text which reads “her”. Beneath it is some black text which reads “2013″. And beneath that is the director’s name in black text which reads “spike jonze.” On each image of the script are character lines. All the names on the script are shown in capitalized, centered black text. The lines for each character are in left-aligned black text beaneath the character names. Starting from the top the lines read: Line 1 reads “Pop: What do you want?” Line 2 reads “Buddy: Every night before I got to sleep when I say my prayers, I ask God[...] when I grow up, can I marry Catherine, even if she loves Ronnie Boyd? But she could still see him. But she’d marry me. That’s what I want.” 

Another simplistic GIF to add to the polyam collection!

Feel free to use this one if you’d like.

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[Image Description: A single square GIF with a transparent background. A red polycule symbol becomes visible starting from the left side of the image and going all the way to the right. The polycule symbol apears into view as though it is being painted as it goes from side to side. The polycule itself has some white strokes left over in the hearts to look like brush strokes.

Hey there anon! It is quite normal to get into disagreements from time to time, especially if there are a lot of partners involved, and it can be hard to figure out how to get past those disagreements. Not everyone might be comfortable with a certain level of affection or showing their relationships off.

Another one of the polycule GIFS of ours!

Feel free to use this one if you’d like.

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[Image Description: A single square GIF with a transparent background. In the middle of the GIF is the polycule symbol in pink on top of a white circle. From the left side a banner comes into view which becomes entirely visible as the fade in effect wipes all the way to the right of the image. The banner is white and has black text on it which reads “Polyamorous & Proud”. After a bit the banner fades starting at the left and wipes all the way to the right until the banner is gone again.

Compersion is something that might take some time to start feeling. Not everyone feels the happiness of seeing their partners with someone else immediately when it comes to polyamorous relationships.

The best way of dealing wiht jealousy is finding out what actions exactly make you feel that way and then taking little steps to see what you can change to get rid of that feeling. Again it takes time to deal with these feelings and it might be frustrating but you can definitely learn how to deal with them.

You can find some advice about dealing with jealousy through some of Polyphilia's tiktoks for example! Here are some of them: https://www.tiktok.com/@polyphiliablog/video/6984147992152444166 https://www.tiktok.com/@polyphiliablog/video/6969509303673769221