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the stars, the moon

baraphalloplastyclinic

I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?

Don't become a housewife.

ladyfoxfire

And if you do become a housewife, take steps to protect yourself. Make sure you’re legally married, for starters; stay-at-home girlfriends have very little legal recourse to claim their partner’s assets in a breakup. Make sure your name is on the house deed/rental agreement, and have your car in your name, even if your spouse is paying for it. Have your spouse transfer money every month into an account solely in your name, so you can buy yourself things without needing permission, but also so you can save up to leave if needed.

If your spouse fights you on any of this, then don’t quit your job. The tradwife to poverty pipeline is real, and so is financial abuse.

dressedupliketheking

also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. don’t risk thinking “he’s just stressed, it’ll get better when the baby comes” because it won’t. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can

byjove

I am so fucking serious about more medical shows needing to be sent in poorly funded hospitals where the staff is fighting for human life AND an uphill battle against the hospital itself. I think so many popular medical shows being set it frankly utopian university & research hospitals with cutting edge tech and the ability to run any test and do any procedure paints a false picture of what medicine is like for the majority of people.

plotting-against-the-patriarchy

Look up Under Pressure, it's a Brazilian show set in an underfunded public emergency hospital in Rio de Janeiro, pretty sure it's available on prime video and apple tv. It has 5 seasons and a special edition set during the pandemic

keikomivra

KNIVES OUT (2019) Dir. Rian Johnson

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dragon-in-a-fez

"there's no such thing as the dark side of the moon" yes there is. the dark side of the moon isn't always the same parts of the moon, but whatever side of the moon is facing away from the sun is dark. imagine saying "there's no dark side of the earth" when billions of people are experiencing nighttime at any given moment. shut up Neil

formerlyluckymanticore

pros of having a large vocabulary: many words i know

cons of having a large vocabulary: many words i only know the vibe for

polaroidpaladin

I can't count how many times I've researched a word because I don't know exactly what it means, only vibes

elucubrare

You’ve heard of “i didn’t say it was good, i said i liked it,” get ready for “i said it had some technical problems & didn’t fully deliver on its themes, not that i didn’t like it”

elucubrare

#I voiced a criticism of some of its aspects#which in no way implies I did not like it#“and especially does not imply that I would like to hear a defense of it of the form 'shut up and let people have fun'”

REALLY endorsing these tags from galileosballs

prokopetz

Gives my OC a twelve-inch cock for comedy reasons.

prokopetz

@6-and-7 replied:

now that's what I call slapstick

Ancient Greek "satyr plays", in which members of the chorus would wear belts with enormous leather phalluses attached and sometimes thwap each other with them for comedic effect, are often cited as an early precursor to contemporary slapstick comedy, so you're not making a pun here so much as you are simply literally correct.

creatingblackcharacters

Funny enough, I've been dwelling on this for a bit now. I think, after two years of doing this, it's finally starting to click why things like cultural appropriation and stereotypes are... Difficult for y'all to grasp. Why me saying you have to understand WHY things are the way they are, in order to avoid them.

It's because y'all keep treating racism as individual acts and not a systemic form of oppression.

creatingblackcharacters

And it's not like I didn't say it before in my earlier lessons. But we need the reinforcement, and that's okay!

Antiracism is not a checklist!

Racism is not a checklist!

Stereotypes are not a checklist!

Appropriation (and avoiding it) is not a checklist!

You cannot "well if I don't do that, then I won't be racist!" Your way out of racism. Sorry. There is no easy way out of participating in racism. There just isn't! If you don't know WHY something is racist, you'll just end up doing something else that's a problem for the same reason, because you're treating it as an Individual Act and not understanding the systemic weight behind it.

"[description] is a stereotype" why? WHY is it a stereotype? WHY is it racist to unironically think and convey this sort of description about a person? "Black women being on welfare is a stereotype" damn so poor Black women should just starve rather than be a stereotype? Their existence is bad? They should never see themselves and their stories in anything ever?

NO. The stereotype isn't because there are Black women on welfare. The stereotype is from people already believing that Black women are lazy and incompetent and greedy, and using them on welfare as an example to reinforce that existing bias.

The racism is in the interpretation, in the treatment of this woman, not the woman herself! Are all Black women on welfare lazy, incompetent, and greedy? No? So then why would it be a stereotype to write about a Black woman on welfare, unless you were conveying that you, too, believe this message about Black women on welfare?

This is one of those things where you realize that white gaze I was talking about a couple weeks ago. Where we can watch endless movies about white men kicking in doors and shooting civilians, and somehow understand that that doesn't represent their entire demographic (despite there actually being some statistics towards it)... But a Black person on screen represents the entire community. 😐 WHY? That's the systemic part!!

creatingblackcharacters

I'm not yelling bc I'm mad, btw. I'm very passionate about this topic. Gotta say that before anons come on at noon.

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creatingblackcharacters

I can't remember where I read it last week, but the person discussed how when we think of chattel slavery in the US, we tend to think of massive plantations of cotton or tobacco, with one very rich white master or mistress with lots of land and lots of enslaved people. But we very rarely think of the many families that had just one or two slaves, in smaller homes.

Because it's not like you had to pay them, so once your family owned someone, they owned them and their descendants indefinitely. Could you pay and eventually free em- sure! You could also send them anywhere you want for any labor you want, could have an enslaved woman bred for more children, or maybe save up and buy new slaves and sell the old. Like cattle (thus, chattel slavery).

So it's interesting that many people go "oh well it's not like my family owned slaves!" Because like, one, how do you know that? Have you ever actually asked your grandmas about their grandmas? How many of your family members grew up with mammies? Have you ever asked? I wonder how many people have actually done the digging for the truth (or was it easier to just benefit). Because I've talked to my grandma, who picked cotton in the sea islands. She had to have been doing that for someone in the 1930s and 40s!

And two, it's easy to think that because your family (or someone else's) didn't own sprawling stolen land and generational blood money like a plantation owner, that it wasn't as important. But... It was. That was still someone's entire life. That was a person, whose labor benefitted and saved a family money that could be used in other ventures. How often do we think of them?

spidersinmysoup

Breaking news: i had to explain to a first worlder that killing people is wrong even if its to be able to pay for college

byjove

I just saw someone say “You need to read a book intended for adults.” instead of “Read a different book.” to a Harry Potter fan. Big fan of that.

byjove

The reaction to this post is making me realize I need to start saying this immediately.

byjove

I can’t believe there are people in this world who find ‘ambitious’ people attractive. If I was on a first date and the person I was talking to was like “Yeah, I’m an entrepreneur. It’s my dream to be a billionaire.” or “I plan to climb the corporation ladder to the top.” I’d be like ‘Ew, that’s disgusting.’ that is a terrible goal for a life partner to have.

byjove

“Well, doctors-” I’d never date a doctor either. Lol.

byjove

Thank you for articulating this because I think people were misunderstanding the post! There is a difference between having a passion and wanting to get to the top just so you can look down.

biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist

"nobody likes a complainer" you say, like an idiot, as if thriving ecosystems of friendships aren't blossoming every day based solely on people vocally disliking the same things in similar ways

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biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist

*reaches out my hand in love & friendship* come be a Hater with me

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pukicho

The best part of the beach is pretending to fight the ocean by beating the shit outta them waves

pukicho

I always lose but it makes me feel important, and it’s fun

pukicho

I'm pushing 30, why

#i thought puchiko was an ageless entity #like has been here forever and will be long after everything is swallowed by the sun or smt

galileosballs

The nice thing about solar power is that once you've built a solar farm the sun does not then need to be shipped to you through a series of international shipping lanes that can be cut off by other people's governments in response to the actions of other other people's governments. The sun is not subject to the stupid decisions of people you did not vote for in response to the stupid decisions of other people you did not vote for. The sun does not need to go through the Strait of Hormuz.

Even if you don't care about any of the other arguments in favour of solar power, this is a really good argument in favour of solar power.

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